That encapsulates exactly what I’ve been becoming aware of in my own life. Me making other people “the problem” … makes me miserable. When I got tired of dodging this and kept seeing the same outcome, I made a decision to not keep doing this. I was creating drama in my own head, and I didn’t enjoy it. Nobody wins.
Owning my shit–seeing these fears and projections are my own–frees me.
LB is helping tremendously too. For I have to be honest with myself first.