Text game help (Rizz)

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#1

Hey everybody,

I hope this isn’t too embarrassing. I need some help with the text game

I need some help when it comes to escalating things more sexually and romantically over text. I just don’t know how to do it well. I can go for teasing and I am a great friend, but the flirt and sex game over it is just lackluster, to say the least.

I have girls message me, or comment on my posts on Instagram, but I don’t know how to go from there. Text is different enough from in person and call that my people skills haven’t extended there yet.

Text conversations are usually strung out over a instant-30 minute reply time, or the next day. I find that I lose interest in the convo. I look out to talk to somebody in person, and get their number, ig, whatever, and the cycle repeats itself

I am grateful that I am able to get girls in real life. I am 19 currently. I see my colleagues at my college awkward when speaking, but seem to seal things over text.

I feel I come too hard and am maybe a bit too confident over text. Where my body, looks, and demeanor all support who I am in person, all text is is just words. I may just be in my head. Let me know.

Any help is appreciated. I am running Primal Seduction with Emperor and Wanted now.

#2

Thanks for bringing yourself to ask. Your question and people’s answers may help someone in a similar spot.

From what I’m understanding, establishing communication is not a problem for you. Transitioning from the ‘platonic’ relationship to the ‘playtonic’ (ik, forgive me) is what you’re wanting.

I also get bored with certain conversations pretty quickly. What has been called ‘dry’ conversations.

It’s helpful if there’s something about the person you’re talking to that you are interested in and if you have established some common ground.

There’s also a line with texting conversations that I recommend you learn to draw; when the conversation is sustainable, great! Meaning, the line of conversation is going somewhere for you.

If you’re bored, maybe you’re not the ‘issue’. Maybe she’s not it.

And, because you added this part I want to add; stick to what you’re best at. If you’re better with women in person, align yourself with situations with that/those women in person.

You may come off ‘too intensely’ for some women.

That’s fine!

Change the women and keep how you are authentically.

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#3

There is a world of effective strategy for DMs, online dating, and texting.
I will not address that strategy.

If you have woman reaching out- they have interest.
You don’t need to entertain/ have fun on text you need to facilitate an in person meet.
Just lead. If you have interest, it’s easy.

Find your expression. Do what feels good to you.

In your shoes I’d do 0-3 back and forth and then just look to meet up

When are you free to get together?

not to be a limitating rule but IME

The more time you spend texting generally the lower your chances of meeting up OR the more expectation the girl has on the seriousness of the relationship.

Unless your getting super sexual over text.

Without being a dick if you
Don’t do what you don’t want to do, and do do what you want to do
its great for your life and being effective with woman.

This may have not helped at all :joy:

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#4

Muy importante.

#5

What is 0-3?

It totally is. The girls who are into it are INTO it. Haha. Iykwim :wink:

It may be because I live in the liberal stronghold- California. I have neighbors who are southerners and I get along with them just fine. I got a Vietnam vet who told me he isn’t sure what’s going on with boys nowadays. I have stories of him breaking bottles with friends and of him throwing rocks :joy:

#6

Is there any place to learn text game? It is still a useful skill to have

#7

When you say place, I’m assuming you’re referring to ways to improve your texting game.

The only place I can think of is the School of Hard Knocks through tried and true experience.

However!

If you are interested in resources I could point you towards that I personally found useful, I can either link it here or send it to ya in PM :slight_smile:

#8

Send it in PMs please!

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#9

The easiest way is just to send voice notes. Since you Said you are good at communication

I have a friend who’s insanely good with women. He hates texting.

All he do is approach get number. Write it was Nice to meet you!

Then voice notes

It also makes you stand out. Bonus points if you got a bit more of a masculine sexy voice

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