Question of concern

[themadsexyscientist]

So I’ve been kind of in a state of concern these last few days, I’ve written about this before and I got good advice.

So I was on my washout for limitless destroyer, primal seduction and bdlm. I’ve been on wash out since the 10th of January. I’ve has some interesting results so far, just to run through them. My boss’ client, who I work indirectly with me, has been very friendly with me recently, going out of her and being way nicer than before. Before, it seemed like she was distant and didn’t really care or didn’t like me. But as of recently, she’s been very friendly, guys have been almost like challenging me through wanting me to do things for them and what not. So anyways back to the concern at hand. So I was on my washout when my older brother who I share a room with, was listening to some subliminal out loud. I had told him to put on headphones but still didn’t listen. We don’t have the best relationship and he suffers from mental illness. Anyways, Im afraid I may have been exposed to subliminals unknowingly for weeks on end but just found out now. I almost lost a nerve telling him not to do that. The only thing I can hope is that it didn’t have any effect on me but I was wondering what can I reasonably do about this situation? Financially I can’t move out just yet, I’ve already addressed with him about this before but he never listens and really only cares about himself. If I ran a subliminal with a clearing stage like khan, or dragon reborn would it remove all bad programming?

[Parsifal]

It’s actually in the description of Khans Stage 1

Similarly to the older version, we have kept the capability of Khan ST1 to destroy any previous subliminal programming that is unhelpful. If by any chance a previous subliminal you listened to had programming that is harmful, Total Breakdown will destroy it. It will not remove any positive programming or programming that benefited you.

Far too often subliminal creators put in weird things into their creations that should not be there.

You are on the path of the Khan – there is no space for the machinations of weaklings.

And so it shall be purged.

[themadsexyscientist]

I got khan stage 1 and 2 and IAM module in my custom. I think I’ll use that before spending money because I’m broke right now.

[Parsifal]

That’s literally all you need. No need to spend anymore money.

I’d only advise to find a way to make sure you’re not exposed to any more of your brothers subs.

[Fire]

@themadsexyscientist

I got khan stage 1 and 2 and IAM module in my custom. I think I’ll use that before spending money because I’m broke right now.

@Parsifal

That’s literally all you need. No need to spend anymore money.

@Parsifal is correct. You already have all you need. Please don’t spend money if you cannot afford it.

In cases when people cannot afford a title and really want some help, I always say - go for a wealth title like Mogul, RICH or Emperor. You don’t need anything else for a while and it will get you to a much more comfortable financial state as long as you take decisive action.

[themadsexyscientist]

I do have mogul from long time ago. I’ve used it twice I believe but it was months apart. I guess I’ll have to jump back to that more consistently.

[themadsexyscientist]

wouldn’t khan stages do the same thing in terms of wealth and make me more attractive?

I’ve ran khan in my custom before so I wanted to stick with that stack for the rest of the year

Also, since I’ve ran it before, would it be like I’m picking up from where I left off 9 months ago or would it be like I’m starting fresh?

[praisetheurdtree]

@themadsexyscientist

So I was on my washout when my older brother who I share a room with, was listening to some subliminal out loud.

Interesting. Sorry you’re dealing with that. Given the context of everything else that you said and the stack that you’ve been on, it is possible that limit destroyer is helping you overcome issues that you have around your assertiveness, etc. It seems like there has been a pattern in your life recently of men disrespecting you.

This is pretty common on alpha titles (Primal Seduction is one) and limit destroyer may be strengthening those effects, given that it’s purpose is to help you overcome the limits you have with your stack.

A pretty common outcome for healing titles is that things temporarily “get worse” or appear to “get worse” while you are healing. Likely because in order for the subconscious to truly heal from something , it needs to be brought to your awareness. If you don’t see a problem, you’ll never be able to solve it. Likewise, so long as things are hidden in your subconcious, it will be difficult for you to overcome them. Healing titles tend to bring these hidden things to the surface so we can deal with them.

For some of us, the only way we will really notice a problem, is when it’s shoved in our face.

@themadsexyscientist

I had told him to put on headphones but still didn’t listen. We don’t have the best relationship and he suffers from mental illness.

This might be an opportunity to work on your approach toward your brother. He especially might give you some trouble BECAUSE he’s your older brother. Older brothers are typically used to being in a more dominant position in the family, because once upon a time, they were bigger and stronger, and older than you. So, now that your energy is shifting to be more dominant, it’s possibly triggering a bit of subconscious insecurity in him. Some times older brothers feel resentment because the parents treat older brothers different than younger brothers.

Like Duh, your parents are people too, the oldest children are kinda the “test kids” once the younger ones come along, parents have typically gotten better at parenting, so they treat the younger kids different.

Is this shit toxic? Yeah, but it’s real. In the end, though you can’t control your brother directly, you can still be a positive force in the relationship, and you can guide the outcome. You don’t just have to “deal” with your brother, and the relationship between the two of you CAN IMPROVE. However, you’re going to probably need to be the one that takes action to improve the relationship. Never rely on people to change for you, be the change you wish to see.

Often times, the best way to persuade someone is by taking a step back, by allowing them the space to do what you wish to do. When we tell people what to do, or try to force things, it triggers rebelliousness and often just makes people dig their heels in and rebel against you pointlessly out of pride.

Anyway, these are all just guesses based on what you said, I might be way off base. Take it how you will.

[themadsexyscientist]

@praisetheurdtree

Interesting. Sorry you’re dealing with that. Given the context of everything else that you said and the stack that you’ve been on, it is possible that limit destroyer is helping you overcome issues that you have around your assertiveness, etc. It seems like there has been a pattern in your life recently of men disrespecting you.

This is pretty common on alpha titles (Primal Seduction is one) and limit destroyer may be strengthening those effects, given that it’s purpose is to help you overcome the limits you have with your stack.

I agree, in the past I would get angry and not address things like that, but I can see that primal is definitely working on something.

[themadsexyscientist]

@praisetheurdtree

This might be an opportunity to work on your approach toward your brother. He especially might give you some trouble BECAUSE he’s your older brother. Older brothers are typically used to being in a more dominant position in the family, because once upon a time, they were bigger and stronger, and older than you. So, now that your energy is shifting to be more dominant, it’s possibly triggering a bit of subconscious insecurity in him. Some times older brothers feel resentment because the parents treat older brothers different than younger brothers.

That was definitely my experience growing up but as I grow older I’m starting to realize that I grew up in a very toxic household and that the people around you will always see you as that guy they used to know. I’m trying to break from that and become my own person. It’s very frustrating to the say the least. The ones closest to you hold you back unconsciously or consciously when they see you are improving and no longer the image of the person they used to know. I heard someone say that sometimes you have to outgrow your friends and family if they don’t support you in growth.

[themadsexyscientist]

thanks for all the advice and help, much appreciated

[themadsexyscientist]

There was an urge for me to move on to another stack but I think instead of dropping my stack and starting a new one, I’ll just add mogul and keep primal and limit destroyer, though I want to run limitless executive core, limit destroyer and primal together.

[praisetheurdtree]

@themadsexyscientist

The ones closest to you hold you back unconsciously or consciously when they see you are improving and no longer the image of the person they used to know.

Yeah, 100%. Personally, I try and not take it too personally, even though I’ve noticed this in my life also. The people closest to you think they know you the best, and are the most sensitive to the changes you’re going through.

For whatever reason, people typically don’t like to see others change. I think seeing others change triggers subconscious insecurity in a lot of people.

If you change and start acting like a new person, then my internal model of you breaks down, and you become harder to predict. Which might make me feel a little nervous around you, because I’m pretty much meeting a new person.