What’s the best subliminal or stack to fully focus on purpose and stop pursuing women?

#130

@Grimm1390 - i can understand. NoFap and Money are the two big challenges for me. Right now, am using Elixir Ultima and RegenerationQ to heal myself. There might be physical healing but the unexpected side benefit was that I was being emotionally healed.

I noticed that am fapping way less and that when I do start, am not going all the way. Possible that as EU+RQ is making me emotionally mature, am not needing such validations anymore. So that addresses my NoFap issue.

Will be starting EmperorQ in 2 weeks time and hopefully by then I will be ready to take on the challenge of Money.

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#131

Yes i did notice my body felt stronger and full of energy…

You maybe also getting busy that theres no time to fap…also when u think of fapping you feel terrible…thats healing from the sub…

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#132

One thing with emperor do you think The challenges it brings to the surface can be a problem for Nofap ? The frustrations and testing that emperor brings into your life could lead you into fapping to cope with the challenges. Maybe you can run both elixir and emperor so you get the best and both Nofap goals + money goals. Just pay attention to see if emperor throws your emotions and feelings around, I know emotions and feelings can be a trigger for some people to fap, for me certain emotions and feelings definitely do.

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#133

@pacman - Yes. I have noticed that my mind gravitates to wanting to do more productive work.

Must be because: less of an inner hole to fill implies being more whole. And hence doing more of the right things.

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#134

I thought being busy would be a good way to not fap lol so far I’ve worked 14 straight day, I barely been home, But when I get home I’m tired and being tired is a trigger for me so my thinking isn’t on point, sometimes I want a reward and some excitement after coming home from work so I end up fapping, lol this happened unfortunately several times over the last 2 weeks. Then again if I had built up momentum and wasn’t stuck in the chaser effect would I have still pmo ? :face_with_monocle:
I agree though if your acting out place is at home which is for a lot of people getting out of the house is a great tool to use

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#135

@Grimm1390 - will definitely keep that in mind. If I do find myself relapsing a lot as a coping mechanism when EmperorQ throws challenges in the way, I will use EU+RQ along with EQ. Good tip.

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#136

Change that reward…
Replace it with a trip to a bar or a dance cafe just to talk to women dont think of sleeping with them at all.
Or
Play some sport in that time to get even more tired and sleep.
Or try going for women you know you can easily get and make them let you off…

Basically you need to change your reward system. It will take time but must start now.

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#137

emperor has the anti porn module and emperor was built to focus on wealth, status, masculinity etc so your sexual energy is being directed towards these areas. The problem with emperor though when it comes to Nofap even though it has that anti porn module is the challenges it throws, those tests could have someone fap to cope with the challenges which also weakens emperor because your sexual energy is being depleted.
Our seed it what drives us, pushes us to step out of our comfort zone, take action etc when we’re emotionally numb from fapping or just wasting that energy by releasing I think emperor can’t fully be unleashed.
It needs our sexual energy, our seed, our essence to help push us to greatness

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#138

Use what ever u said in that post and preserve that seed and what how you change.

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#139

I’m mgtow for now. I made women to much a priority in my life, but I agree I’m working on changing that reward, for me it’s dancing singing, walking in nature
, journaling, attending recovery online meetings. I’m stuck in the chaser though so my primal brain Is coming out on top of my logical brain these days

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#140

PS:I was once a very well disciplined fapper :grin::grin:
When i started with subclub it gradually changed. The urges came strong i pushed myself away even more. It does come now and then but not as strong as before.
Now i crave really women. :sweat_smile:

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#141

@Grimm1390 - yup. That’s why I will keep that in mind since the main reason why I relapse is to “feel good” especially when am feeling down. I have built a good streak now and intend to unleash EmperorQ on my world.

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#142

Just a thought but maybe khan st1 could be helpful for Nofap. The description says it will destroy anything that holds you back trauma or concepts. khan st1 plus healthy behaviors could be helpful for Nofap. We fap to self sooth and take care of our needs. We have reasons we fap such as x,y,z. Khan st1 could help break those down. I was thinking out loud and thought i would write it out here, could be helpful for someone

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#143

I suspected as much due to my personal experiences with Emperor, but is this actually verified or is this musing on your part?

#144

From saint

“As for the anti-porn module, it’s because Emperor is a much larger subliminal, so you’re getting less of an exposure to that potential module.”


Ascended mogul has the anti porn scripting as well but since the script is smaller and less dense than emperor it’s reasonable to say the anti porn scripting in AM comes off as more powerful than in emperor

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#145

I agree the only problem is that heavy lifting increases testosterone which makes you horny which makes nofap harder for some.

#146

I would say you gotta do something with that sexual energy you can’t leave it sitting in your balls. Sexual energy needs a outlet, can be creative or whatever if you just leave it sitting there it will find a outlet even if it’s a negative outlet to find a release example pmo

#147

Thanks, my guy!

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#148

Maybe in the beginning of NoFap, as you aren’t used to the levels of T that your body is producing because of the habit, but this stage passes. As you probably know, some people go through a “flatline” state, a sort of reconciliation as there body is adjusting to the abstaining. Myself, I rarely go through flatlining and get terribly horny for a bit before I get accustomed to it and that changes to greater energy levels.

Plus, testosterone only increases within the body to a certain level naturally before the body levels out with a week’s period, so this wouldn’t be an issue for too long.

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#149

About 6 weeks ago I approached a girl, I was super awkward but I got her number. I texted and she gave me the “ I just broke up with my bf and I’m not looking for anything I should let you know “ “ we can be friends “ the day I approached her she was going to church. I texted her When I approached her I said the last thing on my mind was I wanna be friends with you. I told her take care and that was it.
Well I just randomly texted her out of Boredom and out of loneliness if I’m going to keep it real. She went on how she was talking to me about her friends today etc and how she felt bad how things ended with us etc I called her on it and said it’s BS. She’s just saying that cause I texted her. She went on about it, so I said it’s probably a sign from the universe we should link up. She said we should meet up for coffee or a drink.
I don’t know if she wants to convert me to her religion cause she said I should go to her church, I don’t know if I can get sex or anything from this girl.
My blue pill betaness started to creep back in. I started having thoughts of she must be a “good girl” “quality “ because she goes to church “ etc
Until we talked some more and and the blue pill thinking that was creeping back in was bursted with my red pill self coming back because of what she said.
She said she used to be a church girl and then started drinking a lot, and sleeping around but now wants to find god again. Shes late 20s. Just like rollo said the ephaniny phase. she rode the CC and went through her party years and wants to get right with god now. Everytime I try to maybe question the redpill it slaps me right back in the face.
She was making rules for me like we can be friends and she’s not looking for anything of what I said I wanted to do to her. I deleted her number.
women break rules for alphas make rules for betas.
I’m not going to be that beta guy who she makes rules for while when she was sleeping around she was breaking rules for alphas.
I don’t know why sometimes I 2nd guess the redpill. I think part of me wants to still believe girls have some decency in them.
it’s crazy though when your not looking for girls that’s when these situations pop up.
I won’t be a captain save a ho for these women.
Again this is why I need to remind myself focus on purpose and wealth and fitness forget girls, girls in the states are not worth it

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