Weaponised sex from porn

Actually am actually confused, why ?

I am always feed in WhatsApp and telegram (let me say my mentors) mostly all talk about redpilled men.

The case been well built (making money) and in status before involving your self with feminine drama . That case had made me not to put so much interest into relationships with the Feminine.

As one of your “gurus” I need to chime in here.

Because I know you always take things TOO literal.

See, on Twitter and wherever people post DEFINITE STATEMENTS all the time because this gives the most engagement → more growth → more money.
But less solutions to the people reading it. Which is why I dropped Twitter.

It’s bs.

Life is nuanced.

Yes, the idea is “correct” that you should spend your 20s building your business and then LIVE life in your 30s on a yacht with 20 supermodels.
Yeah, sure.
However, you really think you’re gonna spend your horny 20s not railing some girl(s)? Come on.

The answer - IMO - is as always in the middle. Don’t let building your empire be interfered by women. Yes, learn why they won’t sleep with you, and have real sex. But always put your own life first.

When in doubt, choose purpose.

IMO!
I know other people think differently.

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Yeah actually I take things literally. Mostly due to society upbringing and how the school is structured, garbage in garbage out!!

I now get what you saying, having a balance between both sides is beneficial. Not lacking in one side completely in the name of getting your self better.

At some point I noticed I actually don’t live in the moment, I always surround my self with all this self help stuff, to the extent that I see fun as waste of time (unless I have made a billion dollars).

I no more live in the moment!!. At one point I told my self am ain’t having anything to do with the Feminine or marry if I don’t make huge sums of money. I no more watch movies,comedies or any fun activities. But that’s actually a sad way to see life.

Thanks for your Input.LESSON LEARNT.

I have this character of always taking things too seriously, no sense of humor, barely laugh, so structured like a robot programmed a certain way, which I don’t find pleasing.

I need to adjust this lifestyle before it gets too late. Getting old and not enjoying my youthful days.

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Please tell us why you want to stop PMO

  1. alchemist stage 1 is helpful on this it will I crease your willpower.
  2. Spartan from the description (didn’t try Spartan )
  3. paragon is helpful on this also

I would suggest
Spartan + paragon

If you can’t for now to have those titles

continue with ascended Mogul + Mogul

The proplem with PMO is not just a habit , it’s a complete lifestyle and attitudes Aim at lifestyle makeover not just breaking this habit

This smart move , any title includes shreds of sex will make you relapse (Ascension, emperor , wanted ,stark etc ) those are not right choices for any one targeting NO-PMO

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Do I need to start telling you? Come on man , everybody knows this COGNITIVE DISSONANCE that happens when the mind did not correspond with the feelings of the body, one becomes sad, lethargic,sad, depressed,moody, anxiety.

No benefits in Porn and other stuffs associated with it.
It leads to misery and lonely life!!

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These subs might actually be beneficial, but right now I want to focus on Wanted and Ascended Mogul for 1yr , so by that I will have enough cash to purchase all this multistage subs.

I bought wanted due it’s physical Shifting tech, I might drop it of when hero is out or stack both.

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No I don’t need the surface reasons , you need to know your deep deep reason . Do you have a burning desire to stop porn for a deep desire in your heart .

Or you just need just to break the execssivnes of PMO
Let me put it this way

Is it okay to have PMO once a week ? Will you consider this as an achievement , progress or no
Is it okay to have PMO Twice a week ?
Is it okay to have PMO Twice a month ?
Or you want to cut it completely for 1 year ?!
You get the idea . What progress looks like for you only :slightly_smiling_face:
What are you aspiring to ?

Sorry this wrong , you are driving benefits from PMO . And you cant have those benefits in other ways . You must acknowledge these benefits and work on solving them .

Solve this :point_up_2::point_up_2:the circle starts here

Lonely life and misery lead to PMO

This is great choice :+1:

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:joy::rofl: That’s a nice question. Actually since 2017 when I started my nofap journey my highest streak is 6 months so I like to hit a year or two as my next achievement!!

This is something I have been practicing for long time, I want longer improvements also I got medical exams I promised myself not involved in any thing concerning the Feminine sexuality at this period of tension.

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I think my problem is this. Currently I live a kind of strict or monk life. I barely have dopamine from other sources apart from playing pes football games or reading books.

I can’t remember the last time I made a new female friend and the worst part Is that I don’t even see the reason I should. I always see them as distraction.

My mindset towards the Feminine is complicated.

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This impressive :muscle::muscle:

I think you know the keys to longer periods of NO-PMO :face_with_monocle:

Wishing you the best in your journey :blue_heart: :pray:

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I don’t excessively Pmo though. I l want to totally stop it!!

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OK I have to ask you this; are you playing PES 2021 or are you actually playing efootball?

I stopped gaming literally because of Konami, can’t do it anymore lol

Uff, this might be the issue here.
I think you need to heal your relationship with the feminine.

All men have a feminine side, all women have a masculine side (we even carry both hormones, just less).

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with women lol
Weird saying this, but they are ONLY a distraction IF YOU let that happen. Other than that, they just ARE.

So you need to learn to accept women for what they are and you need to accept YOUR reaction to their sexuality. They make you horny. It’s normal. Don’t try to suppress your sex drive since you can’t lol. Accept it. It is a part of you. You need to learn to live with that energy circulating, and not trying to get it out immediately.

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Yes!
Hunting for root cause may take so much time.
Reshaping the present behaviour seems to be faster. But it is not so easy.

Porn stimulates one of the fundamental needs of humans - the sex as the reproductive function, which is placed by Maslow at the first level needs (which is different than emotional intimate sexual relationship from the third level of needs).
So a hard wired need in our brain is genuinely stimulated by just watching the sex (in fact watching any skill/behaviour could improve your performance in that field).
But the porn industry developed so huge scale as nothing taboo is hidden anymore, in other words the brain is exposed in a sudden manner to a sureal environment, with which has not been used to in the human evolution. If porn wouldn’t exist today in what measure could we be involved in this huge stimuli sex activity? Very less likely.
So anytime watching porn the dopamine-adrenaline level increases so high, higher than any of our ancestors experienced in their real sexual life.
Combine porn with masturbation and there you have the perfect cocktail which for a few moments sends you in a state of being very very “high”. And usually when it comes back (after ejaculation), you go very very “low”, as higher highs needs lower lows to balance the hormonal activity.

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I play Pes 2021 on my laptop.

Yeah actually letting the energy be and letting it go because I am not my Emotions. They come and go.

That’s why porn is a WEAPON!!. Because of the novelty and the polygamous nature of man, we are more likely to get hooked to it because it displays different shapes and types of women in one swipe.

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Yes.
I wonder how many women watch porn, in what measure and what is the drive for that.

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Barely. Their primitive drive is not based on what they see.
Their nature is based on attention and praise which they get from INSTAGRAM and other social media platforms!!

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