Need quick answer for a friend

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#1

A platonic girlfriend of mine that I got onto sub club is looking at improving romance and sex life but is after more than surface level connection, so still ones with depth and substance. However, is not looking for a committed relationship again right now, after a split up with someone that she could have seen herself with for life. She has been saddened over that and disappointed after feeling rejected because of a couple of drunken incidences which he judged her over and changed his feelings, even though he realized that was out of character and not her true self. This has hurt quite a bit and she has so wanted to have him back. She obsesses over him a lot and events in the day trigger thoughts and memories.

I suggested to start out with LBfH for a bit of healing, which she has been on and completed 3 cycles. She got her spark and positivity back and loads of energy. Now wants to get out there again.

Can I get opinions on which would be the best subs for her. She is thinking sex and seduction, but to me the description sounds geared much more for men, talking about manly traits… improving body language in a masculine way…shifting energy to a more masculine state. Though it does say gender and orientation ANY, and she is also bisexual.

I understand subs can be consciously guided, but wouldn’t that take more effort if scripting is using terms that are most relevant to males, and also could increase recon?

Really good friend, top girl and very open minded. I feel very protective, so I would not like her to be attracting wrong types. She has been abused in the past. I would like to see her find happiness, but she is more wanting to just have some fun right now.

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#2

You did right in recommending Love Bomb for Humanity to her. Many times heartbreak does lead to a general dislike of other people and the self so this title will help with both.

I would recommend her to stack Love Bomb for Humanity with Heartsong. Heartsong removes romantic relationship trauma and also helps manifest relationships whether they be casual or serious. She can’t go wrong with it.

If she wants physical shifting and what the girls call a “glow up”, Seductress is a good idea. (on that note, I hear there is plans to make a title called Helen of Troy which will be the female equivalent of Legacy of the Spartan so look out for that).

In summary:
Love Bomb for Humanity + Heartsong
Or
Love Bomb for Humanity + Heartsong + Seductress

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#3

If she is still keen on the sex & seduction sub, can you see potential issues with a female running that one. Are my concerns justified do you think?

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#4

According to the Sex and Seduction sales page, any gender can run it

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#5

If that’s the case, then I’d recommend adding :woman_superhero: Chosen with :couple_with_heart_woman_man: Heartsong. :woman_superhero: Chosen will help her attract a good man for her, that’s attracted to those positive, optimistic and virtuous qualities. She will definitely attract a top quality good man with that combo. Also you mentioned her having a couple of drunken incidences. It’ll likely help with that as well.

The aura will also repel any bad people, like abusers and creepy men. It’ll also build her up into a strong woman, who can protect herself from any mistreatment. If she’s looking for something more serious, attracting positive virtuous men sounds great and would be a good break from abusers.

My girl ran :woman_superhero: Chosen and she’s positive, optimistic and happy a lot of the time. As her man I feel loving towards her and it made me want to become a better person overall. Also I’m grateful for having such a genuinely good person as my girl, who is very supportive of me overall.

So my recommendation is:-
:heartbeat: Love Bomb for Humanity
:couple_with_heart_woman_man: Heartsong
:woman_superhero: Chosen

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#6

Yes I can see that, but the description doesn’t seem to match as its goals read as masculine development, I wondered if that was perhaps a mistake.

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#7

By now most titles are unisex.

Would encourage you to ask support if you want to be sure about Sex & Seduction.

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#8

Did she consider seductress instead of sex and seduction?

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#9

I think she saw it but leaned toward the other one. That’s quite focussed on physical shifting and looking at her, I don’t think she needs it.

Unless you can think of other compelling reasons?

I’m going to forward these suggestions, ask to read over the descriptions and goals of each sub, and let her make the decision.

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#10

It’s true that the first 10 Seductress objectives are about physical shifting. But have a look at the remaining 11.

(Look at that last one in particular.)

  • Development of the most tantalizing, sensual charisma that enchants others, in a way that is perfect for you.
  • Dive deep into what female sexuality truly is and discover what It means for you, allowing you to develop it and make it irresistible.
  • Massive growth of your confidence and self-esteem, a sense of freedom and knowing that you can achieve that which you desire.
  • Find, attract and seduce (or be seduced by!) your ideal partner, one that fits you like a tailored glove fits a hand.
  • Generate an incredibly attractive aura and have your whole being infused with it, including your eyes, speech and mannerisms.
  • Develop elegance, grace, sensuality and mystery that charms all around you.
  • Grow your ability to understand exactly what is happening in your mind and emotions, helping you to know what you desire and how to get it.
  • Excel in multiple areas according to your conscious guidance – business, general social situations, even fitness and sports.
  • Attract exactly those men you desire the most while helping you discover exactly what kind of men you truly want. Be protected from unwanted attention.
  • Easily pick up new habits and ways of living that massively benefit you in the long run and transform your life.
  • Heal the traumas and limiting beliefs that stop you from being the woman you desire to be.
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#11

That kind of looks to me like the only one she needs right now. Running one program would be great.

She could always expand to more later after she really loves the results.

(Also you can reassure her that physical shifting is guided by the person’s personal ideals. So she won’t lose her already awesome body. Praise God!)

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#12

From what you said i think seductress would be a better choice overall. Sure it has physical shifting in it but it has tons of other benefits as well, which most of them fits what she wants. Like Malkuth said, look at all the other objectives. Sex and seduction feels more like “surface level” connection while seductress is more depended on the person itself. Also you said you don’t want her to attract wrong type of people, “Attract exactly those men you desire the most while helping you discover exactly what kind of men you truly want. Be protected from unwanted attention.” as one of the objectives. Of course its ultimately depends on her but seductress just seems better in this case imo.

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