It might be regeneration bringing up some nasty stuff from your subconscious memories that you may have to resolve.
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Ok, so she is asking a lot from you? What are you asking from her?
Is she asking the same when you are not healing? Is it only a perception or she really is asking more?
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Im asking nothing from her but im noticing her flaws loke crazy lol
She only gets like this when im healing no other time.
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You listening to subs is changing your thinking and responses to her. You said sheās been demanding stuff from you. Youāre seeking some room to breatheāto grow as a manāand it scares her. Women fight since fears rise up telling them all negative possibilities, most of which are not true.
She wants you to stay the same so she has some security. You may even become more dominant around her. Youāre changing the rules of the relationship, so Iād let her know what youāre doing. She may be uncomfortable with it. Tell her some short-term goals using subs PLUS some long-term goals so she knows what to expect.
Anytime a person grows-whether for good or badāit affects every relationship in their lives.
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Itās really wierd. But Iām sure there is some factors, something you are projecting, something in your tone of voice, bodylanguage, whatever that makes her nagging. An aura, someoneās behaviour doesnāt change like this for nothing.
@pacman Just a small edit here. This is not to point a finger at you or anything. Not trying to find who is to blame. The point here is trying to find something to grow from. You canāt grow from āshe is acting like thisā, āshe is doing thatā. Isolate and identify the factor (or factors) that change in you, analyse them and use them to increase your knowledge about yourself.
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First, I would encourage you to read all the replies thus far. REALLY GOOD STUFF IN THERE! Below are just some examples.
Second, when a loved one doesnāt seem to be facilitating or supporting the changes I want, ouch.
Iāve wondered if reconciliation also manifests externally by people being, well, irritable towards me. Just as I might feel irritable when experiencing reconciliation, I wonder if others might react that way to me as well. I think similar to what @King might be suggesting.
Also relationships I think tend to want to maintain a status quo. When one changes, the partner consciously or unconsciously may attempt to sabotage, or at least try to get the person back to how they were. Similar to what @subliminalguy and @Floridianninja might be suggesting.
I wouldnāt try to romanticize this as a sh_t test. If you dislike what she say or does, her tone of voice, her words, any facial expressions of contempt, her stirring up conflict, or whatever else you dislike, then you dislike it.
Iād also like you to consider the not so comfortable possibility that maybe, just maybe, you feel irritable when she does things because you feel irritable because of your own reconciliation. I think @GoldenTiger gave some points to consider regarding this. He also commented if there was a common theme among your fights. I think that would be worthwhile to think about.
Sometimes with girlfriends, a simple question of āWhat is it that you want that you think youāre not getting?ā and then I just listen. Sometimes there is a bit of insulting speech, and I try to keep in mind it likely has more to do with her mood than with me. Sometimes they would calm down and start saying something more reasonable, including talking about any fears or insecurities they might have.
I would encourage you to look at books by Dr. John Gottman. Heās been studying long-term relationships for over 35 years. Some of his books have āmarriageā in the title, so unless youāre thinking about marrying her, perhaps see if the library has it and only read it there. Or get one of his other books without āmarriageā in the title.
I donāt know if I can definitively give you any solid analysis. But I hope Iāve given you some things to think about to help you make a decision that will be best for you.
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Bro i would suggest you to watch Eddie Fews on youtube about advance but simple stuff. Hes not like other PU artists like do this pew pew pewā¦ He gives solid advice added with spiritual stuff. Try it once if you really wanna know about female psychology and deep game.
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No worries @GoldenTiger
She says i got no way of talking lol
As im saying this only happens when healing not sure why
When i run ascended mogul etc its fine
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Yes it could be that also
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Last week she kept asking if i dont see other ladies lol ā¦so some insecurtity there
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Iām wondering if it might be helpful to reduce the number of loops.
If I was in this situation, I think I would sit my girlfriend down and just make it clear I am making some changes. Explain what subliminals are. Talk about what Iām doing. Show her the productās website.
This might bring up her fears of abandonment. She might think or ask questions like āwhy do you want to do thisā; āwhatās wrong with being you just as you areā; āwhat does this mean for our futureā; etc.
Although itās possible listening to Khan might create conflict and distance with you two, itās also possible it could make you both closer. Itās also possible you now have to deal with your reconciliation and a girlfriend who is freaking out on you. Not easy.
I wish I had a simple check list for you, or a step by step guide, or some profound words of wisdom to clarify.
This might be one of those ambiguous times of life that occurs when you really would have preferred support and clarity.
Whatever might be going on, if it would me, I would stay with the general plan of continuing Khan. Probably reducing the number of loops per day. And start trying to sort out how much of this is my reconciliation and how much of this is her and then come up with a plan to try to soothe any of her fears or insecurities about abandonment, that Iām changing because I want to rather than because of her, yet making it clear I would like to stay with her and that things need to be more pleasant in order for me to stay around. Thatās where Iād start.
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I just had a thought. Are you listening to Khan over speakers as you are sleeping with her, or when she could hear it? If so, she might be getting influenced by Khan.
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Nope i use head phones only
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Hey everyone!
One thing just occurred to me. Other couples now or in the future might have a similar issue. This part of @pacman 's journal could potentially be used as a ācase studyā to help sort out issues that happen in couples when one starts listening to subliminals.
This is a chance for all of us to create a helpful milestone for now and the future.
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A wise precaution!
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Thatās true wisdom @RVconsultant. Learning from otherās successes and mistakes. A beautiful idea.
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I think i figured out what was going onā¦
The amount of power that Khan was giving me was very new to me. I had never that this amount of power before.
So i was even acting so different that i didnt know i was. Thus i was being so dominant and bossy with my partner. My voice seems deep heavy and loudā¦so that was also intimidating her alot. I also think that my aura has changed which is also comfusing her alotā¦
This similar kind of thing occurs when i used pheromonesā¦
Im done with khan stage 1 for one month so far.
I will be continuing with khan stage 1 and adding in stage 2.
Will start with stage 2 in the morning then stage 1 afternoon.
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@pacman this video is for you bruh https://youtu.be/wk8NFRXOZwE?list=PLIe5Wxq7JSqYJsVokB6vETYYSLW5pH3z3 Skip to 10 mins
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Had some female tell me 'dont be nice to me it feels weirdā
What the hell does that mean ??
Maybe you lack presence cause thatās what happened with me but I was using EQ during the early stageā¦ We used to fight a lot, like way too much but I realized I just need to relax and be present.
Hereās how you do, look her in the right eye with both eyes (not in a creepy way ofcourse nor sexual), empty your thoughts, and just listenā¦
Not to give answers or defend yourself in anyway.
Keep in mind, women have this tendency to blow up every now and then, bringing up shit yāall already solved.(so you think) so just listen, itās that simple.
Just doing so made her feel understood, that resulted into her falling deeper for me.
We still dating and we in too deep now, all because of that and some, I learned it from David Tian Rock Solid Relationshipā¦ if you wanna learn more you check it out, been on Module 2 for some time now.
Anywho, try out the presence, lemme know how it went.
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