Yes. he actually adressed the scenereo of a guy trying to “fake it” in a pickup situation. even if he could be congruent with his emotions during the interaction he would end up losing her since he cant keep up the act for long and its not his default state.
For awhile i actually thought this could be a successful way to do pickup theoretically, just remember the right content and its like opening a safe right?
well it seams you actually do need to be the real thing to be successful.
My theoretical landing gear hitting the cement of reality lol