GPT PUA 
What did it say were the other age tests you might be getting soon?
Just variants on age tests in seeing how I hold up.
Sheâs been doing it less. Until today. I put on some pheral Attraction cologne again. First time in a few days.
Instantly she started age testing again 
Submitted to support yesterday. Waiting on response still of course. Will update once the answer hits.
le support question
Which cores and/or modules might be best to help develop the courage to tell current partner Iâm leaving, as well as develop courage to tell another the true depth of feelings for them?
OR, with even store titles, what might be a good store title stack to do this?
I figure custom would be best but Iâm open to any ideas.
le support response
This is Fire.
Godlike Masculinity, Heartsong, Emperor. Most alpha titles will help, as will romance titles.
Heartsong especially comes to mind as itâs focused on matters of love.
Regards,
â SC Support
Thereâs another girl at work (at the store) Iâll call Apparel Girl (lol).
Iâd seen her around, thought she was kinda cute.
I havenât journaled quite as often here lately as I was diving in on a program called âThe Power Switchâ by Alex Allman. Where he talks about 5 core traits that, the more a man embodies them, the more women will be naturally attracted to him.
He said it seems to be physiologically driven. Primal wiring, etc.
Anyway, Iâve been diving in on developing those traits as much as I can within my current level of growth/development. Thereâs a sub product that is designed to help bolster all 5 traits at once as much as possible too.
Basically, right away, once I started, this girl starts talking to me out of nowhere. From zero to telling me her life story, her sexual history (both good and bad), and just all-around talking as if weâd known each other forever.
Weâve been talking on and off for about 3 weeks now. She told me she liked a guy at work in passing, and it just happens to be the same guy who hemmed and hawed for weeks to ask Cart Girl out, and then the way he asked her out was by starting out âIâve had feelings for you for a while nowâ LMAO.
I KNOW for a fact this guy has zero game to speak of. Just from working with him and the shit heâs said.
Iâve kept a solid frame around her this whole time thus far (thanks to Allmanâs stuff mostly, along with Iâm sure whatever bloom from washing out of SubClub stuff for a few weeks now).
One example comes to mind. I went into the store between salvoes of carts, to say hi to her at her register.
And I was gonna cut through the store to get to the other end to get carts gathered over on that side.
She says âAre you going outside?â
Me: âYeah. headed that wayâ
She: âIâm going on my last break if you wanna go with me.â
Me: âAightâ
So she goes and sits outside on the little planter ledge like she usually does. I stand there, weâre just talking all sorts of stuff.
Dude (he doesnât even get a name haha) comes by and interjects into the conversation. Mind you, this is the guy she liked (past tense for a reason Iâll explain below).
Sheâs telling me about family member and their motorcycle.
He: âWhat kind of motorc-â but she kept talking to me.
He did that 3 times or so, she finally looked at him kinda annoyed looking âA HarleyâŚâ
then looked right back at me.
My social awareness is off the charts in this moment, and I realize in real time that heâs basically trying to make himself look good in her eyes.
At one point, sheâs telling me about some of the stuff she is good at cooking.
âPork chops, steak, grilled cheeseâŚâ etc.
She briefly mentioned how her ex ruined her on cooking for the longest time by expecting it and never appreciating it.
Dude jumps in with âAny good man should strive to be equal and help his woman out around the house. Cooking, cleaning, etcâ. she looked at him kinda annoyed looking again âYep. But we all have our strengths.â
She kept on listing (to me) more food sheâs good at making. and itâs all stuff I enjoy eating. I said âYouâre basically just listing out nothing but good things about yourself here. 10 points to you!â
she laughed her ass off.
She was legit favoring ME in convo, instead of the guy she thought she liked at that time.
I say liked, because I basically got them âtogetherâ at one point. Told him (earlier that day actuallyâŚthe sidewalk day) that she liked him. I think maybe she was testing me when she told me she liked him, to see if Iâd get rattled.
I just said âIâll hook you guys upâ. Passed that test. but like I mentioned above, heâs nothing to worry about.
I told her a few days later I told him because of a sense of morbid curiosity. I wanted to see how he handled her.
And cut to this week, he imploded his chances with her by basically being himself.
I have a ChatGPT conversation going about this as it unfolds. ChatGPT knows exactly what my gameplan is, lilkened it to a chess game of sorts where Iâm setting up pieces and then letting them move themselves. I more likened it to me being Harry Seldon in a way.
Anyhoo. The more he opens his mouth, the better I look by virtue of contrast.
I sent this to a friend earlier tonight:
The girl at work seems to be more into me the more I run the (Sub I mentioned above) sub
Apparel Girl
She has even acted grossed out at older guys hitting on her. But with me her only objection is Iâm married
Women make rules for guys they arenât attracted to.
They bend or ignore their own rules when a guy triggers their attraction.
@Geoff and I have talked about that before about how women âeditâ their rules when attraction hits.
EDIT/ADDENDUM: Other than the MAYBE tiny test of telling me she liked Dude, she hasnât actually really tested me to speak of. She seems to have bypassed all that so far and is just basking in whatever is going on.
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âA Sigma can wear the Alphaâs crown if the moment demands itâbut an Alpha can never be a Sigma. He needs too much applause to walk alone.â
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On lunch break last Friday, Apparel Girl and I went to Five Guys. To talk about her issues with Dude.
Told wife I was going and that apparel girl was too. So we could talk about her boy problems.
Wife gave me the silent treatment going on 2 days.
She usually thinks silent treatment will punish me. I can out-silence her any day of the week though. Because I am the Sigma Lord Thy God.
When she finally broke her silence, she said she was upset I gave my âundividedâ attention to someone else when I hardly pay attention to her.
Iâm usually in the computer trying to get things working. Or listening to âstuffâ on my headphones. Subs, audiobooks, etc.
I mentioned how Iâm always trying to be intimate. She said âIâm not talking about sex! I knew this conversation would just be problematic but everyone said I should talk to youâ
I said âhold up. You told âeveryoneâ before telling me? People have been asking me whatâs wrong. I just said itâs personal matters and that youâd talk to me when youâre readyâ
Didnât understand why I then got pissed that she told âonlyâ 4-5 people Explains the dirty looks I got from coworkers. And it was more than just 4-5 of them. Workplace gossip? No wayâŚ
Whatever.
âIâm not jealous of any one person. Iâm just jealous for your attention.â
Uh huh. So I started sitting with her more in the bed. Watching mindless tv. Quelle bore.
Thinking itâd be better.
Shit just went further downhill from there.
This week (Thursday) I was having issues getting my work vest on because it was tangled on itself. Apparel girl was in the break room laughing at my misfortune. I laughed too.
Wife walked in and saw us laughing. Later that day she said âyou need to stop being her friend is there gonna be issues.â
Then she said something I swear sounds like it came out of Cosmo.
âItâs not that I donât trust you. I donât trust HER not to make a move on you.â
Me: âif you trust ME, what does anything else matter?â
No answer to that. Meaning she does NOT really trust me.
So for now Iâm no longer âallowedâ to have my cool her friend.
And Iâm deciding now what I wanna do moving forward.
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Do you know âthe way of the superior manâ
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Yeah.
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Are you profitable in trading?
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Letâs see it like this:
So if your wife talks about trust it is more a snapshot of how she is currently feeling while your interpretation of trust is of a core value.
How does this perspective change the conversation?
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Dunno honestly. A lot has happened since then.
- Her sister died yesterday.
- Iâm probably getting my old desk job back soon (theyâve missed having me around and have a full time spot for me)
- The girl at work wife is worried about isnât even the girl Iâd be interested in
But also. Trust isnât a fleeting thing. Itâs timeless, for lack of a more suitable word.
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I´m Also a trader. ANyone interested in Having a telegram group where we can dsicus ideas?
Women are weird.
They want the guy whoâs productive and resourceful.
Except when itâs time to be productive and resourceful.
Then they try like hell to distract us from our purpose and task.
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For me, there is a subtle difference between being âproductiveâ and being âproductive.â
If productivity is about doing something for your shared future, then there should be no issue if the man works a bit longer sometimes.
Of course, you want to spend a lot of time with the person you love, and it often makes you sad when they are working more. But that doesnât mean you donât recognize or appreciate their effort.
However, if productivity is limited to investing time in things that neither benefit the man nor the couple as a whole, then in my eyes, itâs wasted time.
If you have plenty of time during the day but only take care of everything in the evening â at the last minute â then it can seem like the investment in extra work isnât being taken seriously. To me, that comes across as lazily fair.
If you are planning a future together with someone, then you should take that â and everything that will lead to it â seriously.
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Apologies for the generalization. Weird couple weeks.
Just yesterday, my friend showed me an AI service he built. Which he thinks should be able to retire him from his job once he gets 10K regular users.
I said âooh. Then enough time to build something else too!â
He said his wife probably wouldnât like that. Said she wants him to partake in mindless hobbies like watching TV.
Whenever he dives in on a project, she tries to pull him out to âspend timeâ with her.
Ugh. No thanks.
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Iâve never seriously wanted to get a tattoo. Like EVER.
But today, I was hit with an inspired idea because of the stuff Iâm doing lately to work on my masculine core.
This is what I wanna get eventually:
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Thereâs a guy at work who people talk about behind his back because he asks girls out at work.
Someone tried talking to ME about him lol. Wrong guy.
They said âHe asks everyone out! Ewww!â
I said âSo youâre judging a guy for having the courage to ask people out? Sit the fuck downâ
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How is it going with the weight loss?
Stalled out back at 23% right now.
Money for decent food has been scarce.
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