Need Direction/Advice on Life (Maybe subs too?)

It’s possible. But my theory is that men of all ages are biologically more attracted to women who exhibit markers of fertility which comes with youth. That’s why women between the age of 18 and 23 are considered most attractive because that is their peak in terms of biological attractiveness

Personally though, I do feel attracted to women of all ages who have a “golden ratio hourglass” figure regardless of their age. And I got the hots for legs too lol

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I’m a face-person myself. But athletic figure is a must.

I actually learned from a stripper that when she was on the pill she got less tips, presumably because the pill causes the body to sent out pheromones that indicate pregnancy and thus an inability to procreate. When she wasn’t taking them, she was much more popular. It’s scary how influenced we are by our biological impulses without realizing it.

One problem we have nowadays is that those fertility markers (possibly due to processed nutrition or other environmental factors) are starting at an ever younger age. A human female’s body starts creating eggs and throwing out pheromones that men are biologically attracted to around the age of 12. I knew a girl of that age that needed an operation to make her breasts smaller because the weight was ruining her spinal development. She got her period at 10. When I was in high school I knew a 14 year old girl who’d lost her virginity at 12. And she actually still looked like a 14 year old. Mentally she was no way developed enough and I spent a lot of time sheltering her from the world because she was drawing boys in like flies. Biologically it’s completely messed up.

Anyway, I’m pretty sure David didn’t mean for people to start an academic dialogue about sex and porn. :slight_smile:

PS Is it just me or do Gal Gadot’s legs go on forever? :wink:

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True. A large part of society is oblivious to this

Again, another issue but this one being a bit more well known. Unfortunately, nothing’s really been done about it especially with how easy it is to get junk food and birth control pills. Add to this the drop in testosterone for men due to the same reasons and we got quite scenario on our hands.

She’s hot but am more for the curvier type. Like Isla Fisher and Amy Adams (who at first I thought were the same person :smiley: )

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Yes.

What that man wrote.

I was just saying the other day:

Trying to use Reason to control emotions is not very Reasonable.

Use Reason and observation to explore and understand your feelings. And then also use reason to identify methods that can actually impact your feelings and experience effectively. (For that second part, reason itself may not actually end up that high on the list.)

Another wise thing I’ve heard is “Take your path seriously, but do not take yourself so seriously”.

We’re locked up in rooms too much and we forget that we are small as fuck in an extremely vast Cosmos. People actually need experiences that remind us of this on a regular basis. Awe-inspiring experiences.

Gives the old nervous system and hormones a nice reset from time to time.

Your passion and your agony came through in that post. Life can feel like that sometimes. The mind can get like that sometimes.

Might seem impossible to believe, but the same power that is fueling that passion and agony (Pagony? sorry) is precisely the same inner resource that is one of your greatest treasures. Like a bucking bronco named Rocket. It’s kind of manhandling you and throwing you all over right now. (‘AAAGGHHHH!!! I’ve just had an epiphany! I’m a piece of SHIIIIIIIT!’) Most honest people will admit that they’ve been there before. Probably will be there again.

But yes, that passion and that intensity are EXACTLY the same thing that will be fueling your successful life journey. That bucking bronco will eventually be your best friend who will carry you as you streak around the landscape of life.

Don’t curse yourself for having happiness or privilege. The more happy people there are in the world, the more freaking happiness there is in the world! :slight_smile: Your misery would not make anything better.

Instead, be thankful for your life, and keep on evolving. Spoiler alert: whether you appreciate it or completely deny its value, this shit more or less ends the same way:

‘Exhale’.

So, my vote’s for appreciating it. :wink:

Oh, one other thing: hahaha.

You were probably experiencing Reconciliation as you wrote this. This is often exactly what it feels like.

Respect, man. :peace_symbol: Solidarity.

You’re good.

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Surprise! That’s the healing module.

Bruh, Ascended Mogul is working on you and you don’t even realise it :smiley:

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“Man is what he believes.”

Read that again.
And again.

Seriously. Read and UNDERSTAND it.

I have been in your place. And I’m just gonna link the post I gave another member in here:

What you are searching is purpose.
Meaning in your life.

The great thing about our current time is (but also the tough thing) that you can CHOOSE your purpose.

Men of the past couldn’t. They were born into it.

That meant they were given a meaning, but it also meant if they didn’t like it, too bad.

Do you not SEE the GREATNESS of being ABLE to choose your own purpose, meaning, and success in life?

There is a system I developed with which you can find your purpose. I usually charge for that, but since I resonate with your message, DM me and I’ll give you free access (if you’re interested).

You can also try to find it yourself, no pressure.
Don’t wanna give off the vibe that I am trying to sell stuff here.

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I think part of the beauty of QV2 as it’s being demonstrated is this focus on manifesting results, because results are what feed into motivation to keep the cycle of using the programs running. The reason people usually hop subs is usually because they’re not getting results but getting plenty of reconciliation, and the frustration of the apparent stagnation causes a loss of confidence in the process.

Seeing the results quicker also helps people who are unsure on purpose see whether the path the results take them down is in alignment with their purpose or whether they need a different set of tools. So with a quicker feedback loop purpose can be clarified without going through as much trial and error.

I know I’m excited to see what ones aligned with my purpose can do in opening up pathways to manifestation, like Alchemist or QLQ.

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@David

Go back and read this out pouring of support for you above this post.

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@David

Now I’m going to post what I think has been left out.

Would you please review the recommendations for how to use the subliminals from Subliminal Club, and then compare it to what you are doing?

Then please make a decision to either follow the recommendations, or do what you want as an experiment to see what happens?

The other thing is people have been trying to point out that you are likely having reconciliation and I’m wondering if you’re finding ways to dismiss it and instead follow your ideas and then I think your reconciliation is getting worse.

If I was experiencing what you are right now, I would take at least 3 days off of subliminals.

So please post your plan and your reasoning for doing so.

We are trying to help you succeed and reduce your suffering. Is that okay with you?

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Thank you RV

I think i too shud take some time off now… It is night now. So, I’ll listen Khan ST1 and AM once before sleeping and then take some time off until i feel better

I realise i need emotional healing/cleaning right now. I’ll use Khan and AM only now

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Thank you Emperor,

“I am worthy,” saying this and internalizing this are quite complete things. I’ll try to internalise it altho i dont know how.

I really don’t understand this.

There’s a hierarchy. There’s value provided. Providing value is valuable. It put u higher on the hierarchy. Makes you more worthy.
But like this our value is at the mercy of outside forces. Not good.

It shud come from inside so no one can trample on it.

How do I bring this I am worthy feeling from inside? How can I say those words and be as truthful and honest as possible?
How can I make them more than just empty words?

AM is a good start for a lot of people even if they don’t know it.

So are most people. At least you know you are adrift whereas most people don’t even recognise this.

You can start by learning to spell correctly and I am not be facetious.

Plus you have also identified a need for some money. IOW, you don’t what to fuck off and live in a cave like a hermit, see you are already making progress.

Using AM will help you in getting goals. Oh look, you now know to run AM for a year.

Feelings change.

This too shall pass.

(Especially if you run AM for a year).

Yes and no, see Azrieals reply.

However, why should the truth make you sad and insecure? (Ever get the feeling you’ve been had, that society has been lying to you? More on this later).

Excellent, most people never get this far.

Most people never think. Because thinking is difficult, not particularly fun (especially if you have been lied too), they have not been taught how and society at large doesn’t encourage it.

So in order to think most people need to talk.

Talk about something important.

But most men talk bollocks about sportsball and women gossip about their acquaintances.

And what’s wrong with that? Men evolved to want to impregnate women.

Of course society tells you its wrong because society doesn’t want hordes of young men running around and raping everything in a skirt. Leaders understand that society can be made much more productive if conditions are set up so that the majority of men can fuck/pair bond as in antiquity only 40% of men reproduced.

And if pussy is missing in your life subs can help and AM will be a great foundation.

“Fuck” being the operative word, no doubt!!!

Men evolved to get a DNA tug when walking down the street and seeing and attractive woman and lets be honest here, you want to use her body as a masturbatory device and if she is a nice person and feminine you might even enjoy talking to her as well. Its all perfectly natural and normal.

Like most guys you won’t be a natural and will need to learn this skill set but skill set it is and can be learnt. And yes, once you know you can get laid and its just a numbers game you will become less interested in it. And just like women, if men have too many sexual partners it will impede your ability to pair bond. For women you want her to have no more than 2 especially if you are going to wife it up, for men the number is far higher.

Really, you have already mentioned your need for money so the comforts you enjoy currently will run out in the future.

Also, you have readily acknowledged you are deliberately sabotaging your life by not sleeping properly and wasting time with wankflix.

Fuck me sideways, you now know how to improve your life. Things are looking up.

Everything. EVERYTHING. I highly doubt that. As a kid I always wanted to drive and fire a real tank. My parents never arranged this for me, should I feel bad.

So we don’t have to run from sabre toothed tigers and people walk round with full bellies. Isn’t civilisation and capitalism wonderful. Aren’t we blessed.

So you are not particularly bright then. I know someone who got 4 A1’s at A level in Maths , further maths and physics (before the grades were devalued) with no revision. And no, its not me I hasten to add, I am not that clever but also I was never troubled with the curse of the high IQ (which is a real thing).

Certainly is. Society pumps this shit out and you all lap it up.

Don’t be, I’m quite enjoying it.

Because you are feeling a void and have come across subs as a way to fill it.

Whilst it would be easy to tell you to simply read the forum most people who get success leave which means that those left tend to be the ones with the biggest problems which is why you will come across such weird shit if you read a lot here.

Could be.

Is this an excuse to change subs just as AM is starting to work?

Porn is bad for you and rots the brain.

Would you rather fuck your hand or fuck the women in the porn you jack off to in real life.

This reminds me of the old joke, “Whats a virgin, I’ve never met one”.

Nobody is forcing these people to engage in porn. Having said that the nastier parts of society are advocating it as a life style choice but that is them simply wanting to gain power and needing to undermine cultural assumptions in order to do so.

And what if god doesn’t exist or the OP is not a believer.

A diplomatic response here would be “Your reply is not particularly helpful”.

You already have AM why don’t you run it properly for a year?

And AM will also help you make money.

Worthy of what?

Simply existing?

The OP already exists, now what?

Which bit of this is incorrect?

snippety snip.

Not really. It was pornographer Hugh Hefner’s only original idea. That you could get the girl next door to strip off and provide titillation for the masses.

The most common female sexual fantasy is the “rape fantasy” to be forcible taken by some dominant man and she is powerless to stop it.

Women are scared little bunny rabbits and whilst men might not be big bad wolves you have approach anxiety, fuck off.

I don’t think the OP would find this “particularly helpful”.

(Raphael would, as he appears to be interested in that sort of thing).

This is true but the ages are 18-21 or 16-23.

I am at a loss to understand this mindset.

Hallelujah.

Pay attention OP, AM is already working.

This is wrong. people clearly have more choice,

You imply they have unlimited choice.

TL:DR

Anyway OP, good luck and best results come from sticking to one thing and playing it for a long time.

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I am a strong believer that they do.

Every now and then you see someone rewrite the “rules” given by society.

Happens all the time.
This is indication of the fact that anyone can become anything if he sets his mind to it.

For some, the path might be MUCH longer than for others. But it’s still the same path.

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Thank you @remarkable for taking the time to analyse my post.

Btw, i’ll add that I got placed from campus into the 3rd biggest tech company of my country as a software engineer. Will start the job in July.

My OP may have given the impression that I have no job, living at home type stuff.

Well, that’s your (incredibly opionated) opinion and you’re welcome to it. To be honest I don’t think that comment is very helpful to them or me either. Come to think of it, it wasn’t that helpful when you said it to DarkPrince either. Everyone is trying to help in their own way here. But I’ve seen your habit of putting people down on other threads too, didn’t impress me there and it still doesn’t. Have a nice day.

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As frustrating as @David’s story reads, (especially since his issue is essentially a fundamental one), can we at least try to remain civil on this thread?

He knows what to work on, has identified several personal goals he wants to achieve, he just needs to understand that he’s starting at Level 1 and some patience is needed. That’s all.

Insulting the dude isn’t adding value, it’s value-stealing, taking cheap shots at someone for asking for help says a lot, unfortunately not about the OP.

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Trust me david, porn is a cruel beast. it will eat you alive and spit you with no mercy, and thos who say it is just as easy as stopping any habit are completly wronge.

because reproduction is our very basic need, our brain releases tons amounts of dopamine where it spot chances of succeeding with this task.

now imagine this, with couple of clicks your brain can access the evolutionary jackpot. breeding with multiple women from different races and locations, hence diversifying your spread to many different genetic hosts and multiplying your genes goal of survival.

research has shown that quitting porn is actually harder then quitting meth or heroin. it is that addictive.

which is why i highly highly recommend you first to get rid of this nasty habit before trying your luck in the dating game. the women will wait, trust me they go nowhere(and there are always new crop).

You have to read success story in yourbrainonporn, read “atomic habit” thoroughly and join support groups in whatsapp/discord/whatever else.
Having a reboot partnet will help you tremendosly to quit.

I guarentee you, after 90 days it will start become much much easier. and the benefits you will obtain will surpass most if not all subs combined(ok exaggarating here but you got my point😉).

Dont wait for tomorrow, every second of being prisoned to porn is one second less from your finite time on this planet.

I wish you good luck in your journey and if you want more info about where to find support groups DM me.

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Guys, don’t forget:

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Nothing personal, I just wanted to remind everyone what RVConsultant asked us to keep an eye out.
The behavior changes/recon related to the newest tech. Just that.

Like Michel said, let’s remain civil.

Thank you @PurpleRT73 and @Michel!

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