What to do if you love a specific girl?

Malkuth’s reply is as practical as it gets, lol.

What do you mean “more practical terms”?

He’s basically telling you to grow a pair of balls and alpha up. Lol

Your entire post is based around chasing and neediness for 1 specific woman.

I would recommend Ascension and/or GLM.

Stay away from subs like Libertine, Heartsong and Love Bomb.
You need inner development and foundation.

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PS is not efficient for you because the outer game doesn’t matter if you don’t have the inner foundation.

You need higher self worth in regards to women… not attractants and outer game.

Jumping from program to program all the time is a form of self sabotage.
You have weak foundation and are prone to self sabotaging.

Whatever you do, in my opinion you need to run a Alpha Male title for at least 6 months like Ascension or something.

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Sounds like a few people I know on this forum :eyes:

Don’t be the person chasing two rabbits and catching none.

Remain focused and diligent on your sub journey. Ascension for 6 months is way more powerful than running every title for only one cycle.

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What specifically do you want to accomplish?

(I’m not telling you to grow a pair.)

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That’s so true… I’ve seen you recommend Ascension a lot, well done. Of course people aren’t going to listen and continue to mindlessly jerk around but hey, at least their poor choices aren’t being made out of ignorance.

It sometimes takes a while for men to really figure out that 99% of their problems come from being a beta male with no masculinity whatsoever lol. They kind of have to go around in circles trying to figure things out and then it finally hits them. Lol

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:100: completely agree!

If everyone on this forum dedicated at least 6 cycles to running Ascension and Godlike Masculinity.

The bullshit petty drama and fighting would be solved. Everyone would have leveled up so much and we’d be having high level conversations on how to improve beyond our wildest imaginations.

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:clap: :clap: :clap:

Lol

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Instead I have to get into debates with people who can’t even dedicate themselves to one full cycle before getting shiny object syndrome….

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Date other people. Create situations where you can really have fun enjoying and getting to know someone(s) else. (This will work wonders. But try to be careful that you don’t just switch to ‘falling in love’ with someone else instead. The idea is to gain greater skill and confidence walking the tightrope of interpersonal attraction without falling off.)

Set hobby- or dream-related goals and immerse yourself in them.

Explore and develop your independent passions. Things over which you have greater control. Shift some of that heart-energy over to your own kingdom, rather than planting it in someone else’s.

I can see what you mean now about practicality. I was describing ‘principles’ to you, and you’re looking for ‘actions’.

So, see how those work.

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I think Primal will be the right fit for you for ths following reasons stated in its Objectives:

  • Romance manifestation — find yourself around women who are madly attracted to you.
  • Develop a highly sexual, sensual, sexy, carefree attitude with women.
  • Eradication of social anxiety and approach anxiety in particular (mental worry and anxiousness over every detail in the interaction).
  • Experience complete nonchalance and enjoyment of everything you do, especially in social situations.
  • Eliminate all mental and emotional blockages preventing you from becoming a highly sexual, sensual and sexy man.
  • Develop a sense of relaxed optimism, knowing that all is well.
  • Enhance your ability to have fun and be a fun person.
  • Create a mental shield against any and all forms of perceived rejection — never feel sad after rejection, or let a past rejection prevent future romance / social attempts.
  • The uncanny ability to be physically and mentally completely relaxed at any moment.
  • Automatic passing of social testing.

These will help you be carefree and fun especially in the presence of women you are highly attracted to. That unchained nature is attractive to all women and shows that you have options.

Plus Primal will build an excellent base for you for all your romantic endeavors.

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Probably being more self-confident would help, among the posts I’ve read so far you all recommended Ascension. I had started Primal but at the moment I don’t feel the self-confidence that I needed.

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I have been running it for 15 days but I am not getting the desired result from it, I am not feeling confident.

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Truth right there. People would do a lot better if they considered six months the minimum amount of time to run a program.

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brother, wait for 3 weeks. you will see very minor improvements, first of all, in your mindset. big outer changes start from huge inner changes.

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Run for longer please. You could consider combining it with Limit Destroyer.

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2 things, 1. You cant expect a sub to instantly makesuch complex changes and fight years and years of bad programming. It takes time

  1. You need to take action to make changes happen. While a sub will definitely help (and it usually pushes you to take action as well), you wont see the big changes untill you actively start working ti become more confident. Map out in your head what a confident person looks like and how he lives his life like, and go immitate that. Do something outside of your norm to really push the narritive that youre not the same person anymore.
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Okay, so you have a shot. Your fate is not sealed!

1 cycle of Limit Destroyer is still paying dividends for me. It was one of the first titles I started with, would highly recommend it. It’s very underappreciated.

Confidence is something that grows like a flower, so don’t worry too much about how you feel after only 15 days.

Also, what are you doing to improve your confidence? You need to open pathways to manifestation, so could you think of anything, any action you could take, to help build your confidence and allow primal to express itself? To put it another way, how can you open pathways to manifesting confidence? Are you part of any social groups, where you might be able to build confidence by being more social and talking to people? Maybe you have hobbies and you could spend some time with those to build your confidence? How about work? If you happen to work in a highly social setting, that could be a great opportunity to spread your wings and allow yourself to express/build confidence.

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I’ll stick to it then. I was thinking if it would be a good idea to add Ascension to it.

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And she has a shot with you.

Here @FoxDie

Look at this sentence:

“This girl would be very fortunate to have the chance to be with me.”

Don’t read it quickly. Read it slowly.

Read it a number of times.

Every thought that comes up, every mental or emotional barrier that comes up, when you read that sentence, is telling you what actually requires your attention right now.

What I’ve just written above is not absolutely true. But it’s true enough to reward you for working with it.

And it’s not either or.

Both of these should be true:

She would be lucky to get with me.

and

I would be fortunate to be with her.


It’s actually kind of foolish for me to be typing this.

If you’re in love, your judgment is probably already shot.

The dopamine. The serotonin. The oxytocin.

They’re all a lot to deal with.

Most likely, your body-based, instinctual cognition is already running the show.

But it’s still worth it to reflect on accurate, true things. Even if you can’t use them at this exact moment.

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Surely. I don’t expect subs to change me overnight and I know it takes time to change, it’s just that after 15 days I expected at least a little bit of results or a little change in how I feel and what I am. My feeling with primal at this moment it was more of a downgrade and i felt more fragile so far, maybe it’s just recon? As for the action, I happen to go out often and be and talk to people. However, I just have to have a little patience and act, I would say that there is nothing else to do.

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