Ongoing pattern of self-sabotage with women

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#1

I open this thread to ask what type of title is recommended for me in this case.

Doing a little self-analysis, I noticed that I go through the same negative pattern when it comes to women, unconsciously ruining my progress.
At first there is interest between me and a girl, then over time I start to get needy and clingy and various traumas concerning the past, such as problems with self-acceptance and fear of abandonment, start to surface, pushing away at a certain point of our acquaintance, the girl.

As long as I am not in contact with or dating women, these traumas and negativity remain dormant, but as soon as I come into contact with a woman, who shows a minimum of interest in me, I get too attached, I become needy and she magically starts to drift away or disappears.

So I ask: what is the best stack or stack that can solve this problem of mine?

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#2

Primal seduction
Wanted
Any alpha sub

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#3

I would recommend using The Elixir and especially the guided meditation that accompanies the download. And Mind’s Eye ZP– if you were to visualize and reaaally FEEL into falling in love with yourself, your life, the things that give you a rush of happiness or freedom it will take you a long way. When you build a firm foundation of self love and self acceptance a female will sense that solidity and want to stand there with you.

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#4

The best stack is the women themselves, I’m finding. Stack the women so you have many options you’re looking at.

Get convos going with as many as possible. I had one-itis before. Now I’m ditching that.

Many-itis, if anything. If one doesn’t seem into what you want, you can still chat as friends (if you want)…but you can focus your relationship efforts on the others.

As for subs:

Libertine
Primal Seduction
Sex Mastery
Diamond
Heartsong
Wanted

Figure out which you want in any given cycle, but run them all over time. Knowing full well that scripting will be available to you as needed in mind to reach your goals.

I’d stick to the recommendations as for building your stacks. But my recommendation is to work your way through all those titles (assuming they all resonate with you).

And any others you know of that I’m missing which are sex/seduction/relating themed.

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#5

A good selection for sure , I’d say primal and libertine to start off with

#6

I would suggest a foundational product like Ascension stacked with Elixi

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#7

Highly relate. I recently started WANTED and it’s been drilling into those exact issues. It seems like a surface level sub but it’s anything but, there’s deep identity shifts with that one. Similar to what @Trader is suggesting I decided I just need to make women more of a constant in my life vs a scarcity.

There’s a difference between understanding on an emotional level there’s other options vs an intellectual. Women being interested in me has been a novelty in my life. So when it happens it’s that “can’t screw this up” mentality which wrecks things. It needs to be normalized.

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#8

I’m going to use this as an opportunity to emphasize something that I wanted to make an entire thread about

If you really want massive changes in your life then stick to one program and work focused on the one issue until it’s gone. And probably sounds like you need yourself wanted IMO

Wanted solo for a few cycles will change you

You maybe did wanted before but solo on zpv2 imo can solve any problem

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