Opportunities Seized (Reframed) šŸ˜Š

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#1

I would like to have some feedback about this experience.

In the last few weeks there were a couple of uncommon manifestations, which I know were the result of the subs.

(Itā€™s obvious now, but at the time, I didnā€™t see them as such)

Yet I did not grab hold of them and instead remained either too passive when presented with the opportunities or a distraction preoccupied me.

I did end up in another scenario which was still cool and fun, but part of me wishes I had picked and prioritized the other one.

Iā€™ve looked at them and said to myself those were what I was wanting and seeking, but I passed them up.

So what was holding me back, and how come I didnā€™t go after them?

Without going into all the details it was in the context of a romantic connection.

Could it be a bit like that movie slidding doors, and I have to trust that it all unfolded as it ought to have. If I had of gone the other option who knowsā€¦

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#2

Iā€™ve noticed lately thereā€™s been posts by a number of different authors asking for advice but providing very little concrete information to go on.

Realistically with only the information provided itā€™s impossible to do anything but speculate. One thing thatā€™s worth considering, I do seem to recall scripting against being manipulated in some of the seduction subs in the past. Obviously thereā€™s already TWTP as a whole program to avoid this, but I seem to recall that was part of the earlier versions of Libertine (PN) or PS, Iā€™m not sure if thatā€™s still in there or has been written out, Saint or Fire would probably be able to say more about this. It could be that your subconscious picked up on some kind of danger signal like that, or something in the local environment.

Reliving the experience using LME would probably be beneficial, it does seem to help with more vivid recall of memories.

I wouldnā€™t over-think it though, the best thing to do is perform exercises/actions to help the flow factor and uptake of the sub, and keep doing what youā€™re doing. Second guessing yourself is a real easy way to lose faith in your subconscious mind.

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#3

Yes, I have to stop doubting or questioning my decisions and actions, and obsessing over themā€¦ it has been a weakness of mine. Iā€™m in the process of healing.

Details were conceiled to protect personal information. I see how itā€™s not much to go on. I did hope the gist of it was sufficient.

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#4

There could be many reasons. You didnā€™t feel confident enough at that exact moment. You were dealing with some recon. The better looking romantic prospect felt more difficult to attain cause it looked better in your eyes. And so on and so forth.

I have had the same feelings on the matter. But I think it is all related to dwelling on past.

Maybe the ā€˜presentā€™ would be better if we chose correctly in the ā€˜pastā€™. But that thought doesnā€™t help us. It would help if we could diagnose what we felt and what we did back then so we can improve on it the next time the opportunity is presented to us.

Maybe trying to look our best whenever we are out. Or being more social. Sometimes even telling ourselves that mistakes are okay and there will always be better opportunities in the future.

I wish I knew what the answer is. But so far it could only be speculating. So what I can say for sure is to make our present thougts, habits, lifestyle, etc better so we are better prepared for future opportunities.

We all live and learn.

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#5

I guess I ought to have clarified that I was given a clear ā€œgreen lightā€ by them. Thatā€™s the bit that has made me wonder why I didnā€™t jump at it.

There was no intuitive ping or pull in me towards them. Just on the surface it seemed like it would have been a great idea, so that perhaps best explains it.

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#6

We can speculate but only you know the real answer.

Take some time to do some meditation practice and then go into that situation mentally, and ask yourself why. You want to be relaxed and in a so-called ā€œopenmindedā€ state, accept any answers you get and continue going deeper. When there is some sort of release you know youā€™ve had the right answer. If the subs you are currently using have NXE they can help guide you in this introspective practice, at least that is my experience

So;

  1. Calm down and relax, concentration meditation is a great way. Short explanation is that you want your mind focused on a singular task so that it does not stand in the way of you receiving answers that your mind otherwise would conjure up as explanations.
  2. Go into the situation mentally and start asking yourself why - answers will pop up, accept them and dig deeper. You donā€™t want to ā€œthinkā€ the answer, that usually means you arenā€™t relaxed enough and not receptive. You want to ask an question from curiosity, and receive an answer. You then dig deeper, and deeper and deeper.
  3. Releasing. - When you have found the right answer, (the underlying answer) there is some sort of release. It can be muscular tension, it can be energetic, or it can just be a clarity of the situation and understanding. The situation should not bother you anymore and you should have some inclination (or no need) of knowing what to do in the future.

When I say the underlying answer, thatā€™s precisely what I mean. You might have avoided because you were insecure, and thatā€™s an answer you might get. Hereā€™s an example of digging deeper for that:
"Why was I insecure? ā€œBad experience with womenā€ ā€œWhy bad experiences with womenā€, ā€œI donā€™t know anything elseā€, ā€œWhy donā€™t I know anything else?ā€ and you continue until you hit that release. Might take some time at first. Anything from 5-40minutes is my experience in total for the whole process.

NXE subs make this easier if theyā€™re about that specific subject.

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