When communicating with women, which books or content were most helpful to you?
Models, how to talk and influence people, and the the evolution of desire.
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Will second Models by Mark Manson
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Zan Perrion has a good book too alabaster girl
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Flawless Natural by RSD Tim
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How To Be a 3% Man - Corey Wayne (found it more useful than Models)
No more Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover(this book is a gem)
The Book of Pook
The magic of rapport - how you can gain personal power - Jerry Richardson
And the best book on this Iâve ever read:
Game Over - From Pick-Up Artist to Social Heartist - John Cooper
Cooperâs book is the perfect antidote to anything PUA or Red Pill you might have picked up from somewhere.
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The Social Heartist turns every transaction into an interaction. He doesnât just order his coffee, pay
and walk out. That would be like treating people like slaves. He sees everyone as human, and uses
the opportunity to rehumanise the moment.
Read the module description for Essence Magnetic Social Flow and tell me that isnât 1:1 basically
Thanks for sharing bro, Iâm gonna check this one out
Manifestation from the first loop I ran yesterday of my new custom with the above module in it
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Thank you for your comment. I wonder if this book will be useful for openings with them.
Thank you for your response. Does it cover everything about talking to women? As I understand it, my problem is that I struggle with small talk and keeping the conversation going. I want to open up to someone, but how can I overcome the awkward silence that follows after saying hello, how are you, etc.?
Is this enough for everything?
Honestly, yes but I would include the first 3 books @GoldenBird has mention.
Iâve currently reading No More Mr.Nice Guy.
The book of Pook is god tier.
How To Be a 3% Man - No Idea.
First, understand there is no âmanualâ out there that teaches you âeverything you need to knowâ about talking to women. If any book says that, it is pure marketing. You should not need a manual in the first place.
Contemplate the following:
- Do you ever struggle keeping conversations going with your best buddies? Do you struggle talking to your parents? What is that makes you think you have nothing to say with women? What makes them different from other people?
- Do you see dating as a form of performance? Or do you want to get to know someone and let them get to know you as well? Do you want to have fun or perform?
If you donât want to contemplate these things, the fastest change in terms of perspective is that you can try to not ask boring questions, but rather focus on waking them up from the monotony of daily life. Donât turn it into an interview with interview style questions. Try to relax and be in the moment with her. What is she giving you in terms of what you can observe? Make playful, educated guesses about her. You will find this advice a lot because it simply works. Even if your guesses are wrong, she will correct you and give you more to work with. It simply is more fun and interesting than the usual âhow are you, what do you do, what do you do for fun?â type of questions.
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I loved the art of seduction by Robert Greene even though itâs more airy and philosophical than the other books in the thread it seems to hammer ancient wisdoms in
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Thank you very much for your inspiring response. I feel that I lack many positive qualities and that I have a sense of shame and negative experiences from the past, a feeling of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and a lack of self-love.
Hello, thank you very much for your valuable response, Mr. Yazooneh. When I first entered the forum without registering, I came across you while browsing. As I followed your inspiring journey and read your other responses, I felt an admiration and respect that I cannot express in words. You are the reason I want to become a Khan. Whenever my motivation dipped, I would visit your profile and revisit your journey. I hope your life always reaches the heights of a Khan. Additionally, regarding the book, I think thereâs a different prejudice about this book in general. I donât know why, but from the readersâ perspectiveâŚ
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Hehe thank you my friend, I appreciate that. The book is entertainment at best. Unfortunately, despite reading many books on âgame over the decade, none ever really evolved my game ⌠maybe I just never understood them, my theory is that it made me reek of desperation. Anyway! What do you mean about the prejudice
As far as I understand, the focus on deception and manipulation.
So what do you attribute the reason for your inspiring moments with women to after Khan?
Honestly, the deep sense of appreciation for who I am. I used to be so unhappy and insecure and with Khan was able to really just get over a lot of my childish tendencies and to accept the world the way it is, and accept myself the way I am
The best experiences with ladies these days are essentially because itâs become easy to get with them due to my balanced ability to mix equal parts vulnerability and boldness. All in all, everything related to women has improved in every way, I feel fulfilled as a man, and purposeful, whereas my entire life women seemed to be the shadowy main goal that all my low quality actions rooted from, my main purpose now is to live the best I can, and with it I seem to see women responding nicely
Khan is a wonderful program but I wouldnât cross my fingers and wait for a woman to fall into your bed after a loop. The deep internal changes in your inner software is ultimately what wins the game and that deep internal change takes hella time! But also, donât be surprised if you get a girl very quickly⌠it is a quick acting program, anything can happen
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In my experience with women, there isnât much to speak of, really. Past bad experiences, not knowing what to say, fear of rejection, excessive excitement, not feeling comfortable in my own skinâespecially because of tensionâitâs like Iâve locked myself in some kind of cage, but I want to get out of it. So, what would you suggest I add to this? Generally, they recommend starting with Ascension as a foundation. What should I add to Khanâs side? What do you think: Primal Nights, Wanted, GLM??
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Honestly bro. just do it solo right now. after like 2-3 cycles (of all stages, experience KHAN solo) add something.
I think you should just use ST1 for about 2-3 cycles.
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