The love of my soul died almost 4 weeks ago, and I’m stuck

Questions and Comments
#1

I’m still new here, and not really sure what I’m doing.

I’m feeling totally lost in my life. My love died suddenly and I’m absolutely bereft.
I know I need to redefine who I am, because the last year has been so 100% focused around her and her health needs. I don’t know who I am without her.

What would be the best stack for me?
Do they work when we are sleeping? Or do I need to sit and listen?
Do they work best if used during visualisation? And what happens if your visualisation time goes pear shaped, because you end up in the deep hole of grief due to your happiest times being with the one you are grieving?

She is the one person in my life whom I could just be me with. Total unconditional love and acceptance. It’s so hard to go on.

Your guidance is very appreciated.

I do have CFW, and reading through the thread it seems it might help.
What do I stack it with? (I was looking at limitless?)
And how best to use my stack?

Brain so foggy, and ability to absorb information went out the window 26 days ago.

Thank you.

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#2

Man. I am so sorry to hear that. Words won’t help so I won’t say anything else other than that may she rest in peace.

I think Love Bomb for Humanity will be best for you at the moment. It is free and you could use the love to heal yourself from within and also feel love towards others around you.

You don’t need to rush into subliminals though. Give yourself time to grieve. It’s entirely normal to do so.

Love and hugs.

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#3

I am so sorry to hear that. Times like this words are never adequate.

I agree that A Love Bomb for Humanity is a great sub for you. But indeed it’s also important for you to go through grieving in time.

I know first hand what this kind of brain fog or tiredness does to a person so feel free to take you time to reply or talk about your feelings or thoughts or just subs options.

We’re here for you.

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#4

So sorry to hear. I’m sure some of the healing subs here will help you.

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#5

Brother I feel your loss, take time and reconcile with her soul though it has left here, find her belongings embrace it and let it go .
May her soul rest in peace.

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#6

I’m so sorry for your loss. I have felt the same kind of pain. Try to remember to care for your needs:
Eat some, even if the food taste like grief. Body need sustenence.
Exercise, even if its just walks.
Don’t isolate yourself. Spend time with her friends/family and help each other with the grieving. You are not alone with the pain.

In this kind of situation I think it is to be expected to feel lost for a while. Take your time, to grive, to heal, to let go and to, in due time, move on.

It will get better, and in the meantime, you got us.

As for subs and your questions…
Love Bomb for Humanity, Ascension Chamber and Limitless do sound like intressting stack for healing and mental clarity.
@RVconsultant, @DarkPhilosopher, @Malkuth, do you have any advice?

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#7

Grief counseling? This is pretty major, I’d suggest getting professional help before even considering subliminals.

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#8

Thank you @Lion and @PhasingPhoenix
I know she wouldn’t want me to be stuck in this sorrow. All she ever wanted was to see me happy, and looked after.
I know life will never be the same, but at the moment, I keep expecting her to turn up and say “it was a joke. Haha. Come dance with me.”

So many emotions I really don’t know which is prevalent. I just feel like a zombie.

This morning I just thought - which of my subs can I use to help me through this. So came on here.

Thanks for your support I’ve listened to LBFH this morning. I might listen again if I need it. Feeling marginally less zombie. .

@PhasingPhoenix , ascension chamber? I have this. I’ll add it if you think it will help. And limitless, yes, to give me clarity as to how I reinvent myself. Because that’s what she has given me, the opportunity to rewrite who I am.

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#9

Thank you @Chase

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#10

Hi @Skadoosh , I am getting counselling. Sudden death means I get victim support. I also have a grief counsellor that I saw yesterday for the first time.
Most of the work is inner work, that’s why I thought some subs might help.

Thank you

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#11

@MerranG hey sorry for your loss! i can feel the heartbreak in your words. i would say it would help you to not try to isolate yourself these times. try to go out with friends and have some fun if you can, it will make you feel better. or at least, if you don’t want to interact with people do different activities that help you appreciate life more and what it has to offer, it souds like you need that right now. also take some rest, eat good food, drink water and remember that healing takes time and patience. i hope you find peace :pray:

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#12

Should probably wait a bit with That one. See what other say about it. Was just an idea that popped into my head.

That sounds beautiful, in a way.

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#13

Sorry for your loss. I can understand if your world feels like it’s upside down.

As for subliminals. I could understand if you’re hoping they might resolve grief. TBH I don’t know if any are intended to do that, at least at the main store.

I would encourage you to consider taking some time for counseling, and perhaps do some reading at the main shop about different subliminals as you continue to think about what you want to create for your future.

If I had lost the love of my life, I think I would take things very slow and easy for about 3 weeks. Then maybe consider running one loop of a subliminal for 3 minutes twice a week to notice what happens. Personally, I would consider Ascension.

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#14

I’m sorry, I didn’t reply to your message @RVconsultant

I thought I did.

Thank you so much for responding.

I have been following your advice.

I’m thinking now, nearly 8 weeks down the track, maybe love bomb for humanity (to increase self love), with maybe regen (to heal my broken heart) and elixir. Concentrate on the emotional healing and opening my heart, because it’s so shut down by grief.

What do you think?

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#15

I think that is what I would do if I had lost someone important to me and was feeling hurt.

When you start getting ready for someone else, remember there is Heartsong.

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#16

Thank you.
I hadn’t found HeartSong.
Would be awesome to have a wish list for those things you want to get later.

Before I use Heartsong, I think I would need to remove limiting beliefs. Limit Destroyer was the one I was considering. Swap it out in the healing stack when I’m ready. Maybe with Paragon? .

#17

Good thinking!

When you’re ready, post your idea and plan, and we’ll give you ideas.

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