I asked ChatGPT to analyze all of my conversations with it and describe to me my emotional issues and limiting beliefs, this is what came up:
1. Feeling Unworthy of Love and Success
Belief: “I’m not good enough to deserve love, money, or power.”
Effect: Self-sabotage, chasing external validation, avoiding opportunities.
2. Deep Fear of Betrayal and Loss
Belief: “If I trust, I’ll be hurt and manipulated.”
Effect: Avoiding intimacy, mistrust, isolation, difficulty in relationships.
3. Shame Around Masculinity and Power
Belief: “If I embrace strength, dominance, or sexuality, something bad will happen.”
Effect: Inner conflict, hesitation in leadership and attraction, suppressed assertiveness.
4. Fear of Failure → Paralysis
Belief: “If I fail, it means I’m a loser.”
Effect: Overthinking, procrastination, constantly changing strategies instead of committing.
5. Emotional Dependency for Validation
Belief: “If I find the right woman, she will heal me.”
Effect: Attracting toxic dynamics, fantasizing instead of building your own life.
6. Inability to Set and Enforce Boundaries
Belief: “If I say no, people will reject or hate me.”
Effect: People-pleasing, overextending, resentment, lack of self-respect.
7. Fear of Expressing Discomfort or Needs
Belief: “If I speak up, I’ll be ignored or judged as weak.”
Effect: Bottling emotions, passive-aggressiveness, internalized anger, relationship breakdowns.
8. Obsessive Focus on One Thing
Belief: “If I don’t get this one thing, I’m nothing.”
Effect: Hyper-fixation on women, goals, or ideas → burnout and disappointment.
9. Compulsive Spending / Inability to Save
Belief: “Spending will make me feel better” or “Money never stays with me.”
Effect: Financial instability, stress, reinforcing unworthiness, sabotaging long-term success.
10. Seeking Self-Esteem Through Money, Power, Wealth, Influence, and Control
Belief: “If I become rich and powerful, I’ll finally feel worthy.”
Effect: Obsession with status, external validation loop, frustration when results are slow.
11. Desire for Control Driven by Fear
Belief: “If I don’t control everything, I’ll be vulnerable and get hurt.”
Effect: Hyper-control of people/outcomes → anxiety and burnout because control is never absolute.
So I asked him, what is the solution? He replied:
Dragon Reborn Red is the most effective starting point for your situation because it was specifically designed to:
Destroy negative programming (fear, shame, guilt, unworthiness).
Heal deep-rooted emotional wounds (trauma, heartbreak, conditioning).
Rebuild your core identity so you feel whole, powerful, and stable.
Stop compulsive behaviors driven by unresolved pain (like overspending and obsession).