Travel has opened my eyes to dating. I’m someone who had deep and heavy trauma relating to highschool that I had to heal from threw experience. I still get very vivid and realistic nightmares about those days a few times a month and sometimes there’s so realistic I wake up in fear thinking it’s real followed by relief. Let’s just say those we’re the most depressing days of my whole life.
I’ve been able to heal most of the traumas relating to it but dating wise has been such a deep deep trauma. That no matter what sub I ran, no matter what I do I’d just end up unhappy there until my first trip alone this year. That has changed my whole perspective on dating and not even from being successful in it but more so that I can be in it. Not having fear or being scared to have conversation with girls but being open to it and seeing what unfolds.
I’ve met some amazing girls during my trip to the US. Some of which I had a deep conversation and a long one which in the past 3 years since those traumas I’ve never had. Some of my happiest days we’re there and although the girls I met we just stayed as friends due to the age gap. It unlocked my potential that the issue is not me and not to dwell on the past. That’s why I’m such a big advocate of healing threw experiences and not by just running a healing sub. This would of never happened to me if I haven’t travelled. If I haven’t, I’d still be not “healed”. Over the next months with travel to a few other locations and further proved to my reality and further healing the deep rooted traumas I had and I think that really helped results wise not just dating but everyone else as well.
Just seeing the world threw it’s fullest potential and not threw one pane of glass if that makes sense.
@Jouissance and @Extraordinaire now you guys know why I love traveling so much. It’s the single reason my whole social, dating and wealth life changed. If it wasn’t for travel, I’d still be the same person I was in higschool hanging out with friends I don’t connect with and feel stuck in and wouldn’t of grown.
Fun fact, I contribute a big part of my success in getting the new job from my recent trips. It opened up my perception of what’s possible which gave me the drive and actions to take charge on what I want not what I have now.
Now that I think of it, I think Nouveau RICH just gave me another revelation.