Ive never met a person who represses their sexual energy and has an aura of joy, vitality and hapiness.
Ive never met a person who masturbate/have sex compulsively and has an aura or joy, vitality and hapiness.
Ive met people who for many reasons (no fap, spiritual, sickness, etc) deny themselves of every form of sexual expresion and they all had a heavy burden of frustration around them.
The only people Ive met that dont enter those categories are the ones that have understood that the solution resides at another level. Sex is not the problem, but a life of religious indoctrination most of the times is.
Shame, guilt, fear and anger are great ways to remove someones power over their own life and in that state people become easlily controllable.