Not sure what to do

This looks like the issue.

And it’s not unusual. Lots of us lose touch with what we want or what motivates or inspires us. And it’s a bit like surfing because even when you have found it for a while, you’re still going to lose it again. Then you just need to work to find it and to get on top of it again.

Here’s the thing:

When it comes to connecting with your motivation and inspiration, DOING STUFF is usually much more efficient than THINKING ABOUT STUFF.

It just works much faster.

Schedule real-life activities that expose you to things that have a chance of reconnecting you with what you value. Even if it’s not 100% perfect, just getting physically close to one of your THINGS is going to be enough to ignite the flame.

And that is the goal here. You just want to ignite the flame of your motivation.

Without it, it’s very hard to gauge progress.

In all likelihood, you’re actually already making really good progress with your subliminal, but without a meaningful context for testing it, how would you even know?

A lot of people here (including me, sometimes) make Subliminal Plans and Subliminal Goals when what we need is to be making Life Goals and then just using subliminals to help us with them.

Sometimes before you can get what you want, you first have to know what you want.

You mentioned up above that you’d worked with Dragon Reborn in the past. And clarifying 1) who you are, 2) what you’re capable of, and 3) what you want is the strength of DR.

If you do opt to take a break to run Ascended Mogul for a while (usually a good idea), it would also be wise to break out Dragon Reborn Ultima.

Play just those two and nothing else. Then dedicate the next 98 days to doing REAL WORLD LIFE EXPERIMENTS to explore what you want and where you want to go.

98 days. That’s 14 weeks. Just over one season. Just over 1/4 of a year. A good time for a little bit of metamorphosis.

Give yourself the time you need, but every week schedule at least two REAL LIFE ACTIVITIES that expose you to something you think might be interesting, cool, or special. It might be a lecture. It might be a party. It might be a movie. A trip to the museum. A talk or conversation with someone you think may be doing cool things. It might be taking a trip to see something you think ISN’T cool and that you would like to change or improve.

When you take those trips or do those activities, treat it as research. Be the ‘anthropologist from Mars’ and just allow yourself to take it in without needing to achieve anything. You’re really doing it in order to learn more about who you are.

There are some things (many things) that you can’t do just by thinking by yourself. We can’t tickle ourselves for example. My point is just that physical/experiential factors sometimes make more of a difference than we would at first guess.

Okay. More ideas for you.

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Been finding myself in this pattern again tonight.

The telltale sign is when you are estimating how much time it’s going to take until “The results start coming”.

“Three months?!! That’s going to take forever!”

That’s a clear sign that too much emphasis is being put on the subliminal and more needs to go back to my own life.

Because pretty much every time I check, I find that there is a whole bunch of stuff for me to actually do; and I’m taking time from focusing on those actual things in my life to instead plan out more about the subliminals.

I don’t think it’s terrible or anything. It can be fun and inspiring to imagine how great your life will be. But at some point it’s time to put that down and get back to actually doing things and living life.

The results are going to come most powerfully when you focus on just living it life. It takes faith. (Shout-out to @AlexanderGraves ).

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Just wanted to upgrade this thread. I eventually went with ascension and DRU. lemme tell you, DRU truly is a juggernaut, i felt like it did so much for my mindset in general. I havent gotten to the point where i really have found angoal in life i want to pursue. That still is my goal to get to that point. This said i have greatly managed to come to terms with my adhd in particulair. I started recognising how a lot of my issues arent because im “defected” or whatever, its just simple ADHD. I also started actively seeking help for this.

Aside from this i also read no more mr nice guy as someone recommended. I gotta say, it was one hell of a good read! I relate with a shitton of it. My first change i made after reading it was related to trying to hide my flaws and i instead started being a lot more open about all my issues. Didnt necessairly make a big deal out of it and i bet most of my friends have already forgotten the shit i said. But still, it was a good step for me!

My main issue is still getting myself to be productive and do stuff. Ive tried a shitton of subs that should help with it and my custom contains multible modules dedicated to it. But still no improvement at all. Ive seen other ppl on this forum with ADHD say they had the same problem so i assume its related to this. Anyway i cant really blame subs for this, i have to actively pursue some way to midigate this issue. Right now what im trying is to have people hold me accountable to try and get me to work.

As far as sub use goes, im planning on reintroducing my custom soon. My mindset regarding this sub in general has greatly improved, and i really think i can get far more out of it at this point. DRU is my priority rn though, that sub is freaking gold still.

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