Sex life improvement sub doing the opposite

hey guys, quick question that has been on my mind recently

I’m doing sex mastery X + diamond to improve sex life with my girl

I’ve done 7 active listening days so far

However what I’ve noticed is that I feel the opposite like my sex drive is down and me and my girl aren’t having sex much

Is it possible that this is a part of the process and i should just keep going at it and see what happens?

Thank you very much

If it’s the lack of sex/frequancy missing- I think you’re probably trying to address the wrong constraints in the relationship.

I don’t know the specific situation, but there’s a few factors to consider.

  • What your girl needs currently to feel like having sex more. For some, maybe she’s not feeling safe or connected.

  • Maybe she’s stressed and overworked, and you need to work on being a man that she can unwind and help take the load off.

  • Maybe she needs more adventure, excitement, passion.

I’d consider things like these, and then look into running a title like Primal Romance, Wanted Dream Boy, Or Khan/Emperor/Reforged. Just reflect and be honest about yourself, and if she’s an open girl just have an honest conversation with her about what she needs to feel more desire in the relationship

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Primal Nights

Well, neither SMX nor Diamond are strong attractants. SMX is about technique and Diamond is about enhancing the sexual experience itself.

The answer @Niles gave is great. Has a lot of options that actually addresses the issue directly. Now, as for the “lowered libido,” I have to ask – have you also noticed an increase in daily vital energy? As in, you seem more energetic throughout the day, or accomplishing tasks?

A lot of people, when running these alpha types subs, notices what appears to be a drop in libido at first. What’s actually happening is that the script is helping you realize when you’re craving sex as validation or escapism, and it’s helping you heal those issues so that when you are engaged in intercourse, you’re present and enjoying every moment. If you’ve experienced an increase in daily vital energy, that’s most certainly what’s happening.

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Could you recommend any strong sex attractants sub but for people in long term relationships?

And I too resonate with @Niles answer and I am focused on that as well. Subs are moreso a complimentary thing to the inner work I’m doing in regards to being a better man, making my woman feel safer and connected more etc. I’m definitely lacking on the excitement and passion department tho lol

And to your question, I haven’t noticed an increase in daily vital energy no. Just like baseline level. I did notice that when we did have sex it was reaaallly pleasurable. But for me what matters more at this point is the frequency of it happening, the frequency is what I want to improve.

Thank you in advance :slight_smile:

Wanted(Or Wanted Black) stacked with Sex and Seduction X are great for both attracting and helping boost your “game” for when they enter your orbit.

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Are you listening every day? And for how much amount of time?

For LTR-

In my experience Wanted Dream Boy, is probably one of the better options. I would look into Emperor Reforged as well - especially the modules around intimacy/romance and see if that resonates with what may be going on.

Doesn’t happen to everyone- but I’ve found that if your in a place where there’s not a lot of intimacy/sex, going right to a title like Emperor or Khan can be a bit of a harsh frame switch on your partner, and there will be a lot of shit testing before the dynamic really shifts.

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Yeah, that was definitely Diamond + SMX at work. There are a lot of options, but it’s hard to answer this question without knowing the underlying issue about why her libido is low.

We recommend going through the various romance titles and seeing what your natural romance style is. If it’s the “hard alpha” type, you’ve got Primal, Khan, etc. Primal Nights is a good option for bringing excitement and passion back to a relationship. Primal Nights + WDB or Primal Romance. Good options. I’d also check out WDB, Emperor, Emperor Reforged – there’s a lot of options available.

EDIT: WDB is really good for people in long-term relationships. I mean, really good.

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Thank you so much man I really appreciate it. If you had to pair the best sub to WDB (primal nights vs primal romance, or even primal seduction?) what would it be? based on our context. I feel like for me the bottleneck is bringing in more passion/excitement/seduction. → so pairing something with WDB based on that

In that case, I’d say Primal Nights. Easy to run, fun for both people. Very passionate vibe.

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