EmperorQ is up your alley @Grimm1390. It is all focus on yourself.
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@SaintSovereign recommended EmperorQ for dealing with your helicopter parents and being your own independent man.
Thing is, no matter what anyone will recommend, if you go into it once and quit (it isn’t me, my parents won’t like me, another sub is better) nothing will change for you.
You want to be your own man? The tools are there for you. All you gotta do is commit to it.
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I plan on running emperor v2 since it seems the most harsh and the most anti social. I agree though the tools are there it’s up to me to take action.
With that I’ll update in 30 to 60 days In regards to my progress
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EmperorQ is so much more powerful than v2…
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Do not use Total breakdown as it raised my libido. I suggest limitless. Perhaps limitless with emperor.
Yeah, Khan raise libido as hell 
You are right, everything Khan related should be avoided!
For me, no sub had a habit breaking impact for nofap. I’ve run EmpV2,V4,Q starkQ, KhanST1,ST2,ST3,ST4. I used to relapse in like 2 days(lets not forget I am 18). 5 days was a bloody achievement for me.
I read this book called “your brain on porn” and after understanding the consequences of fapping and what it is doing to me and it made fapping a bit of a “turn off” if you may.
It might not work for you but it also may.
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Personally, and take my opinion with a grain of salt, I masturbate like once a week, no porn, I do not watch porn. But the masturbation keeps me in contact with my sexuality and the wires for my libido.
I do not think Nofap is a bad movement. It’s great for energy and focus and other things. The guilt that comes with masturbating sure is bad tho!
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@Rapsta fucking salute. Your 18 that’s crazy. keep pursuing excellence and your future you won’t regret it. I read your brain on porn and listened to the author Gary Wilson on podcasts talk about pmo. YBOP is a must read for any person dealing with this issue. It’s great your at the age of 18 and not 28 etc you realize this is a problem and freeing yourself from it.
unfortunately for myself I’m 29 been fapping to porn or pmo substitutes since I was 20 or 21. Sometimes fapping 8 to 9 times a day. It’s Almost a decade I been dealing with this issue. For me reading a book won’t make me stop fapping once and for all. For me personally there’s reasons why I fap. Ultimately we use pmo to take care of ourself. It’s a form of self care. We pmo to take care of our needs.
There’s reasons I fap if I’m not tending to those needs in healthy ways and if I’m not active in my recovery I will relapse sooner or later. My last relapse was because I was not active in my recovery and didn’t plan for how I was going to deal with being tired and having to stay awake for 2 hours.
People can use willpower or brute force and that can get you to string some days together of Nofap, sometimes weeks, sometimes months but sooner or later a relapse will happen.
if you can knip this issue In the bud for good bro and not tag on few more years of fapping or even worse have this issue be a on and off issue throughout your 20s, this can be huge for you.
@GoldenTiger that’s good bro if it works for you then keep doing it. I’m at a point where I’m to far good if I fap I open the floodgates plus it just numbs me out and blunts my senses to life.
Post fap or post nut depression is real thing man
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I know Q is more powerful but I’m going with V2 cause it was the one that made people the most anti social and the one that made them not care about girls. They were all about purpose. This is what I’m looking for right now
Ao you do not watch porn at all?
Well I just relapsed few days ago 7 times and watched it 7 times. I was 70 days of no pmo up until Thursday.
Outside of relapsing and binging I avoid porn or porn substitutes like I avoid feminists or a women with red flags.
For me fapping or watching Porn is not healthy sexuality for myself
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I know the Christian, Taoist sexuality and now nofap movement dogma of not splitting the seed at all. One of my gurus who was also trained in reichian therapy had a different opinion. He said you should masturbate often to get over the guilt and shame connected to it.
Honestly I don’t know if masturbation is as bad as it has been made for centuries. I only know from my own experience that I get massive bursts of anger if I do not masturbate or have sex for a few weeks.
Maybe that would get better after a few months of celibacy. But I have a life to live and can’t run around angry at everyone all the time.
It could also be about how you masturbate. Do you do it with love or as if you hate your genital. Sex therapy could help.
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Are you able tu masturbate without porn?
No. I’ve tried tons of times it leads me back to my bad habits
You get massive burst of anger because the sexual energy is trapped in Your balls and Your not doing anything to move it. anger, frustration etc is blocked energy. the sexual energy needs a outlet if your leaving that energy To sit in your balls and not using it for positive outlets, that sexual energy will find a outlet to leak out and free itself even if that outlet is a negative one, fapping, pmo, edging etc.
This was a major issue of mine, when on Nofap my anger and frustration sky rockets, anger and frustration are on my Nofap threat lists to my recovery.
This is a semen retention Channel but what he says about anger etc still applies
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In fact I practiced Taoist sexual practices of moving energy into the head and transmuting it, storing it in the belly. Still angry outbursts. Probably some energetic blockages.
Interesting topic.
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To transmute that anger, frustration, aggression etc you can learn a martial arts, do something physical Etc doing something creative with that sexual energy is moving the energy and having it circulate throughout your body. There’s different ways to move the energy like a lot. dropping and Doing push ups right then and there until you can’t do anymore is a way to move the energy. I do agree though the anger fully never goes away. Or at least I’ve never been able to fully free myself. Here’s a good vid on how gods delt with anger from celibacy.
On my Nofap streak I was dancing in my room because I wanted to make sure the energy was moving in my body. When I was home and pissed off I would dance or shadow box. These were my ways of dealing with the aggressiveness of Nofap. I plan on buying drums soon, that will be another healthy outlet for my anger and sexual frustration
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I masturbate at least once a week with or without a woman but i never masturbate to porn. I use my own imagination. Masturbation can help increase testosterone and can help prevent certain forms of cancer. Not all is bad 
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Lol. I masturbate more when I have a girl than when I am single. It is like the more I have sex the more I get horny, the more I have sexual energy. I tried nofap for some time (a month or so) and I lost all my libido, and could not get any erection.
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