i’m passionate about this, but I also don’t want to go on and on. So, I usually just settle for terse flippancy.
will try to express it more completely:
i meditate to face reality.
some people worry that meditating is escaping from reality.
i think it’s the closest we get to reality.
- every event in your life has been an experience
- every experience has ultimately been a conglomerate of sensations
- sensations are generated by the nervous system and ordered by/as mind
Hence,
- to face reality we need to contend with the nervous system and mind
i’ve listed it out as if it’s an orderly logical argument. it’s definitely not that simple. but that’s just a concise way to express. and it does do a half-decent job.
ritualized meditation is over-rated. Hunters and trackers meditate. Cats meditate. Bird watchers meditate.
Intentional, focused attention. It’s used all over nature and by many people.
The only thing that’s different here is the ultimate purpose: to turn that attention back upon itself.
If you’ve ever watched movies in a movie theatre, at some point you may have gotten curious and turned around to see the projector. If you had access, you may have been allowed into the projection room to see the celluloid (back in the past) or the digital equipment (if we’re looking at it now).
Then you might have gotten interested in how those images were captured on film in the first place and visited movie sets.
Eventually, you might enjoy remembering all of this even while you returned to your original activity of enjoying a movie.
That’s one of the ways of contextualizing meditation.
Doesn’t particularly matter if you’re sitting on a cushion with a buzz cut. If you have a dreamy look in your eyes and don’t ever cut your hair. Or anything else.
It’s rigorous(sometimes) subjective exploration of the nature of experience. However you go about it, if it results in insight, then it’s good meditation. walking swimming singing yelling dancing visualizing acting improvising sitting eyes-closed eyes-open
all good.
lately, i’ve been listening closely to music. and trying to observe the system generating the experience of listening to music. 
okay, enough rhapsodizing.
short answer: seems to decrease disruptive reconciliation.
shorter answer: still investigating