I know action and journaling are the best ways to have tangible results but was wondering, can action be anything you do consciously towards your goals no matter how small?
For example, if I’m running primal, I know talking to women would be a no-brainer but how about reading up on seduction skills, how to please women and how to be more attractive, would that be considered a form of action towards the sub you’re running
Good question. Regarding your example of Primal, if I may also ask; if I’m running Primal and not talking to girls, will it “not work” or will I get intense recon? @SaintSovereign
Because while I may not be actively approaching, I am at times in environments with women and I’d much rather come off smooth instead of awkward AF. So I may throw it into next cycle as a “you may be talking to women today, better be prepared than be shy”.
Yep. This is taking action. Eventually, obviously you’d want to talk to women. But, I think when we say “talk to women,” everyone assumes that means you must be out “approaching.” You could just engage in fun conversation – even without sexual overtones. Even in those situations, you’re “learning” something, perhaps how to be humorous and fun, and removing the element of seduction and flirting can help you turn those experiences into a fertile ground for future growth.
The idea is simply to become comfortable with the idea of interacting with others in a deeply expressive and authentic manner, which will eventually lead to the end goal of being able to flirt and the such. Until you are comfortable with the very basic idea of interaction, a more tense situation like “seduction” becomes easier. You are not longer trying to “seduce,” you just gain mastery over the ability to steer interactions in that direction. It will come across as more authentic and fun, and you’ll find that you may not even need to “seduce” women – they’ll have so much fun with you that they’ll become relaxed enough that the romantic and sexual vibes can fly.
Learn how to relax, cut up and just have fun around women, then learn when they are sending signals that they’re attracted.
Interesting, thanks!
That’s great news thanks. I do have one lady in my life who I can definitely say I didn’t approach but she more likely approached me, indirectly through work. My only problem with her is she’s my boss and she’s married. Though she has shown signs of interest, I don’t know if I want to push it towards seduction unless she does and even then, it’s kind of iffy.
Make sure you have a backup job, in case you ever need/want to leave this one. Feelings and circumstances change over time, and that can get awkward.
I concur. This may not be the best idea.
You might be right, probably not the best idea
What would you suggest since she’s the one who basically initiating everything, even though she always hints at me that she has a husband In the most subtle ways. Am I misinterpreting it and could she just be really friendly?
For me, I don’t really want to talk to her like that, or take it any further because it might make things awkward but I don’t want to seem like I’ve rejected her and she turns on me and makes my job harder