What would you say the best healing modules would be for a custom excluding dragon Reborn?
I have a lot to heal and I know it may sound cliché but I don’t have time to be going through healing as my life isn’t just about me.
How do you feel after going through a lot of healing which I totally respect because it’s a very hard thing to do. Do you feel more relaxed? More stable positive mood? Do you feel more whole and complete? Less prone to addiction? How has it affected your relationships?
Has it made you focus on quality more than quantity? Do you feel more calm? Do you feel you can be a better listener and present in healing conversations?
Also can you include physical healing? I feel like physical healing and inner healing are somewhat connected. But maybe it might be a bit too much all at once?
I’ve been on a healing journey since around January 2022. I have done Dragon Reborn and now mostly doing CFW. I can’t give you advice on what to do, that’s on you. But I’ll try to reflect on your questions and things that stand out.
I recognize so much of myself in this sentence. “I have things to do in my life, I have to fix this healing problem” or “healing is selfish and life ain’t just about me”. In my humble experience, this is ego. Our ego doesn’t want to start healing, which means it starts dissolving parts of the ego that are not you. That’s the definition of healing. Therefore, It will come with the best reasons on why not to start healing. Trust me, there will never be a good time to start on your healing journey, there is always something to do and it just sucks.
Another thing that I figured out for myself. The ego wants to be done with the healing and get to the results. It needs reasons to start healing, it needs to have a purpose. I think that’s why you ask so many questions about the benefits of healing. It seems to me that you’re trying to rationalize why you should even start. That’s a thing with healing our old wounds, we can’t do it with the rational mind, we have to do it from within.
To give you an example of myself. When I came back from a major depression, I was always focussing on “fixing what was wrong”. I need to have a better job, make an impact, bigger house, and what not. I do not have time to heal and when I gave myself time to heal, I started to “work” on myself with self-improvement. Maybe if I read this book, that will be the solution or I have to start doing more meditations to keep my mind quiet.
The thing is, life doesn’t give a damn about our agenda Rub. How more we fight against it with our mind and ego, the more difficult life becomes before we start addressing what we feel deep inside us. All the problems that you’re facing right now, are to invoke something within you.
This one tells me more than enough about your true desires. Because there is a but after this sentence. Go after what you feel deep inside that you have to do. Trust me, you’ll never reach the destination that you want, without having a solid foundation. I’d been running away from this for about 6-7 years when my mother died.
But to answer your question. For me, CFW and LBfH did the most. I wish you the best of luck on your journey
I agree with @Solomon on most things. What does healing improve? Everything in your life, If you believe that you should put it last because others deserve to come first and there’s more important things than your inner optimization then you prove out loud how badly you need healing.
I also agree on the ego thing he said, I’ve seen people in this forum, a lot of whom are super super super active, literally spend their whole subliminal life chasing some dumb concept constantly instead of just healing. Do you really wanna be amazing with women (as stated in another Of your threads) whilst having this (there’s more important things than me) mindset? That’s not a prize mindset that’s an absolute beta mindset, of course you come first! There isn’t any other mindset that works. And even if you get all this “charisma dominance” or whatever buzz word you choose for the day, how far can it take you if your highest measure of yourself is (I need healing but…. What’s in it for me? Also be quick with these “results” because I have children and in case of an emergency I’m jumping the ship first so you know I don’t actually want to treat myself gently and deal with my issues cuz I’m a second grade citizen anyway) that’s never coming from the mouth of a man with intense gravitas
I’m passionate about all this cuz I understand how bad mindsets can ruin everything, especially with women. These men you went to mimic and have the skill of. They are absolutely delicate with themselves and pride themselves, you would never hear a powerful man put himself second. Do the healing, stop looking for cool stories from other members to give you some sense of follower dopamine as if you’re just chasing dopamine with every subliminal stack you choose
I think many powerful men put themselves second as they are working on something bigger than themselves. For example Elon Musk puts himself through a lot of pain and tiredness to achieve his missions. I’m not saying that’s a good thing. But a lot of powerful men have gone through a period where they put their purpose before personal feelings. Think Winston Churchill who sacrificed a lot during the second World War to keep England safe and others. He would call his depression his Black dog.
I’ve gone through a lot of healing and have a lot more to go. The emotions / trauma I have gone through are so intense that it would affect other areas of my busy life right now. I have a purpose which might be negatively effective if a huge amount of emotions were to be stirred up right now. It might be overwhelming or too much and cause instability so I have to be thoughtful and strategic with my healing. But what might be the most devastating is failing at my current life dharma right now and the most healing thing would be living out my purpose and dreams.
As far as chasing dopamine I’m not. I have a factory in my brain producing loads of it and loads of serotonin. I’m not trying to mimic any man
I’m my own person and if you met me you would think youve never met anyone like me.
Yeah mate this all maybe sounds heroic in your eyes but you’re not Winston Churchill or Elon musk you’re a dude on a subliminal website who uses grand examples of people to explain why he should skip healing and get to the cool stuff. You’re not as heroic as your entire paragraph made you sound, you just really don’t want to heal
You’re already listening to a subliminal, swapping to healing instead of “gravitas and le charisma” doesn’t suddenly make you a ww2 commander who outted his country
It’s all up to you too, mate. You don’t have to explain yourself to me and you Can do what you want and ignore me but I’ll always say like it is because delusion is Our mutual enemy
I think you just misunderstand me @Yazooneh
My ego wants to go back and forth but I’ll just be wise and keep my mouth shut.
I’m already experiencing the cool stuff.
So far only chosen from within and love bomb for humanity have been spoken about and it hasn’t really gone into detail about how it helped them.
I’m sure there are other subs directed at healing on this fantastic website. I’ve experimented a little with love bomb for humanity but haven’t given it a proper cycle more used it as a momentary tool. All this universal love and self love I already have to a high degree and its not saying it actually heals trauma etc.
Chosen I have a lot of those attributes already and it’s again not very therapeutic sounding. The leadership stuff sounds cool but I’m not aiming to a leader right now at least not in the physical sense.
So I would say I’m still looking for answers to my original question. Also no one has chimed in on combining physical healing with emotional healing.
I understand that for some people going through a healing phase is the number one priority. But you have to empathise with the fact that we all have different priorities depending on different chapters of our lives.
@Yazooneh
You seem to have labelled me as some dude on a subliminal audio forum. But you have absolutely no idea who I am or what I do or what I’ve been through. You’re making assumptions very quickly about someone you’ve never met which isn’t the wisest approach in my opinion.
My post wasn’t meant to trigger people it was meant to ask for pragmatic advice on healing.
I have no doubt you’ve been through much but I can’t help but point out things I see in myself formerly, attitudes towards healing and life, in general, that held me back greatly
That’s understandable. People will only share if they want to and we can’t really push them to answer. But will tag @Malkuth here since he is quite knowledgeable on customs and he has made healing customs before. He is free to answer or ignore of course but am sure he will give some input to help you along.
Please also look into the various journals here especially the customs section where people have done what you are looking for. Perhaps a couple of them will provide the answer.
By the way, I had made one custom which is a combination of emotional and physical healing. I must admit it was a mixed bag since emotional healing sometimes tend to cause some emotional upheaval to help release some past trauma and limits.
It could help with physical healing since removing mental, emotional and spiritual blocks could help with physical healing but I must admit that after the experiment, I prefer to make a pure physical healing custom when am focused on that.
Others would probably decide otherwise based on their past and their experiences. There isn’t a one size fits all solution when it comes to customs since we all have different experiences and hence require different solutions.
Yeah mate this all maybe sounds heroic in your eyes
you’re a dude on a subliminal website who uses grand examples of people to explain why he should skip healing and get to the cool stuff.
You’re not as heroic as your entire paragraph made you sound, you just really don’t want to heal
You don’t have to explain yourself to me and you Can do what you want and ignore me but I’ll always say like it is because delusion is Our mutual enemy
Do the healing, stop looking for cool stories from other members to give you some sense of follower dopamine as if you’re just chasing dopamine with every subliminal stack you choose
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Maybe you aren’t self aware of how you sound but this all has a quite condescending tone.
My ego wants to heal. I have my why although actual answers to what I asked could only provide more reasons why to heal and make me learn about the healing process in general not just for myself but for others also.
The only questions are when to do it and how.
To me healing is inevitable its just when is the right timing and the right method for me.
Think of me buying a car and you’re the salesman. I’m asking questions because I want to buy the car and learn more about it. You know why(reasons) i am here already. You know if I’m asking questions I’m thinking about when(now or at a later date when the time is right) to buy it or buy into the idea of having the car or going through the healing. And now I’m looking at different cars to see how I’m going to get to the destination in the best way possible.
I don’t feel like anything is wrong with me. I’m living my life to the fullest and it’s getting fuller. I just know there is healing I need to go through
Hence me starting this thread.
You’re already listening to a subliminal, swapping to healing instead of “gravitas and le charisma”
I’m not subliminal swapping chasing dopamine and the next fix etc and getting all hyped up constantly looking all over the place for something that is inherently missing.
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@Yazooneh does tend to be a bit more direct. I don’t think he means to be mean but sometimes I must admit there has been times when I get replies which are similar to his from others and it does help me be a bit more self-critical.
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@Yazooneh - please go easy on the fellow. He is a new user who is entering a new place here so lets be a bit more understanding.
I’ll start by simply sharing the modules of my two Healing customs.
You can then respond and react (or not), and based on that, we can get a sense of what you are currently looking for or exploring.
Similar to @Lion, I conceived of Internal Healing and Physical/Physiological Healing as being distinct enough to warrant two separate customs. With ZP, focus is paramount.
Drakari TRANSCEND
Dragon Reborn Core
Chosen Core
Divine Self-Image
All-Seeing
Faith Unyielding
Virtue Series: Hope
Virtue Series: Temperance
Joie de Vivre
Emotions Unfettered
New Beginnings
The Flow
Sanctuary
Foundation
The Boundary
Fearsome
Eye of the Storm
FEBRUUS
Pragya
Pride Unbroken
Vortexdive Crucible
POOLS of Healing: Thrive
Paragon Complete Core
SPS: Endocrine System
SPS: Reproductive System
A/SPS: Organs
SPS: Respiratory System
SPS: Nervous System
SPS: Skeletal System
Health Codex
Fusion Optimized
Stop Porn and Masturbation
Inner Gasoline
Deep Sleep
A/SPS: Eyesight
SPS: Fat Burn
SPS: Muscular System
Male Enhancement
Prevent Premature Ejaculation
Diamond Ultima Core
SPS: Digestive System
SPS: Integumentary System
Both customs were built in Terminus2.
From July 2021 to July 2022, I worked through Dragon Reborn.
When I got to stage 4 of DR, I listened for 1 play period, and then replaced Dragon Reborn with the above Drakari TRANSCEND custom. Played it for 2 more play periods only (I think).
When I introduced Drakari TRANSCEND, I also introduced POOLS.
These were dense customs, and so I consider 2 play periods to have been very brief. I’ve barely scratched the surface of them. (Though I did experience results.) My plan is to periodically return to these two customs in what I’m thinking of as subliminal Healing Retreats. I have not yet planned the next Healing Retreat because I’m giving my current (primary) stack time to cook and time to build. Eventually, I’ll develop a rhythm of alternating between Building Phases and Healing Phases.
[There are, of course, a multitude of other Healing-relevant modules in the Q-Store. These are simply the ones that I personally chose.]
p.s. I consider one of the customs in my current stack, NAISSANCE, to be a kind of hybrid. It is focused on Internal Development, and can be at home in a Healing Phase or in a Building Phase.
I didn’t play it for very long (2 play periods) and at the time I was so zooted out and preoccupied by Dragon Reborn process, so I don’t think I’ve scratched the surface, but:
Better sleeping
Better energy
Physical shifting/strength gains
Fat loss
Stronger erections
Don’t think I gave it enough time to feel much eyesight or respiratory shifting. I think those will take more time.
I’m sure there were more results, but I don’t remember right now.
It’s definitely one that I want to return to.
One other point is that I kept experiencing benefits for some time after I stopped actively playing it.
I also had a weird integumentary issue (known as ‘dishydrosis’) that arose about 3 to 5 weeks (? give or take) after I stopped. Lasted for a couple of weeks, and then passed. Not sure what that was about. But did happen.
I am looking forward to when it feels time for my next Healing run. In the meantime, I wish you many satisfying benefits.
This idea and notion that healing means going experiencing and going through your trauma is flawed from the start.
It implies you have to keep experiencing some painful event over and over again expecting a different reaction, giving it more life, expanding and growing it unless it becomes an unbearable disease in your mind.
Healing comes from a state of feeling good in the first place, so that all which does not belong may hekas hekas este bebeloi and be far away from your holiness within.
Instead of feeding it and giving it life, allow some other space to be alive in you, giving that space your attention and awareness instead, until, in the end the one you have previously build into yourself has lost it’s grasp.
