Need Help Creating My First Custom For Porn Addiction and Healing

Questions and Comments
#21

@RVconsultant Yes, I read the Khan Black description that stated flat out that “Artisanal products are a line of products intended solely for advanced users and experimenters”, but multiple people on this thread are insisting that’s the best one for my goals.

You also mentioned ways to counteract intense subs with titles like Carpe Diem Ascended”, “Joie de Vivre”, and “Genesis: Joy”.

I’m not trying to cheat the system or claim exceptionalism. I just want the most effective custom for my very specific goal. And it’s kind of confused putting together the best stack of modules for my first custom. I’ll defer to the KB sales page info and I’ll stick with the list I settled on earlier.

Will be waiting a few days to think about it and pull the trigger.

Thanks again.

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#22

Are they insisting, or are they telling you their experience?

If they are insisting, on what basis are they insisting?

If they are insisting, do they know you well enough to know if you’re an advanced user of Subliminal Club products?

If they are insisting, do they know you well enough to know if their assumptions of what is best is a good match for you?

It’s possible some people are advanced users, and telling you about the benefits they received.

It’s possible some people are zealous about their results.

Remember, there are only two people I know on this forum who know what is in the script. I don’t know if there is a “best” for what you are aiming for. There are a number of ways to approach it, and yours is well thought through.

In fact, there have been people on here who used SC products and gave up porn before KB was even out. As great as KB is, there are other means of achieving what you want based on your level.

This is understandable. Most effective in what way?

I would guess that if you have clear objectives, which you do, then match them with modules and cores, which you have also done. You seem self-aware enough to know what the symptoms of longer-term porn use are, and found things to match them.

You kept it focused.

You have some plans as to your next step after this custom with what you might want to listen to.

Yes. Was there something about this you would like clarified?

#23

I actually feel good about the Custom stack I have, thanks to your detailed suggestions. I’m sticking with that.

Could you talk more about these cases, in you recall? I wonder what SC products they might’ve used and what else they did to be free of porn?

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#24

I would encourage you to check for a thread about people stopping their porn use.

I think @Simon posted a link to a book called Easy Peasy in that thread. I think that book is free.

There might be two threads about ending porn use.

There is also Gary Wilson’s material. He has a site with his radio series. I think there are about 30 or so episodes. He had a few videos on yt, as well. This might be the best place to look:

In terms of the future, let’s pretend you’ve now had 90 days of listening to your custom. You’ve been going to the gym. Eating well. Getting proper sleep. Limiting your screen time. Etc. You know, the things that could help you in your plans. You haven’t had urges to look at porn since… you forgot when. It seems like another life time ago.

What now?

You mentioned your hair and eye sight. You mentioned spirituality. You mentioned your brain.

You mentioned interest in KB.

What did I miss? Anything else?

Read back over this thread and have a think about it.

What are your thoughts?

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#25

Thanks for the link and leads, I’ll check them out and read through the other threads here about quitting porn.

I’m not thinking too specifically about what comes after this. Desperately need to stop this porn usage and heal from decades of addiction and exposure. I’m also assuming it will take more than 90 days but who knows. I won’t be rushing onto the next sub.

After dealing with the porn addiction and damage it’s caused, my main focus will be building up a new side hustle/business since my industry more and more effected by outsourcing and AI. So maybe Emperor? Haven’t looked too deeply into success/alpha titles yet.

Pie in the sky? I heal from porn, start making good money consistently and then get back out there to meet and date women. That’s my end goal. So plenty of SubClub titles about dating/seduction down the pipeline when that time comes. :grinning:

Gotta get this custom to work first.

I’m taking a short trip this week, and will place my custom order next Friday. I’ll have plenty of time to ponder the modules I picked.

Thanks for the follow up and replies!

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#26

Exactly!

Have a fun and safe trip!

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#27

So I’m ready to buy the modules and build my “Quit Porn & Heal” sub.

I looked at my stack list with fresh eyes and all these healing modules I have seem almost identical based on their descriptions. I’ve decided to drop “Final Showdown” based on advice from @RVconsultant. That leaves these three.

  • ARES: To purge Weakness, doubt, guilt, shame and fear

  • Eye of the Storm: regain control over your negative habits and build positive habits

  • I AM: To break down your negative beliefs, emotions, traumas

My two primary cores will be “Regeneration” and “New Emotional Healing Experience”. So, can I drop any of these other healing modules without losing helpful alternate kinds of healing/negativity clearing? Here’s the list I ended up with:

  • 1 - Regeneration CORE

  • 2 - New Emotional Healing Experience CORE

  • 3 - Stop Porn and Masturbation

  • 4 - Dopaminergic Revival

  • 5 - Prevent Premature Ejaculation

  • 6 - Extreme Exercise Motivation

  • 7 - Productivity Unleashed: To stop procrastination

  • 8 - Organization Perfected – Clean, organize and tidy up

  • 9 - Machine: Action: remove distractions and time wasting activities

  • 10 - ARES: To purge Weakness, doubt, guilt, shame and fear

  • 11 - Eye of the Storm: regain control over your negative habits and build positive habits

  • 12 - I AM: To break down your negative beliefs, emotions, traumas

  • 13 - Carpe Diem Ascended: motivation, drive and ambition

  • 14 - Omnidimensional

  • 15 - DEUS

  • 16 – Pragya

Any final thoughts would be great before I finally make this custom! Thanks.

#28

First, please clearly state your objective in 50 words or less.

#29

Objective:

To clear the shame, guilt, regret, and self-loathing I feel due to long term porn use and open the way for emotional, sexual, neurological healing, as well as self-love and positive lifestyle behaviors.

#30

Addiction is trying and failing to fill a void, or something missing, on the inside with something on the outside

#31

You might be overcomplicating this. Just run Emperor for a good six months then see if you even need a custom. Why spend money on building a custom when Emperor is more than capable of handling that issue? If after 5 or 6 rounds of Emperor you still have that issue, at least you would have gathered enough insight and data to design a very targeted and effective custom.

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#32

Could you please speak to this? How will I have insight and data about the porn addiction after running Emperor for multiple cycles?

And I thought I was building a targeted and effective custom with this one.

I’m very interested in Emperor, in fact was thinking of doing that after this custom sub. But I want to be super specific about porn addiction and deal with that first.

#33

@Hezlitt : When I first started my journey here, Emperor was the sub I stuck with the longest—two years straight, and it was absolutely life-changing. It fit me perfectly. I never really struggled with porn addiction, but there were times when I was giving it more attention than I wanted to. When I ran Emperor, my mind didn’t even go in that direction. It’s such a powerful and demanding sub that it completely absorbs your focus and energy. Every once in a while, I’d realize, “Wow, it’s been two or three months, and I haven’t even thought about those sites!”, then my attention would instantly shift to something more productive.

I can’t say for sure if Emperor heals porn addiction, but I do know it addresses a lot of the deeper issues that lead to it. When I was running Emperor, porn just became non-existent to me. It literally was not a part of my reality. A couple of times, I even tried forcing myself to look at it, and it made me feel nauseous, so I quickly moved on.

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#34

Thanks for this @ksub . Emperor sounds great!

#35

By monitoring your thoughts and actions.

You were building it off of no data. You were just trying to guess what could work.

In my opinion, stick to Emperor for 6 months and see how your life changes. That sub is great all-around product. You can even run it for a whole year and not need anything else, especially if you’re a beginner. That sub is a gem! Don’t go lose yourself in the meanders of building a healing sub if you haven’t tried one of the store subs first.

Look, stack Emperor with Phoenix or with Limit Destroyer for a good 6 months and see if your porn addiction survives that. It probably won’t.

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#36

Very true.

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#37

I would say: :+1: regarding your custom build.

I would also consider what @ksub posted. After all, it would save you money.

Another thought: you could get Emperor at the main shop, and run it for 30 to 60 days. Then decide about a custom.

Or you could run your custom and Emperor. Although that might be a hefty task.

More to think about.

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