Everybody has their own opinions, and weâre all human after all. So youâll need to explore and find your own answers in the end.
But this is a discussion forum, so Iâm going to share my opinions (at least the opinions I have so far).
Women are not spoils of war or rewards to be won or lost.
Theyâre just people.
They are not the signs that your life is a success or not a success.
Theyâre just people.
They are not perfectly noble, angelic beings who are here to make you happy, and they are not plotting, scheming, devious scoundrels who are bent on ensuring your downfall.
Theyâre just people.
Imperfect, lonely, creative, selfish, bored, egocentric, generous, lovely, despicableâŚpeople.
Theyâre not all identical and interchangeable.
So the idea of âgetting a womanâ is a little silly.
Which one?
Do you even like this particular one?
Yes?
Good.
What do you like about her?
What else?
What else?
Good. Now weâre dealing with something.
And what do you like about her compared to that other one?
Those are the questions.
Gather the answers to those questions, and youâre already doing âseductionâ.
This is just one approach. But itâs the one I favor personally.
I am not a person who likes trying to force myself to have âfunâ at parties that I did not want to go to.
I donât want to pretend to like a woman because someone else says Iâm supposed to like her.
Thatâs idiotic (in my opinion).
If you donât like this party, then go find somewhere that you do like.
If you donât enjoy this woman, then go find one that you do enjoy.
Okay. This is already too long. These are opinions.