Build your own circle based on values
I do the same to stay sane
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most ppl in society have no idea about unconditional love, so stop expecting them to.
find inner self love and your problems will go away because your actions come from a place of ironclad confidence, self-esteem and self-love. Your behaviour won’t be seen as weak because the place you’re acting from is a higher plane.
One caveat though, is sometimes these behaviour can be seen as “weird, uncalibrated, etc” and thats to someone who is just utterly uninformed. And you gotta pick one the right one or else all of it is out through the window. LOL. That one hot egirl is toxic don’t expect it from her.
One tip: Read the book 5 Love Languages. Find what language your partner speaks and speak those languages to your partner. Also try to get them to read the book.
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i haven’t read all the posts here but this book is clearing a lot of things up for me. the masculine and feminine dynamic
Intimate Communion: Awakening Your Sexual Essence Paperback
by David Deida
Intimate Communion: Awakening Your Sexual Essence: Deida, David: 9781558743748: Amazon.com: Books
Stop dating/chasing emotional broken boxes. When you truly increase self love, you will viberate differently and attract more healthy partners
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@SuperSaiyan Sounds to me that you have this idea that you have to be a nice guy to attract girls and you see this doesn’t work so you’re frustrated.
Also it sounds to me like you are being vulnerable to women to get their validation creating a mommy-child relationship. Women don’t like that. We’ve all been at this point when we started our seduction journey. Also yes the more you don’t care she does like you more because it signals to her that you have a lot of options and are not afraid of loosing her. But I don’t understand why you frame this as a bad thing. The answer is to heal your own traumas so you can enjoy your dating life with multiple women.
I would recommend primal seduction/romance and lbfh.
It also sounds like you are in a country where is not socially acceptable to show strong emotions because people are cold and introverted. Get out of there ASAP it’s not a good match for you and it will affect your mental health
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Yep, pointing the reticular activation system to what one desires makes a lot of difference.
When i shifted my focus from women i was repulsed by into which ones i desire.
I stumbled into my exact preferences younger, cute, religious, inner virtues/values, virgin… Etc
There are gems out there just gotta switch your RAS to focus on what you desire,then your mind will search for them.
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Run the subs, do the work, and reap the results.
SC gives us the tools to manifest our dream life.
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