Wanted dream lover social boy QTKS

Journals - Custom Subliminals
#21

I was listening to a lecture about overcoming your limits and the lecturer said something that really stood out to me that made me have a “aha moment”. He said that certain personality types, have a tendency to project their reality on to others. Then I realized when I hit recon I tend to project my inner world outwards and start to feel like why do people not like me…but in reality it’s me who doesn’t like me. I mask what I feel inside because dealing with the reality of it is too painful and brings back painful childhood memories.

So what do I do?

I project my problems to others because it’s easy to blame others…“they don’t like me because I’m getting better”, “they are trying to sabotage my success”, “they are losers” etc…

but I’m learning to heal

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#22

I don’t know what happened this past couple of days but I relapsed and binge watched porn and masturbated and every time I did I didn’t feel anything. This happened three times in one day. Afterwards I felt like shit but also like my libido was way higher than I thought like when I was running WB or khan.

I’m guessing this custom is hitting on something deep because I usually don’t get this way unless I’m running a heavy healing title or a sexual sub

I just seem to have endless sexual energy

is this normal on a custom like WDB, LB and inner circle

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#23

I keep forgetting that I have I am Atman synergy in my QTKS and part of its main thing is to bring up things holding you back and I learned that yesterday when I relapsed on porn hard. It’s something I’ve struggled with since I was young. I think I resort to it when I’m very stressed and need a quick release or when I genuinely feel lonely, or when I’ve been rejected and don’t feel good enough.

I also think I self sabotage when I’m making great strides and close to success. It’s like climbing the ladder, seeing the top of the mountain only for someone to kick the ladder and you start tumbling down…and fall face first.

You almost don’t want to get back up and climb the ladder a second time

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#24

Interesting, it seems you’ve encountered another opportunity.

You don’t have to tell me, but

What do you think tried to kick your ladder?

#25

I think it’s the old me resisting(kicking the ladder) the new me thats emerging. I keep getting this feeling like I can’t reach the level of success that I want and that I will be miserable in my complacency…but then there’s another side of me that wants to change that and knows that the opportunities are endless.

Every day its a battle between the two

I can tell one or the other is winning best on how I self sabotage. This usually manifests through thoughts, behaviors and emotions that are contrary to the person I want to become and evolve into.

edit:

This usually gets better after I’ve ran a custom for a while

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#26

I added LE yesterday, just out of curiosity and I didn’t realize this till today but I had three situations where I had three different encounters with three beautiful women all in different occasions on the same day. I didn’t have to “pursue” or “chase”. Two were at work and work related and the other one was not at work. I wasn’t feeling confident though and felt low self esteem, probably from watching porn the past couple of days, which always fucks me up emotionally when trying to talk with women. It’s almost like I put them on a pedestal, in my mind, which seems to give off a weird vibe to them.

LE might be a permanent addition to my stack which I plan to run for 5 years minimum

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#27

QTKS is a sneaky bastard. You almost forget that you are running it because everything that happens just seems normal and the total opposite of the sub club shop subs that are in your face.

Like I had coworkers wanting to hangout after work. Had a woman at work ask for my number, at first I thought it was nothing because I was at work and she was asking something related to work but when I looked back I realized that she was trying to get more than information about work.

For one: she tried to spark a conversation during a weird time. Literally was trying to help someone who had passed out cold and was talking to the firefighter guys

two: at first she was asking about what happened to the guy then when i got distracted and ignored her she tried to get my number just in case so I can help her with something else related to my work. Mind you I’m at work

third: she didn’t even speak English, we had to use google translate just to communicate, so it wouldn’t have worked out.

Then, the same day, at work, when a husband and wife with their kid came to ask me a question. Tell me why after the husband finished asking me a question, the wife comes up and does the same, literally the same question. The husband literally had to call her over, like hey I already got the all the information needed.

I’m starting to feel like the LB is having its effect or maybe its the WDB…who knows but I hope this doesn’t get me in trouble with a horny wife because women sometimes get carried away even when with their significant other next to them and forget themselves :joy:

Again this is all subtle which I enjoy because if it was all up front and in my face, I would probably be not ready for such obvious results. I had something like this happen before when I ran WB long time ago. Had obvious in your face results but the days after and the recon was brutal. Its like short term big results with no substance

QTKS seems like how the brain changes, more natural, small results that lead to life changing permanent results…at least thats what I’m guessing

Now the only question now is…how can I go from the guy who hasn’t had a relationship for awhile to a guy women beg to be around, a guy women crave, tell their friends about

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#28

So I decided to add Hero sage and blade to my stack. I had a situation where I needed absolute confidence and invisibility to remain calm and composed but cracked under pressure…in the worst way possible. Also a little discipline and fearlessness wouldn’t hurt especially when confronting my fears…which has been difficult especially because when I try to, I get overwhelmed and back out…like genuine fear deep inside. So this is going to be an interesting run to say the least

edit:

I also believe the part of the script where it says keep others in your circle safe I feel is huge and the reason why people, not just women, gravitate to guys who make them feel safe…which usually starts with the guy being confident and calm…which I lack in stressful situations. I crumble and it turns women off especially when conveying a dominant presence only to be a wimp when stress arises

#29

@themadsexyscientist curious I’m asking everyone but how’s your results with a QTKS custom compared to a normal custom?

Are you seeing faster and more wow/mind-blowing results? Would love if you could share as I’m planning to make a EoG: True Sell QTKS custom when the new one is out (I have my Manifestation QTKS custom but I see that in a different world compared to customs where there’s a archetype like in this case).

Also would love to hear you results comparing QTKS to normal custom as far as physical shifting results if they we’re faster and if you saw the physical shifting results you wanted more than a normal custom.

#30

QTKS is not for everyone looking for “in your face” type of results. I mean of course you will after you run it for awhile but the point of QTKS is to have subtle relaxed results that build to more impact…and with way less recon. Like when I ran my emperor stack with my custom I had 60-70 percent recon. When I ran the store sub I got 100 percent recon. Results were obvious, recon was terrible. On QTKS there’s no discernible recon from QTKS…at least before…now there’s definite recon because I added two store subs.

I would save money and run the custom first for a good while, something I wish I did, then switch to QTKS

QTKS is more subtle and saint has said this too in earlier posts too. QTKS was never meant to be an in your face type sub

QTKS is very subtle. One day you just wake up and realized you manifested a solution to something that was bugging you and it slowly builds over time.

I will also say, usually when I run a healing sub, it takes a washout to see results but I’ve surprisingly seen small results here and there during this run.

QTKS also feels lighter, I’ve even thought it wasn’t working because I didn’t feel anything.

There’s also an urge to run QTKS with full loops because it feels like nothing…then you run full loops and realize nope, wasn’t ready for that at all lol

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#31

I got hit with some heavy recon but still felt above average confidence and calmness even when I was faced with a situation that usually brings me to a fight or flight reaction( Hero origins)

I just feel like everyone is avoiding me or doesn’t like me at work, or see me as a loser(recon from HO)

Was super motivated to work out the past couple of days then it faded

I don’t seem to care anymore about “dating gorgeous women”, if it happens it happens, if it doesn’t then oh well, life moves on.

I was so thirsty for results that I realized that I was doing things just to get the attention of someone who didn’t even like me. Now I’m just like fuck it, I don’t give a fuck…if you like me cool, if not, oh well

I relapsed hard and watched porn due to the stress I was feeling, then felt like crap afterwards.

It’s like seeing where you are now and where you can be and seeing the big gap in between.

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#32

Congrats, your perspective is shifting

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#33

Why does this mindset switch work so well? Is it an in-built feature of Wanted.

Is it a case of wanting something so bad that pushes it away?

I’m going past the initial “wow baddies!!” stage and wondering why this mindset works.

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#34

There’s an esoteric principle that lusting for results projects insecurity and reinforces the negative thought patterns that sabotage outcomes. Detachment creates space for new patterns to take root. When combined with action and self-reflection, results flow naturally.

This isn’t necessarily a built-in feature of Wanted, but a similar idea runs through its scripting. The healing and identity work develops internal validity: you stop looking to external sources to confirm your desirability. This was literal for me. I stopped checking if women noticed me. I stopped hoping my crushes were thirsting over me. I stopped caring if people wanted me.

Now, there’s nothing wrong with the “wow baddies” mentality. I gush over baddies all the time. often to their faces. The problem is letting your self-worth hinge on whether they gush over you.

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#35

I agree what @heartmadeiron said

If you think about the guys who have success with beautiful women, they seem to not really care about women or what the women think of them. If a woman likes them they are like oh well, and move on.

While guys who have never been laid or struggle to, cry over one woman, stalk her, become super needy etc.

When you know you can sleep with any woman you want, you just stop caring overall, what others think

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#36

Today I found myself browsing on the store for boxing equipment…must be Hero origins

  • feeling 1% more confident today

Also taking bodybuilding seriously and looking to build muscles

#37

It isn’t quite that that black and white. Plenty of successful men making sleeping with gorgeous women their entire personality. They’re still seeking external validation; they just have an easier time getting it. So, it only takes a couple bad nights out for those guys to come undone. Wanted turns that search for validation inward.

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