And she has a shot with you.
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Look at this sentence:
“This girl would be very fortunate to have the chance to be with me.”
Don’t read it quickly. Read it slowly.
Read it a number of times.
Every thought that comes up, every mental or emotional barrier that comes up, when you read that sentence, is telling you what actually requires your attention right now.
What I’ve just written above is not absolutely true. But it’s true enough to reward you for working with it.
And it’s not either or.
Both of these should be true:
She would be lucky to get with me.
and
I would be fortunate to be with her.
It’s actually kind of foolish for me to be typing this.
If you’re in love, your judgment is probably already shot.
The dopamine. The serotonin. The oxytocin.
They’re all a lot to deal with.
Most likely, your body-based, instinctual cognition is already running the show.
But it’s still worth it to reflect on accurate, true things. Even if you can’t use them at this exact moment.