Profusion of Fun

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

Love deeply, but never with hands that cling.
Care fully, but never with chains that bind.
This is the sacred distinction between love and attachment.

Love is a gentle breeze—free, generous, and endlessly peaceful.
It asks nothing but to be felt, to be shared, to be allowed to flow.
It grows in open spaces, where two souls choose each other freely,
not out of fear, but out of truth.

Attachment, however, is heavy.
It clutches, demands, and trembles with the fear of losing.
It mistakes possession for devotion, and captivity for closeness.

So love without chains.
Live without clinging.
Let your heart be a place where affection breathes and freedom thrives.
For only then does love become what it was always meant to be—
not a cage, but a home made of light.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

The Art of Holding Space

Truly holding space for someone isn’t as natural as it seems.
Most of us are well-intentioned when we offer advice, stories from our own lives, or quick solutions.
We want to connect. We want to help.
But too often, these attempts miss the heart of what the other person really needs.

Real support comes from presence.
From listening with your whole being.
From creating a space that is safe, unhurried, and free of pressure.
It comes from asking questions that show you genuinely want to understand,
from reflecting back what you hear—
“I hear you. It sounds like tonight isn’t what you want.”

It comes from naming and validating the emotions they’re living in,
from mirroring back their strength and reminding them of the goodness and resilience they may have forgotten.
It comes from asking if they even want your advice before offering it—sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t.

More often than not, being truly supportive doesn’t require new ideas or solutions at all.
It requires presence. Attention. Listening without waiting for your turn to speak.

And when someone experiences this—really being seen, heard, and held—it is rare.
It is a quiet, magical, and profoundly healing gift.
Offering it is not just kindness—it is transformative.

To hold space is to give someone a sanctuary in the storm.
And that, in itself, is extraordinary.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

The Power of Presence

You don’t always need to offer solutions.
You don’t need to add advice or new information to be supportive.

Sometimes, the greatest gift you can give someone is your presence.
Allow space for their feelings to breathe.
Sit with them in unhurried silence, letting the weight of their emotions exist without judgment or rush.

Mirror what matters to them.
Reflect back what they are trying to say, even when it’s tangled or half-formed.
Ask questions—not to lead, not to fix, but to truly understand, to reach deeper into their experience.

Trust in their ability to navigate what they are facing.
Know that they have within them the strength, wisdom, and resilience to find their way.
Your role is not to solve their struggle but to bear witness to it, fully, without distraction.

There is a rare beauty in this simplicity.
There is a profound magic in offering safe, embodied presence—especially when someone is lost, hurting, or overwhelmed.
It is in these moments, when words fade and time slows,
that true healing can quietly take root.

To hold space is not passive.
It is radical.
It is a gift of trust, of love, of deep recognition that someone’s inner world deserves to be seen—and honored.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

  1. Fun isn’t just drinking, partying, or being “social.” Fun can be a night alone, lost in a book, a long conversation, a walk, creating art, playing music, or diving into your work. Fun is yours—you define it. Learn to say “No” without explaining yourself.
  2. If someone is offended by your boundaries, that’s on them. The heaviest weight you’ll ever carry is the opinions of others—drop it.
  3. Ages 15 to 30 are the golden years of your life. Don’t waste them trying to please everyone else.
  4. You make friends and lose them. You fall, fail, and rise again. You fall in love and get hurt. You lose yourself, only to find a stronger version. Most of the pain exists in your head. Reality accounts for just a fraction.
  5. Improve your mental diet. Your mind feasts on more than food—it consumes what you watch, read, listen to, and who you spend time with. Remove the junk. Nourish your thoughts. Transform your life.
  6. Don’t spend all your energy trying to impress a crush with your looks while neglecting your mind. Educate yourself. Face your insecurities. Confront toxic thoughts. Learn to be happy alone—then everything else falls into place.
  7. Most problems aren’t the problems. How you think about them is. Fix your mind first, and the rest will follow.
  8. Before marriage, talk about money, parenting, beliefs, childhood trauma, sexual expectations, careers, dreams, and family health. Don’t leave the foundations to chance.
  9. Love alone isn’t enough.
  10. Heal before having children. Otherwise, they inherit your unhealed wounds.

You will lose yourself. You will break. But you will grow stronger. These years—the golden years—are your best. Learn the difference between truly enjoying them and wasting them.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

  • Be Confident in Your Presence
    Confidence is magnetic. When you carry yourself with assurance and self-respect, people naturally notice you. Focus on building your life, your goals, and your passions—attraction follows naturally.
  • Embrace Mystery
    You don’t need to reveal everything about yourself at once. Share parts of your story, your thoughts, and your experiences gradually. Let curiosity develop—it keeps people engaged and wanting to know more about the real you.
  • Be Playful and Suggestive, Not Manipulative
    A little light-hearted teasing or playful banter can make interactions fun and memorable. The goal is to create shared joy, not confusion or stress. Keep it respectful, witty, and uplifting.
  • Be Bold and Spontaneous
    Don’t be afraid to speak your mind or act decisively. Taking initiative shows courage and self-assurance. When you act with conviction, it inspires respect and attention.
  • Be Honest and Authentic
    Integrity is the cornerstone of respect. Speak your truth, show your values, and be genuine in your intentions. People are drawn to those who are real and self-assured, not those trying to fit someone else’s expectations.
  • Use Eye Contact to Connect
    Eye contact conveys confidence and presence. When you engage fully, it shows that you’re attentive and grounded in the moment, which strengthens connection.
  • Balance Attention and Space
    Respecting personal space and boundaries creates healthy dynamics. Show interest, but don’t overwhelm. People value your time and attention when it’s given intentionally, not taken for granted.
  • Stand Your Ground
    It’s okay to disagree respectfully. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and authentic perspectives, not constant agreement. Express your thoughts, make choices aligned with your values, and lead with integrity.
Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

A happy wife and a happy husband aren’t born from luck or magic—they’re built through consistent effort, attention, and care. It’s in the small, everyday gestures: the heartfelt “thank you” that shows appreciation, the unexpected “I love you” that brightens a day, the patient “it’s okay” that forgives mistakes, and the reassuring “I’m here” that reminds your partner they are never alone.

Marriage thrives when both people choose kindness over ego,

empathy over pride, and connection over being right. Happiness in a relationship is not a one-time achievement—it’s a daily practice, a series of intentional choices that show love in action. When both partners commit to this effort, love grows deeper, trust strengthens, and the bond becomes a sanctuary rather than a battlefield.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

This may seem obvious, but many people learn to disconnect from themselves in order to stay connected to others. These patterns often begin early and become deeply embedded in the body and nervous system.

We disconnect from our own experience because we learn that certain parts of ourselves aren’t safe to express. Or we learn that staying safe means rejecting others—because closeness might lead to being hurt, overwhelmed, taken advantage of, or losing ourselves in the relationship.

This commonly develops in family and relational systems with low differentiation—systems that struggle to allow individuals to be separate, sovereign beings while still remaining connected. When adults have difficulty with boundaries and emotional regulation, children are often required to absorb emotions, roles, and relational patterns that were never theirs to carry.

Yet allowing space for difference is essential for relational safety. When people can honor one another’s boundaries, feelings, limits, interests, and timing—and still see, love, and care for each other—true safety and connection become possible. That’s what allows us to genuinely see one another and be seen.

It’s when one person can be in pain and another can stay present without taking it personally, becoming defensive, or rushing to fix it. When someone can step out of a family role and still belong. When individuals are met as whole human beings rather than reduced to parts of their personality.

True relational safety means staying connected to your own feelings, needs, limits, and boundaries while remaining present, engaged, and curious about the other person as well. And for those who grew up in enmeshed or codependent systems, cultivating this kind of safety is a vital part of healing.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

Healthy relationships allow you to stay connected to yourself and the other person at the same time. They don’t require you to abandon your feelings, needs, boundaries, or inner truth in order to maintain closeness. Nor do they require you to disconnect from the other person to protect yourself.

Instead, healthy relationships are built on emotional regulation—the capacity for each person to tend to their own nervous system rather than outsourcing that responsibility to the relationship. They involve attunement, where people are responsive and curious about each other’s inner worlds without becoming fused or intrusive. Mutual care replaces self-sacrifice, and responsibility is shared rather than one-sided.

Repair is central, not optional. Misunderstandings, ruptures, and moments of hurt are addressed with accountability, care, and a willingness to reconnect, rather than avoided, denied, or punished. Vulnerability is welcomed, but never demanded or exploited; it happens at a pace that feels safe for both people.

Relational safety is what allows all of this to exist. It’s the felt sense that you can be honest without fear of abandonment, retaliation, or erasure—and that the other person can do the same. In this kind of relationship, difference doesn’t threaten connection, boundaries don’t signal rejection, and closeness doesn’t require losing yourself.

Healthy relationships make space for two whole people—each grounded in themselves, each capable of staying present with the other.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

If he/she truly loves you, his/her care extends far beyond physical desire. Real love is rooted in respect, empathy, and emotional safety. Before seeking intimacy, she prioritizes protecting your heart—honoring your feelings, listening deeply, and valuing your trust.

True connection isn’t measured by attraction alone; it’s built through patience, understanding, and commitment to your well-being. He/she doesn’t rush, pressure, or take shortcuts. Instead, he/she shows that your emotional and mental safety matters as much—if not more—than physical closeness.

When someone prioritizes your heart, they’re investing in the foundation of a relationship: trust, mutual respect, and genuine care. That kind of love lasts because it is intentional, selfless, and focused on connection that goes far deeper than the surface. Physical intimacy becomes a natural expression of a bond that is already secure, not a replacement for it.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

If you want her to respect you, don’t mirror her.

Don’t imitate her energy.
Don’t bend yourself to match her emotions.
Don’t soften your edge to keep the peace.

Be her counterweight.

When she’s chaotic, you’re steady.
When she’s unsure, you’re decisive.
When she’s emotional, you’re grounded.

When she tests you, you don’t explain.
You don’t flinch.
You don’t chase approval.

Women don’t fall for men who reflect them.
They fall for men who regulate the space.

She doesn’t want a twin.
She wants a leader.

A man she can lean into.
Order to her storms.
Structure to her impulses.
Calm to her noise.

Opposites don’t just attract—
they stabilize.

She gravitates toward the man who has what she lacks,
not the man who copies what she already has.

Be the opposite.
Be the anchor, not the echo.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

My girlfriend shared this to me…

Men lose themselves because they fear losing her.
Beauty hypnotizes the weak.

If you can’t walk away, you’re not in control, she is.
And the moment a woman senses you’re afraid to lose her… she stops respecting you.
Silence scares her more than begging.
Distance teaches her more than lectures.
Walking away is the ultimate proof that you belong to your mission, not your emotions.
A man who can leave at any time is the only man she can’t replace.

Yes, letting go is the hardest part.
It asks you to release control, fear, and the need for guarantees.

But love has a way of finding paths where none seem to exist.
It bends, adapts, waits, and returns—not because it’s easy, but because it’s real.

That faith—the quiet belief that love will find a way—is what most people are missing.
They stop too early.
They protect themselves too much.
They confuse surrender with weakness.

Yet when people are truly in love, there’s an unmistakable aura around them—
a softness mixed with certainty,
hope without desperation,
trust without needing proof.

Letting go is painful.
But love doesn’t disappear when you release it.
It moves differently, finds another route, and often comes back stronger.

That’s the part most people never learn.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

This idea points to a commonly discussed dynamic in relationship psychology: different things tend to carry different reinforcing value for men and women, and that asymmetry can shape power, behavior, and expectations within exclusive relationships. From this perspective, sexual access is often a primary motivator for men, while attention, commitment, and emotional focus are often more reinforcing for women. Because each partner may value and control different “currencies,” imbalances can emerge.

In many relationships, this shows up as women narrowing competition once exclusivity is established, while still maintaining a sense of optionality through attention, social validation, or emotional leverage. Men, on the other hand, may trade commitment, resources, or stability in exchange for sexual exclusivity. These exchanges aren’t usually conscious or malicious—they’re shaped by biology, social conditioning, and cultural norms—but they still influence who holds leverage at different points in a relationship.

This is where fairness and equality diverge. Equality suggests treating both partners the same, but fairness recognizes that different people respond to different incentives. What feels balanced to one partner may feel uneven to the other if the underlying values aren’t acknowledged. Assuming that what motivates one sex will motivate the other in the same way often leads to misunderstanding, resentment, or misplaced expectations.

Examining the roles of sex and attention in intersexual relationships isn’t about assigning blame or reducing people to stereotypes. It’s about understanding incentives, power dynamics, and human behavior more clearly. When these dynamics are recognized and discussed openly, relationships have a better chance of being negotiated consciously rather than driven by unspoken leverage and unmet expectations.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

How to Build Real Intimacy (Without Rushing It)

  1. Use your voice intentionally
    Tone, confidence, and presence matter. Speak softly, say her name, and let your attention be felt.

  2. Slow down
    Don’t rush physical closeness. Taking your time shows confidence, patience, and awareness.

  3. Create the mood
    Comfort comes before chemistry. Music, atmosphere, and making her feel at ease change everything.

  4. Affection matters
    Small gestures—gentle touches, eye contact, meaningful kisses—build trust and desire.

  5. Offer genuine compliments
    Reassurance and appreciation go a long way. Feeling seen is deeply attractive.

  6. Lead with confidence and respect
    Be present, attentive, and responsive. Confidence paired with consideration is powerful.

  7. Care about her experience
    Intimacy isn’t one-sided. Paying attention and being responsive matters.

  8. Effort builds connection
    Mutual effort, curiosity, and communication strengthen closeness over time.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

Sharing this. . .

She will try to tame you.

Not out of evil.

Out of instinct.

She’ll test how much of yourself you’re willing to shrink for comfort.

How many routines you’ll drop.

How many priorities you’ll postpone.

How much edge you’ll sand down to keep the peace.

The moment you stop training, your body softens.

The moment you stop chasing your goals, your purpose weakens.

The moment you abandon your brothers, your spine bends.

And once a man bends long enough, he breaks.

Never stop hitting the gym.

Discipline is visible. Strength is felt.

A weak body creates a weak mind.

Never stop putting your goals first.

A man without direction becomes decoration in her life.

Never stop spending time with your brothers.

Isolation makes men needy. Brotherhood keeps men grounded.

Love doesn’t require self-sacrifice.

Only insecurity does.

The woman who truly respects you adapts to your frame.

The one who doesn’t will try to change it.

Never put a woman above yourself.

Because the moment you do, she looks down on you.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

The physiological response during a female orgasm involves a massive surge of endorphins and oxytocin, which are the body’s natural narcotics. These neurotransmitters interact with the opiate receptors in the brain to increase pain tolerance and create a sense of deep relaxation.

Clinical studies have shown that sexual activity can lead to partial or complete relief of head pain in approximately 60% of migraine patients who attempt it during an attack. The pain-numbing effects are often attributed to the “gate control theory,” where the intense sensory input of an orgasm overrides the transmission of pain signals.

However, the efficacy of this “natural treatment” varies significantly depending on the individual and the specific type of headache they are experiencing. While many find relief, others may suffer from “coital cephalgia,” or sex-induced headaches, which are triggered by the sudden spike in blood pressure during climax.

Beyond simple pain relief, the release of oxytocin helps lower cortisol levels, effectively reducing the emotional stress that often triggers tension headaches in the first place. This chemical cocktail can also improve sleep quality, further assisting the body in recovering from a painful episode.

It is important to remember that physical health is only one part of the equation, as consent and comfort remain the most critical factors in any sexual encounter. While the science supports the painkilling potential of an orgasm, a headache remains a valid reason to rest if an individual is not in the right headspace for activity.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

I had this talk with my aunt lately. . . learn a lot.

Marriage is a living thing, always unfolding, never finished. It isn’t a destination you reach and then settle into; it’s a journey you commit to walking every single day. There is no final version where the work is done. Instead, there is the daily choice to stand beside one person through seasons of change.

Along the way, you don’t remain who you once were. Dreams shift as life unfolds. Old wounds rise to the surface asking for care and understanding. Priorities rearrange themselves as time, experience, and responsibility reshape what matters most. Marriage asks not for perfection, but for presence through all of it.

That is the quiet beauty of marriage: it isn’t about arriving somewhere fixed and flawless, but about becoming. Becoming more patient. More aware. More willing to listen, to forgive, to adapt. It is two imperfect people learning how to grow, adjust, and evolve—sometimes stumbling, sometimes stretching—yet choosing, again and again, to move in the same direction.

Marriage is not about staying exactly the same. It is about staying committed to each other while everything else changes. Not standing still, but standing together.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

I believe on this. . .

Studies suggest that having a supportive girlfriend can literally add 10 years to your life. This speaks to the power of positive relationships in both mental and physical well-being. When you have someone by your side who motivates you, challenges you, and supports your dreams, your overall quality of life improves.

In fitness, having a strong support system is crucial. Whether it’s a partner, friend, or coach, the right people can push you to reach new heights. The encouragement and belief they have in you can be just as motivating as your personal drive to succeed.

So, if you have that support in your life, cherish it. A supportive partner not only boosts your mental health but also helps you achieve your fitness goals faster. Surround yourself with people who lift you up, and you’ll find yourself growing stronger in every way.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

Sleeping naked might be doing more for your relationship than you think.

A survey reveals that couples who sleep without clothing report higher relationship happiness compared to those who wear pajamas or heavier nightwear. The findings suggest a subtle but meaningful link between physical comfort and emotional satisfaction.

According to the data, 57% of couples who sleep naked described themselves as happy in their relationship. That number drops to 48% for couples in pajamas and just 38% for those who sleep in onesies, showing a clear trend as layers increase.

Relationship expert Stephanie Ratcliffe explains that skin-to-skin contact boosts feelings of closeness, trust, and emotional bonding. Sleeping without barriers may encourage openness and intimacy, strengthening connection beyond the bedroom and into daily life.

There’s also a biological factor. Physical contact triggers the release of oxytocin, often called the “bonding hormone,” which helps reduce stress and deepen emotional attachment between partners.

Comfort and personal choice always matter most, but this research highlights how small lifestyle habits can quietly influence relationship happiness. Sometimes, the simplest changes can have the biggest emotional impact.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

Research shows ejaculating more often may actually boost pregnancy success rates.

Men undergoing in vitro fertilisation (IVF) may improve their chances of an ongoing pregnancy if they ejaculate within 48 hours of providing a sperm sample rather than waiting longer. In a clinical trial at the First Hospital of Jilin University in China, 226 men were asked to ejaculate about 36 hours before giving their IVF sample, while 227 were told to abstain for between 48 hours and seven days. The shorter-abstinence group had an ongoing pregnancy rate of 46 per cent, compared with 36 per cent in the longer-abstinence group, suggesting that more frequent ejaculation could yield sperm with less DNA damage and better overall quality, despite slightly lower sperm counts. This aligns with earlier research indicating that shorter intervals between ejaculations can improve semen quality and reduce DNA damage.

Experts not involved in the study noted several caveats. The trial mixed cycles using fresh and frozen embryos, which can have different success rates, and it showed a somewhat paradoxical pattern of lower fertilisation rates but higher ongoing pregnancy rates in the short-abstinence group, implying that fewer embryos formed but those that did may have been more viable. Critics argue that these “extraordinary” findings require replication and tighter control of confounding variables before guidelines are significantly changed. Even so, the study offers a simple, low-cost intervention that clinics might begin considering, and it raises the possibility that frequent ejaculation could also benefit natural conception, not just IVF cycles.

References (APA style)

Thomson, H. (2025, December 23). IVF success may depend on how long men abstain from ejaculation. New Scientist.

Yu, Y., et al. (2025). Shorter ejaculatory abstinence and outcomes of in vitro fertilization: A randomized clinical trial. Preprints with The Lancet.

Listening Schedule

Legacy of the Spartan
Tuesday | 15 min
Wanted Black
Thursday | 15 min
Diamond
Where FUN is available
Fun Day | 15 min


▷ 21 days | 7 days break

Regular intimacy may play a stronger role in heart health than many people realize. Research suggests that men who engage in sexual activity at least twice a week may have a significantly lower risk—up to 45% less—of developing serious heart disease compared to those who do not.

The benefits extend beyond physical exertion. Intimate connection triggers a series of heart-supportive responses in the body, including increased heart rate and circulation, reduced stress, and the release of oxytocin and endorphins. These hormones help lower cortisol levels, promote relaxation, and support emotional well-being, all of which contribute to cardiovascular health.

From a physical standpoint, regular intimacy has been linked to healthier blood pressure, better sleep patterns, and improved weight regulation—factors known to protect the heart. Emotionally, strong personal connections reduce mental strain and foster a sense of closeness that supports immune function and psychological resilience.

Over time, these effects can accumulate. Consistent intimacy helps create a cycle of protection that supports not only heart health but overall vitality. It highlights how emotional connection and physical closeness work together to reduce chronic stress and inflammation.

While nutrition, exercise, and adequate rest remain essential for a healthy heart, this research serves as a reminder that human connection also matters. In a fast-paced world, nurturing emotional and physical closeness may be an important part of living longer and feeling healthier.