I just read the thread about BDLM and would like to give some input.
I myself have been part of what is called the Penis Enlargement Community for many years. It probably started in 2008, when I searched the internet for methods to get a bigger penis. I came across several and those of you who are interested in that area probably know them too.
At that time, my measurements were 13 cm long and 11.5 cm in circumference. I was married, the children were small, so there was not really room to make a real program. I was the one who woke up first and started the day for the rest of the family. Here I had a little time. Maybe five minutes to do a little jelqing and some stretching. It just quietly became a morning routine. In 2010, my ex and I chose to separate, and I had a lot of catching up to do with a lot of women after 17 years of marriage.
One of the first women I was with commented on my size with the words, it’s just the perfect size for me. I had known for many years that I was a good lover. At that time, I had never received a comment about my size.
So the next day I took measurements. I had grown and measured 15 cm in length and 13 cm in circumference. I was shocked to say the least. When I started, I had no faith that it would work. There are many articles on the Internet that say that it is not possible.
I was happy. I had always wished that I was bigger. Not only for myself but also for my partners. I returned to the PE forum and started following a regular program. The development was rapid. After two years, my measurements were 17.5 cm in length and 14.5 cm in circumference. That was almost a doubling of my size. Believe me, I received many, in my opinion, positive comments from women I was with.
It strengthened the motivation to make it even bigger. Here I had reached a plateau. I switched from one program to the other. Nothing happened for two years. Then a new product came on the market. The Bathmate. In all the PE places they talked about how amazing it was. I decided to buy one. It was the worst idea I had ever had. With great anticipation I received the product and opened it, and now I had to start making it even bigger.
I was very disappointed. At the tip of a Bathmate there is a nozzle that allows the water to run out and air cannot get in. This is where the pressure is created. It was broken. I wrote to their Customer support. Who wrote back that I should read their FAQ and send some pictures of the product. I wrote to them that I could not possibly take a picture of something that was broken inside the nozzle. I never got an answer.
I finally got it to work. It went really well. In five months I grew to 18.5 cm in length and 16 cm in circumference. Very big penis.
I had always followed the method the company recommended and which I had also read on PE forums. One morning after I had pumped and got out of the shower, my penis was in pain. It was like there was fire inside it and there were blisters all over it. Afterwards I couldn’t get an erection for three months. I wrote to the company again and got no answer.
Slowly my erection came back. I took several types of supplements and promised myself never to do PE again… ha ha ha.
In 2019 I took my measurements again. I now measured 16.5 cm in length and 14 cm in circumference. I obviously hadn’t learned from the injury. So just slowly I started my old program. It was quiet and calm. My program is 5 minutes of stretching and 5 minutes of jelqing every other day. It the same as with muscle building. You grow when you rest. I can see its the same with subs.
That’s it.
Now measure 19 cm in length and am 15.5 cm in circumference with only manual exercises. This is followed up with visualization. I definitely think that with BDLM or another program it will grow faster. It is actually incredible that it can be done. I have grown 6 cm in length and 4 cm in circumference.
As I have written in another thread, I am 60 years old.
Over the past year I have experienced that my erection starts to decrease after about 30 minutes of intercourse (here I have not included the other games that take place before intercourse). I am not particularly happy with that.
That is why I sought out a tantra sexologist a few months ago. To hear her assessment of the situation. After we had talked for a 40 minute period, she gave me a super delicious lingam massage that lasted about 1.5 hours. She ended the session by saying, there is nothing wrong with your erection, but because of your size you need a lot of blood for it. You should either take it very slowly when you have sex or make sure that the muscles that are all the way around your lingam are always in top shape. Note taken.
I don’t know anything about whether Subs work to make the penis bigger. However, I know from my own experience that it is definitely possible. I followed up on what the sexologist had said, and true enough, there is a tendency among men with a large penis to lose their erection faster if they are not in shape. Another difficulty is that you have to buy condoms in large sizes. The regular ones squeeze all the blood out and you go limp in five minutes.
Regarding subs, I myself have experienced that my erections have clearly improved by only using Emperor Daddy. That’s after just over two weeks. Pretty crazy. Better than yellow and blue pills.
But believe me, it’s one of the most amazing things there is. When your penis is bigger, you notice the woman you’re with much more and if you also have an understanding of how to use it, you become a hero among many women. The recognition and praise I’ve received for both the size and use of it is indescribably affirming.
I myself have no desire to get bigger. There are already quite a few women who have been hesitant about having to receive it. There is actually a forum online for this. Many men, like myself, think that having a big penis is a dream. It’s not… ahhh that was joke 
Go for it. You will feel so much more confindent in the bedroom and when you do that you will also feel much more confident arount women.
Have fun getting bigger and bigger 