Its sounds exactly the same to me, pretty incredible to be honest.
My ex told me she dreamt about me last night too… at first I didnt care much about it because I thought she had some kind of romantic dream and she was going to tell me she misses me or something.
Later she told me about it, in the dream (this gets spooky) I went to spend the night at her place in the guest room and in the middle of the night I just appeared in her bed, she woke up to find me very sick, pale and in pain. She told me to go to the bathroom to puke and she helped me cause I didnt want to.
I began to puke a huge black gooey matter, it took a long time and effort to put it all out. When the gooey stuff began to accumulate in the WC it began to form a person, the black goo formed an old woman, with white hair. My ex says she thinks its my mother, but it didnt gave me that impression. The woman dissapeared and then Im lying like I was dead next to her in the floor.
I didnt told her anything about my experience, but to be honest its very enlightening. It makes me think it was some strong negative, dark spiritual attachment. Of course to have those kind of attachments you need to have severe trauma, so to me its both… now clearing out and healing. Heal the wound, the enviroment is no longer appropiate for dark entities/thought forms.
The next step in the process, the next layer of healing.
Now Im listening to a loop of Paragon, so… sweet dreams to me.