Psychological problem with women

Questions and Comments
#1

Hey people,
I have had this problem for quite some time now where as soon as I am under the sheets with a girl, I can not keep it up or worry that I am going to lose my erection / get an erection making me only focus on my erection and not on the girl I am with. I really feel the pressure/anxiety blocking the sexual energy reaching my genitalia. + I also get nervous already when talking to girls, especially the more beautiful they are. I think it has a lot to do with me not believing that I can get this woman or pleasure her right which makes me anxious about it even when approaching them. It feels like an inferiority complex towards women. But I still have this huge desire for them.

Anybody with a recommendation to attack this problem?

Thanks everybody !

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#2

Do you think Primal Seduction will help with this problem?

#3

Diamond ultima will help for the erections.For the talking to girls,primal seduction or daredevil would help.Paired with primal seduction iron throne ultima or true social ultima for an extra boost could be good.

#4

Primal Seduction

The more hot she is the more cocky your banter will become.

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#5

First, start NoFap.

Then, yes – Sex Mastery X, Diamond Ultima, Primal Seduction, Wanted, and Khan Stage 1 – can each help in different ways.

:+1:t2:

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#6

How is your diet? Are you mostly vegetarian/vegan?

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#7

Second, can we move this to Questions?

Third, run with Diamond my guy, just a week can give you massive (huehue) improvements. Also consider Ascension.

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#8

I’m considering going either Ascension or Primal Ultima as main module 2-3 loops. Can I stack Diamond to it like for one listen?

#9

Super healthy, not veg or vegan but eating super healthy

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#10

Por supuesto, my friend.

My stack for… Quite a bit of time was Ascension x Diamond 1 loop each. This was pre Qv2 and I personally loved it.

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#11

Well, on one bright side, you must be doing things somewhat correctly… Or you would never have discovered that you had this problem in the first place.

Now, you just need to get it the rest of the way home.

One more slightly humorous bright side, this could be your subconscious mind protecting you from an unwanted pregnancy.

You’re probably getting distracted from how attracted you are to the girl by thoughts and worries about things that might go wrong.

Needless to say, men throughout history have dealt with this issue. It’s basically about anxiety or worry. And there’s no shame in it. Over the centuries, people have come up with many many strategies and tricks for dealing with it. Some will work for you and some won’t.

Here’s one cool trick:

It’s kind of psychological fake-out. Tell yourself that for the next two or three times that you’re with a woman and going to have sex, you are not allowed to go inside. You can tell her the same thing. “I’m doing this thing where I am not allowing myself to go inside you for the first two times (or for the first time or whatever, you can set it yourself).“

That’s it. that’s the whole trick.

In general though, see what happens if you let yourself take a somewhat more playful, pleasurable, and enjoyable attitude to sex and lovemaking. If you make it enjoyable, you’ll probably forget to be anxious.

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#12

I have had the exact same problems as you in the past.

For me it had two reasons:

A physiological one, and a mental one.

#1 The physiological one stemmed from the fact that I was vegetarian/vegan at the time. Not getting boners and full erections is actually very common for some people on that diet but nobody talks about it.

Here a funny article I like to share:

https://www.google.de/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6750873/amp/Vegan-YouTube-star-30-reveals-ejaculated-time-months-eating-salmon.html

After switching to the raw primal diet (a more meat-based one), I am pretty much walking around with a full boner all day long lol. Especially raw oysters are incredibly aphrodisiac

With the diet, I also found anxiety in general decreasing 10-fold by the way.

#2 The mental one was caused by some deep-seated traumas. I have run Dragon Reborn for that and would recommend that for you as well. Though it might be better to first build a foundation with Regeneration before diving deep into Dragon Reborn.

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#13

There are already some good ideas posted here.

Please read about Diamond.

Please read about Elixir and Sanguine.

Please read about Primal Seduction, Ascension, and WANTED.

I think that’s most men who are attracted to women. For me, listening to Dragon Reborn and WANTED was a huge help. But DR is hardcore to the max. Might be best to start with Elixir.

Please read about Sex Mastery.

Thank you for your sagely wit and wisdom!

Okay mate…

There are a few ways you could think about this. There is Diamond and Sex Mastery for more of the practical issues of sexually pleasing a woman, including keeping an erection.

Then there is the more emotional aspect. Perhaps start with Ascension, and Sanguine or Elixir for 60 days. Then re-evaluate.

Without knowing much about you, sometimes porn is an issue when it involves erections difficulties. If this is something you are thinking about, I think someone posted about a program called Easy Peasy to help with stopping porn watching.

What do you think, mate?

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