Single person love core stack?

I am in a relationship with someone for the last 5 months, I have planned something special for the next month to take things to the next level and ask her to move in with me permanently and see things through.

I am wondering which core module will help me with this?
Focused on just a single person, not multiple, in taking things to the next level.

Heartsong

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I’m already listening to Heartsong, for the past 6 months. It has helped massively, but for some reason I am getting scared a lot taking the next step. And I feel like I’ve been in a limbo for a long time. Not progressing, and not regressing, it’s good, great even, but I need to take the next step. And it can be disruptive to her which is why I am scared to suggest it too.

Are there any alpha or confidence modules that I can mix in with Heartsong that pushes me to the edge?

Ascension will build confidence and self worth along with drive and ambition.

You could Also consider Love Bomb, read the sales pages and see if either resonate with what you’re looking for.

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Sounds like you’re being limited by something inside.

Try DRLD.

It’s a straight forward limit destroying sub.
It will help you gain clarity & be more decisive.

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Disruptive how?

Many options; Ascension, GLM, Wanted/WB with conscious guidance, Genesis, Love bomb and Primal.

Primal would handle all that edge pushing

The whole act of moving in is disruptive because she has her own place and a good routine which she likes.

Somehow the timing lines up perfectly, because her rental is ending and she is on the fence about renewing it. I’d have to wait a year more for the next opportunity of it being the path of least resistance.

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oh! Got that! I mean… the worst thing she can say is no… so they say? hahaha You dont need a sub. You just say it man. Cmon! You can do it!

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Well then it’s either now or never then :wink:

If the you really want her to move in, and you realize that the time is perfect, then you might as well go ahead and do it.

If you’re scared to ruin her schedule, then lemme just say this:
She might be actually waiting for you to ask, hence why she’s still just on the fence about renewing it, or else why would she wait and tell you :wink:?

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And its not disruptive to you?

Living together is not like dating at all. Nor is it like having her tooth brush and couple of moisturizing products at your place either. You will be sharing a whole living space with another person.

If she deems that you are worth it, she’ll move in with you regardless of her good routine, and would make a new good routine and so will you.

And she doesn’t want to have her own place even when she’s living with you? Some women like that, else they’d feel like their losing their independence and way out.

Listen, the perfect time is when you deem it so, its not in when she is about to renew her lease nor is it when she is homeless. If you are worth it, she will move in with you whenever you want and wherever you go. Plain and simple.

Just ask her straight up to move in with you. Tell her how you feel about her and that you wish to take this relationship to the next level because you believe that you have something good going on and you two could build it to something even better togetherm etc… etc… . After the preface, tell her that the timing is just right and ask her to move in with you.

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Honestly maybe you should run Wanted or WB to give off an air of preselection, which might make HER ask YOU to move in lol :man_shrugging: why do you have to be the one who asks/suggests it?

Edit: oh I see, you want to ask now because of the timing. Yeah Saint might be right then, if you start listening to a new sub it could change things for the worse or better because of the new vibe/behavior, so it’s a gamble. Personally I’d only ask if I was almost 100% sure she’d say yes.

This would be my response to this question as well. Somethings don’t need to be enhanced with subs and conscious focus will help the end result the most. Adding something else into the mix now, just before you ask, could change the vibe that she’s been familiar with and could actually prompt her to say no, since you’re suddenly exhibiting different behaviors.

If she says no, consider respecting her decision, re-evaluating how you feel and IF you really need a sub to help, then potentially go for it. But I would personally refrain from changing up your vibe right at a pivotal moment.

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Some people here are throwing out Wanted and WB for a dude in a committed relationship that he manifested while on Heartsong…

Honestly, I’m shaking my head so damn hard RN my eyes are spinning like tops.

Chances of that tanking the relationship faster than you can say “no wait, I’ll change” is mind numbing.

To OP, if you run Wanted or WB you must be prepared for the relationship to end. That’s the truth, I’m not saying it WILL end, but I’m saying you need to understand that it might awaken something within you that will end the relationship.

Everytime I’ve changed archetypes in a relationship, the relationship has ended.

In the simplest terms, your partner loves the current you, and has no obligation to love a completely different version of you that speaks, thinks, behaves, looks, and feels different. They might like the new you, they might not.

Don’t take a risk unless you’re prepared to lose.

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Lol when you put it like that, maybe you’re right. Yeah, I guess this is a “don’t fix it if it ain’t broke” situation.

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Not tryin to be harsh either, I’ve just been down that road with 6 gals already.

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Oh no, it’s all good, it’s making me think…

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If somebody likes Don Draper, they might also like Tommy Shelby and vice versa: similarities. Not a huge stretch, right? Both alpha, IDGAF type, traditional dudes.

If somebody likes Don Draper and Tommy Shelby, they might not like a melodramatic teen vampire heart-thob. They might not like the goofy lover boy husband type that Paul Rudd often plays. And they might not like a flamboyant, arrogant, sarcastic Tony Stark type.

If you change your personality drastically, you kinda gotta accept that some people might not like the new you and that you might lose friends.

There’s a reason every famous person talks about haters and losing friends, they’ve all been through it. Sometimes to be the person we want to be, we need to accept that others might not support (or even like) who we become.

We might be shy and awkward and our friends might love us because we are shy and awkward and to them it’s cute and endearing. If we all the sudden start getting all alpha confident, they might not like us any more. They were friends with us for different reasons.

That’s life bro, we just often don’t talk about this shit here and some people get surprised when their relationships blow up and they lose people.

And if you’re happy, then why fix what ant broke.

The world has space for Paul Rudd, for Don Draper, for Tommy Shelby, and for Edward Cullen. You don’t gotta be anyone but the version of you that makes you happy.

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Thank you, I will do just that. And you were right about this too

Some women like that, else they’d feel like their losing their independence and way out.

She wanted to keep her rental going while she moved in we floated that idea jokingly, and it made no financial sense to me but I could see her reasoning too. And she used the word safety net too.