Hi Community.
I’ve been reflecting a lot internally as to the root cause of my short comings over the years. Be it Career, Dating, Social and just not executing at them the best possible way.
A lot of it I find has been to due a lack of initiative stemming from perfectionism related procrastination.
Was wondering if anyone has had similar challenges they met and how they overcame them and which Subliminals helped along the way.
Cheers!
Therapy helped me more than any subliminal when it came to this exact problem
I will tell you why
Perfectionism stems from a lack of self-compassion
Perfectionism is related to a certain egoic notion that we SHOULD be able to do XYZ the very first time with no errors (when you analyze this, the level of pride underlying this thought is staggering)
Perfectionism comes from not being realistic about our true limits and trying to force ourselves to be more powerful/intelligent/prepared than we actually are (aka not accepting ourselves for who we are in this moment)
With more humility, self-love & compassion, and being kind to ourselves regarding what we are actually capable of in this moment, perfectionism can gradually wither away in our minds and hearts
I don’t know which sub would help most with that, maybe LBFH or regular Love Bomb (which Fire told me in a support ticket is actually better than LBFH for feeling loved, both by the self and the world)
Or you could run Emperor Black and bruteforce your way through it. But that will be more painful and violent than it needs to be, because EB will get you to take action while mildly healing the perfectionism, but it will still be there and the recon will be insane (personal experience).
Emperor Black
Executive
Limitless
Folks stop irrelevantly recommending LBFH for any problem, please.
Perfectionism has nothing with that self-love LBFH is supposed to work with.
Run Khan Stage 1 or QL stage 1. Most probably you have issues the mentioned titles can solve.
Khan St1 demolishes every insecurities you have, so you as a result you won’t care about result as much as about process. QL St1 heals your brain, so you will be more rational, hence you will be aware of perfectionism totally doesn’t make sense.
What would you recommend then?
Edit. Haha. We posted at the same time.
Khan Stage 1 and/or QL stage 1
You’re assuming perfectionism has one cause. It doesn’t. It’s a symptom and it varies. He had good advice, it’s up to other people to consider if it would work for them or not.
Can confirm LBFH certainly helps with that.
Wouldn’t trying to be perfect presuppose that one lacks self-acceptance?
Constantly striving for an unattainable ideal because they believe something is fundamentally wrong with them and can’t accept who they are…
Personally I’d say that person needs self love.
run Khan ST1 then. If you a person have a self acceptance problem, then he has a trauma which cause the problem. Total Breakdown literally kill all traumas related to self acceptance because you cannot be a khan if you have such a problem.
Curious on your vision of the type of self-love LBFH is supposed to work with?
Do you have any real life examples?
Like, how did perfectionism cause you to procrastinate in something and what was your thought process.
The reason why bright kids had lower grades. Its on upbringing that shape us to what we are right now. Children who grows on strict compliance and rules are likely to have bad reaction when they get rejected.
Yes Love Bomb is recommended, Emperor Black, No - you need to better prepare when taking on the Emperor or you will regret it later.
Have you heard about Genesis, read it here.
Just not taking enough initiative and almost shooting myself in the foot.
For example in the area of business.
An idea comes to my head.
I would think of a million ways of how it might go wrong either now or in the future.
This causes over critique leading to failed initiative.
This often causes a lack of risk taking and only taking the safe route which ultimately leaves me feeling unfulfillled.
Run Genesis, the new subliminal that just launched.
Crazy kismet because I think the action-taking and self-love in it are the answers to your problem
I’m currently running Dragon Reborn and it seems to be helping in what I feel like is a similar way.
Genesis seems like a neat idea perhaps some time when I have the room for it in my stack.
Thanks for the suggestion!
yes it would, but I would take more time to be fully unfolded because the area of DR is wider than Khan’s area.