So this is my 5th day on S&S and Seductive. I am definitely feeling more confident and feel like I look more attractive and have gotten some pleasant feedback.
So there is this one girl that I am interested in dating or perhaps just being friends with benefits would be a better way to put it. She used to be a “subordinate” where I worked and there was lots of flirting and mutual attraction but I couldn’t do much. Now that she’s no longer there, I can pursue her. With that said, I have kept in touch with her since (we are friends) here and there and hung out with her a couple of weeks ago (with another mutual friend) and so I couldn’t really do heavy flirting. Anyhow, I reached out to her today (nothing sexual) because I wanted to see if she wanted to be a part of this coaching thing that I need to do as a part of my training. She was acting strange from the moment she answered the phone. Then she said why do I sound like that? I said sound like? There was nothing different in my tone at all than before, then she proceeds to tell me that I sound uncomfortable or that I have some anterior motive and then tells me she’ll call me later. Well, I’m certainly not reaching out to her, she can call me.
She has NEVER behaved this way with me at all. I know there could be many variables in her behavior or perhaps she may sense something else. What I am curious to know if subliminal can produce opposite results in the beginning? Has anyone experienced something similar? Is she picking up on something subconscious? (PS, I have visualized her with libertine a few times)