Some of the things said in the conversation above is a bit against the forum rules and thus were deleted. It is not a personal commentary of the conversation that was occurring whilst we were away scripting, but nonetheless the goal at Subliminal Results is to create an atmosphere where all people feel welcome.
But I will say this: it is my personal opinion that if you are judging your self-worth over who wants you sexually, you’re already doing it wrong. True self-worth is built within, and if you love and honor yourself, you WILL start meeting people who loves you for your intrinsic worth. And myself and @Fire do not speak in platitudes, but rather lived and observed experience. How many of you have run Love Bomb, generated a sense of self-worth and then found that the people around you began to express love to you as well?
Reality seems to mirror that which is hidden within the person. If you think of it from a different perspective, things become a bit clearer, at least for me. I was contemplating about this not too long ago, that since the mind is essentially “hallucinating” objective reality (because “reality” is far more expansive that what we can see and perceive with human sense), then what we’re all really looking at is a mirror of ourselves.
We never truly quite “see” a person, what we experience is our reaction to them. But, that is not the true person. Just our own reflection of them. When looking at life in this manner, what does it say about people who judge others solely on their age and sexual utility? What about the wisdom that age brings? The knowledge of being able to touch another’s heart and inspire them to do great things?
If you believe a man or woman loses some kind of “value” because you may not find them sexually attractive, what does that mean about your own internal reality? What will happen to you once you age? Will you unconsciously create that reality of feeling useless and worthless simply because you cultivated that belief so deeply while younger?
It is my belief that your “sexual value” does not define you, and ironically, it seems like understanding that revelation is what leads to sexual success.
