Struggling with assertiveness

Questions and Comments
#16

Secure attachment goes a long way too.

In an ideal life, in the first few years of life we are emotionally supported by empathic, responsive, non manipulative caregivers. We are facilitated to have an experiential baseline sense of ourselves and our intrinsic value. We take off from that runway into a life of independence, creativity, and personal power.

But you know. This is Earth. Things go left.

We end up with a confused sense that something is wrong. We need something but we’re not sure what.

We seek out healing experiences and resources. And we end up making some f***ing heroic efforts. Some help, others not so much.

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#17

Just keep putting yourself into situations that require you to be assertive and Khan will evolve you more rapidly. It may not happen overnight but give it a few months.

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#18

@Shogun tell you what, there’s no better assertive role model outthere than Gordon Ramsay. Disregard the f-ing and bleeping, there’s someone who could put a disrespectful person in their place. Helps if you’re a black belt too…
Lifting, already doing it, dressing, already GQ-bound. :+1:

@DarkPhilosopher come get your affiliate cash here :smile: Sold.

@Malkuth sadly cannot keep grasping into what life should have been. But Sub Club is here.

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#19

That’s great!

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#20

What r these HPP tracks that r being spoken about, any links to help find out more
@DarkPhilosopher @ABC333

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#21

Easy enough to find: HPP Webshop

Essentially it’s a guy telling two stories, one in each ear. In trying to keep track of them, your conscious mind will get confused and drift off into a trance-state similar to hypnosis. The track is filled with “hidden” instructions. So one story will say the word “be”, followed by the second story saying “confident”. Your subconscious hears “be confident”.

I find them entertaining to listen to (the stories are cute), and I do end up in a relaxed state.

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#22

I have a bunch of the HPP titles on cassette. Great stuff. Really skillfully put together.

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#23

PCC is working slightly differently for me - it’s shattering my own naïve belief that everybody is motivated to be as compassionate and caring as possible. I realise that sadly it’s all about self interest.

Fortunately PCC is a framework in how to leverage that self interest so that it works for me without getting used and abused. It’s clinical, but a “nice guy” with more power is a good thing.

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#24

That’s great!

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#25

Power Can Corrupt is probably one of the most important subs available for people in abusive situations, because it literally rewrites the early faulty programming that says:

  • serve others first,
  • be “good”
  • turn the other cheek,
  • other people are always kind,

and turns it around in order to promote your own personal power. Of course the applications differ from each major program but with Khan it creates a formidable character to be feared and respected instead of being used and abused. Love it.

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#26

Sounds like your walking down your path of resilience :+1:t3:

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#27

Thanks @R.E.M.P.O! I’ll probably stop gushing about this product in a week or so :smile:

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#28

Are you kidding. I love hearing about success. :grinning:

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#29

Just to add to this thread, @Tomcat’s suggestion of Regeneration was spot on regarding past trauma, shame and guilt blocking assertive behaviour. Cannot feel worthy enough to stand up for yourself if guilt is rotting away in the background.

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#30

How msny loopd uou run of pcc?

#31

When I bought it, PCC was up to two loops. Now it’s down to one loop, with Khan

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#32

@Michel …I got PCC been a week I’m listening. I alternative between PCC one day and next ascension + regeneration. I’m thinking of increasing the loops so far as per Saint I have been looping each only once. But morning and before sleep. So total each twice with PCC twice next day.

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#33

AM. AM. AM. AM. AM.
Ascended Mogul my bro. I lost THREE “friends” JUST these past 3 weeks because I started COMMANDING Respect. Calling them out on their bullshit. It’s not easy at first. Because you have to force yourself to call them out. Because you will feel embarrassed to show your feelings. But you must go above and beyond, with the mentality “Imagine calling yourself a man and being afraid to say how you FEEL”. But AM makes you aware and angry.

If they were your real friends they will respect what you have to say otherwise they were fake.

Edit: Just realized this was old lol

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#34

Oh well, no great loss… :joy:
AM - kick ass , collect Benjamins.

#35

why u got tears coming out of yo lips
whatever

but yeah bro