Question from @Azriel (original post):
How is the sense of attraction, like raw, physical attraction and sexuality on KB1 for gentleman with girlfriends/partners and or who are dating proactively @qOS How will KB1 effect sexual, physical attraction generally and in combo with romance subs, like primal, Khan, wanted black etc? What about on other stages of KB
Summary
@Azriel — Khan Black Stage I may make raw attraction and sexuality freer and more present, for men with partners and men who are dating alike. It does that by clearing what gets in the way. Stage I is the healing stage, and the presence other people feel grows later, in Stages II and III, as part of the work those stages do. It is aimed at no one.
Stage I with a partner
Clearing the Ashes helps you tell a partner what you like without the old flush of apology, and hear what she likes without flinching. The Hearth Asks Nothing retires the part of you that grades your performance in real time, so you can laugh in bed, slow down and say what you want. The Thaw helps touch arrive as feeling again, so intimacy meets a body that is present for all of it. Firelight, Not Floodlight helps real closeness land brighter than anything on a screen. For a man in a relationship, that tends to show as more desire for the person in front of him.
Stage I when you are dating
Old Scorch Marks helps old hurts lose their grip, so when a new person’s tone happens to echo an old wound, it passes and you stay with who is actually there. My Own Fire helps you stay in your body when your desire runs at full strength, instead of turning yourself down. The Open Flame helps you become comfortable being seen as a sexual man, at dinner or on a dance floor, without advertising it. Stage I can run heavy for a few weeks while it clears, so the freedom tends to build as the clearing settles.
Beside romance titles
Khan Black places the romance titles beside Stage III. WANTED, Primal Seduction and Primal Nights are named for the man who wants heat in the foreground, because they burn brighter with Stage III’s source underneath. Heartsong and Primal Romance are named as the relationship alloy. Primal Seduction and Primal Nights both name Khan Black as a strong partner too. At Stage I, Khan Black’s partner is PEACE, which keeps you steady while the ground is cleared.
- We do not recommend Khan Stage 1 with Khan Black Stage I. Khan Stage 1 breaks down old trauma and limiting beliefs with great force, and Khan Black Stage I clears shame, performance anxiety and old hurts. Each is a complete clearing stage built to have the whole of a cycle’s attention. Run together, they compete for priority and the mind spends the cycle reconciling two sets of old material, which makes for a processing-heavy run with little to show. Later in the line, Khan Black places Stage IV beneath Khan as the strongest configuration it offers.
- Wanted Black is an Artisan title with maxed-out auras and its own sexual healing scripting, so beside Stage I the attention arrives while you are still clearing. Its sexual aura may also not suit men who are married or in long-term relationships. Bring it in beside Stage III.
- PRIMAL, Primal Seduction and Primal Nights follow the same logic. They work on sexual presence and attraction directly, and they do their best work beside Stage III.
The other stages
Stage II is where attraction starts to show from the outside. The Warmth in the Room gives you a fuller voice and an easier gaze that people sense from the doorway. Steady at Full Charge keeps your head clear on a date that is going wonderfully, so you still say the honest thing. The Wider Room raises how much pleasure you can enjoy without flinching.
Stage III deepens it. Gathering the Depth makes desire run richer, and To Keep or to Kindle lets you choose each night whether to keep the energy or give it everything. The Deep Lake lets a passing glimpse on the street ripple and move on, which matters to a man who wants his attention with his partner.
Stage IV makes all of it self-running, and it can sit beneath any later title.
My recommendation: run Stage I with PEACE, give Stage II its full time, and bring your romance title in beside Stage III. Listening guidance is in the official instructions: https://instructions.subliminalclub.com