Need help with desperation with new wanted

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#1

Currently i am running only one title which is new wanted zp & following new micro loop listening instructions but a girl which i like i am keep stalking her on insta

Looks like i am chasing her instead of she chasing, irl i an following all seduction techniques but just checking her profile out of desperation is killing my wanted aura
I didn’t text her etc

So basically wants to kill all neediness

#2

Delete your account and uninstall insta

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#3

Pretty much the above

And focus on other things. Work, hobbies, self-development, dating other women

I guarantee when you’re feeling busy with life you won’t feel needy

Edit: that wasn’t meant to come off harshly, have been in your shoes many, many moons ago and so in reflection the above is what I wish I had done

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#4

Shelve Wanted for now. Switch to Love Bomb + Ascension until you’ve significantly decreased all neediness. Self-validation is the best gift you can give yourself. Love Bomb and Ascension will do that for you. After that, Wanted will only be easier.

Do this too :point_up_2: :point_up_2:

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#5

I would say add glm to your stack and continue with wanted.

You just need some space between your thoughts and yourself.

Glm does that pretty well in my opinion.

And howz the women attraction on wanted any signs yet

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#6

The New Wanted might be the title that most directly tackles neediness related to women and dissolving it through actual experiences of interaction.

Its my opinion that whats happening to you is no more than the exact expected result from Wanted…

The Conscious awareness that theres an issue at hand to be resolved.

If I were you (Im not lol) I would continue doing Wanted as you are doing and let it work with you, by allowing yourself to make the right decisions and take action in the direction of what you want to achieve for yourself.

I remember reading in the forum many times and surely happened to me quite a lot of times, that as soon as a sub helps us uncover something uncomfortable, we feel the need to change subs, instead of realizing that what we are doing its already working.

One step at the time seems to be a very useful approach to move forwards and greatly helps eliminate the stress of wanting too much, to soon.

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#7

Honestly I think you’re fine… if the program is making you stalk her then what’s to say this isn’t the way?

#8

I already have other gf but dont know why i stuck there
I didnt show any needinees to her & i also blocked her then unblocked
I was using WB before but never failed this kind of thing before
agree with being busy with other goals though

#9

Currently Running Only New Wanted everyother day with microloops to up my game , adding another sub will make it heavy?

Can I listen one sub LB & Ascension one other day like we do with old zp instruction?

But seriously i just dont want any other complexity in my stack, by using very heavy combination before like multiple multi sub , I am sticking with only 1 from last 15 days & before that i was off for sub for like 1 month or more

#10

She sent me follow request & we had chat , also in gym she was smiling at me etc but then she removed me outof nowhere then i blocked her out of anger, instead of asking her or diverting conversion anything else by not caring about removing me

after that i havent talked to her IRL or online , but mind still stuck there lol

#11

Perfect, Its like I Pushed her away by blocking her when she disrespect me (which i shouldnt care of) but i did, my flaws, blocking her should be affirm or diverting conversion to somewhere will be perfect for me, but why i pushed her away i also dont know

I should stick with this sub for atleast more days so that my issue gets resolved automatically

#12

Instead of stalking her I want to approach her or atleast wait for her signal again so that I can talk to her IRL & resolve the issue, but I am or was worried about what & keep checking her profile which i know its killing me inside & somewhere I want to stop this behaviour

#13

Reading through your replies, I would consider getting a pen and paper and write and journal everything out till you figure out why you are feeling this way

It should give you some direction or even a cause for why you feel this way right now

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#14

No need for Love Bomb and Ascension, as your issues are specific and directly addressed by New Wanted and New GLM. Keep New Wanted at microloops and add GLM. Try 30s for some time until you’re comfortable and go from there.

Desperation and neediness can be addressed through various ways imho, and I am trying to figure this out myself, so bear with me here:

  1. You need to go from scarcity to abundance, or from lack of choice to abundance of choice. Most girls with their apps do not feel desperate because they are swimming in choice. If you’ve seen girls actually use the dating apps on their phones, you’ll see it is almost exactly the opposite of guys who often desperately swipe right on every girl in the hope of attracting anything. Girls see daily evidence for abundance, you don’t. This shapes doubt. Doubt kills your execution of much of the script in the subs imho.
    With New Wanted, you are theoretically establishing a foundation first for some time, and then getting signs you can act on, which should give you the Wanted feeling, i.e. having choice, which kills desperation and neediness as you are not emotionally dependent on or fear rejection from that one girl.
    However, this seems to work for some rather quickly, and for some it is slow.
    They say it depends on “flow factor”, i.e. how open minded and clear your consciousness is. The more doubt there is(which is conditioned by how traumatized you have been in your life in relation to what you are going after), the longer it will take to execute, because the script has to deal with almost reversing your beliefs in the opposite direction, which will meet resistance. Hence the frustration and slowing down of results.
    So if you’re running New Wanted and after a month, these IOIs are not showing up even if you’re putting yourself out there, you need to figure out what exactly is holding you back. Right now, I am for example executing on the grooming and looks improvement, building muscle and the playfulness/relaxation aspect of Wanted and like the way I look more and more, but see no manifestations in my social spaces yet. This is where I am currently stuck. Something is slowing me down, and I need to figure out what it is. Often, the sub will bring up the most pressing issue to your conscious awareness for the express purpose of you getting the opportunity to work on it, before you can move to the next issue. The difficult times are when it is not so clear.
  1. The idea that you need to find inner fulfilment, i.e. filling that inner hole by yourself. Are you trying to use women to fill an inner void? Both romantic and spiritual desires are for union. I think this is a long term project that won’t happen overnight, as it requires much self-understanding and many lessons to go through. So this is also easier said than done. You attract what you are and not what you wish for. And this “are” is a long term transformation, and highly individual. Nobody can give you a recipe for this. There is also paradox with Wanted:

Refer to an old post by Luther here:

The desire to run WANTED for most men comes from a place of low self-love/self-worth. They want the validation of women chasing them and swooning over them, just as you described. It’s extremely typical, cookie-cutter and normal.

However… that exact desire is a direct block to the goal of WANTED and so it’s pulled to the surface. The men are made aware of it in order to grow out of it because it holds them back. This will occur 100% of the time.

Connect all the dots of what I just explained.

That desire you had for running WANTED is actually in direct conflict with the goal of WANTED itself.

So the more you progress with WANTED, the less that desire will be there.

It’s a brilliant paradox and this can apply to many realms of growth but I will keep it relevant to your situation.

If I were you, I would not delete Insta. Wanted is designed to help with online manifestations as well and you gotta keep all pathways of manifestations as open as possible.

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#15

I am also thinking of starting of my own journal, It will help me out with most things
Thanks

#16

yep doing same with new wanted but didnt add GLM since read the description that it has some elements of GLM too

Actually I have lots of girls in my kitty right now, One wife, One Permemenet GF, 3 other girl friends but they are on remote

but this girl is very hot & localm so i got like I just want this chick, Need to resolve this blockage & want solid game plan to attract & seduce her without beeing needy or chase

actually my issue right now is I want her to chase me & in that process the opposite is happening while i dont show her but its been evident because i cant lie myself by stalking her, I really need to lay a path where more girls should chase me apart from only one source, I really need to up my online game so that more girls should attract & start DMing me etc

her being removing me from her follow list actually triggered an old scar of me which i now realise with my past experience, I should have acted humble & grounded so that instead of pushing her or blocking her , I must have remain calm but yeah everyday is learning period

looks like sub is doing this exactly, It teaches me not to block anyone I mean dont react if girls do stupid things because I am shutting my own future door & after few days I myself out of neediness unblock her

2nd lesson is if girls do stupid things, i should remain silent & not act on it

this is must for me, even if I dont find or get girls i like or anything else I should fullfill my innerself the most important missing piece in the game

fullfillment of innerself, how i wanted myself rather that how i want others to want me, if I want myself more then others will want me

I see myself ugly in pics where i dont take pic of mine, I need to work on this & fullfill all things where i should start to chase my innerself rather than seeking validation from others

Thanks for your detailed post

#17

Consider as well her removing you could have been a test to see if you would lose frame…

The WANTED man doesn’t care and knows she’ll be back. If not… well, there are many many others wanting your company. That foundation will arrive, stick at it and journal it out.

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#18

I think this was recon bringing out the neediness and healing it. If you write it down, sit with the feeling a bit and let it go, you will be able to heal it.

You might have to do it a couple of times but it will eventually go and you will be fine in no time.

This feeling of neediness might have been hidden deep within but Wanted dug it up for you to heal and in the healing, you become the opposite. Which is the truly nonchalant Wantsd man.

It’s perfectly okay to feel this way if you use it as an opportunity to heal yourself.

Thank the girl in your mind for this opportunity to heal. It wasn’t about the girl really. It was about you and your healing.

Once you feel okay, go up to her the next time you see her and invite her for coffee. If she declines, gracefully say, that’s fine, smile and say, see you around. And let her go from your mind until she changes her mind later.

If she says yes, go ahead from there.

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#19

It’s just recon.

Take extra rest days.

Or, accept that wanted is a harder title than you thought it was and listen to it just 1-2x a week, stacking it with a title that gives you the foundations of self-assuredness and confidence, (like Primal, or Emperor, or GLM, depending on your goals.)

There’s obviously a level of neediness that went into your title selection in the first place, considering u wanted to be wanted so bad u decided to solo wanted

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#20

Yeah that recon caused all sorts of bs within me as well, needyness is the byproduct of your mind trying to understand that you are Wanted, chased and needed for simply being. Yet it struggles since you lack the results to prove it…

It’s like a judge is telling you ” you are free ” while physically in Jail. You are treated like a prisoner yet they all say ” nah you are free ” but it simply don’t seem like it… until you eventually realise that you are only ” emotionally ” in jail of the minds making.

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