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#62

Day 24 done. (Technically Day 22 was actually my last day)

So I actually should have stopped on day 21, oops. Thus concludes the end of my first cycle. I definitely seem to get noticed more and conversations are smoother and I don’t slur/stumble over my words like I used to. Only one problem: I still have approach anxiety /: not sure if that’ll go away. But when I DO approach, I always feel good afterwards no matter how it went. I may repeat these subs for the next cycle, or I’ll switch SS out with Primal, or I’ll just do Khan. Either way I want to do more approaches when I get the chance!

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#63

So some insights from this stack which was run a bit haphazardly:

-will make your interactions with girls you’re interested in (and in general) much smoother
-speaking in general is much smoother
-eliminate neediness*
-you will get more looks and attention; some will be hit hard, others not at all
-you will feel good after every interaction/approach, even if it didn’t go “ideally” for you
-being flirtatious becomes much easier and enjoyable

Now the “cons”:

-will not eliminate approach anxiety (at least for me)
-can become very frustrated at self when you do not approach
-*eliminates neediness DURING interactions and AFTER, but can still feel it if you’re not approaching
-may leave you feeling like you still need to do inner work (again, for me as these are the first subs I’ve run)

This is what I’ve noticed so far, but I haven’t really been in a very social situation since I started the cycle, like I was sick off and on during the cycle, and I haven’t really hung out with people or done anything super social. Will add more to the list as I go.