Surprising to some, but not everybody is interested in sex, there are a lot of people more interested in romance. I mentioned before about having a colleague some time back that was always complaining about the people on his dating site wanting only sex without commitment while he was looking for something long-term and romantically intimate.
Most men (and women) end up at a place where sex is still important but being with someone is more important. For women it happens less than for men, who tend to jump from one to the other until they reach an advanced age. The rest of us got grumpy every time he did, wanting what he had.
So, the option of either should always be there. If nothing else, you could always go for the challenge of getting a long-term supportive relationship and then accepting the challenge of injecting sexual spice into it.