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#1

Long story short, I want to date my therapist.

I can tell she’s attracted, our age difference is minim too, but the ethical wall is still there and I’m in the process of breaking it.

I want to touch her heart and seduce her fully.

I’ve been running WB+PN, and I want to add a third title (experimenting with 1 full loop of each, every other day), and have been wondering which title would suit my situation better, Heartsong, or Primal Seduction?

Currently I’m leaning towards heartsong due to the romantic and love aspect of it, as my sexual aura, charisma, social skills and seduction is already on point with WB+PN

I’m wondering if maybe the more aggressive approach of PS will do a better job in captivating her rather than the more intimate and genuine approach of HS?

for the record, I am an enfj-A (natural charisma, leadership, deep connections, motivational etc.)

My guess for her is inxj-T (very introverted and quiet, but shows a lot of emotions through small physical cues, loads of empathy which she hides away, highly intelligent.)

#2

After you are done with all the therapy sessions, ask her out.

Not really necessary but if you want to…

…then run…

Take her on a date to a bookshop. She will love that.

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#3

Another option for the third title is Love Bomb.

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#4

I feel that heartsong resonates more with me, from it’s description.

And yes, I definitely will ask her out, I already worked a whole bunch of my magic on her and the other group attendants (group therapy + private sessions).

I’m ending therapy in 2.5 weeks from now, and I want to absolutely maximise my chances, which is exactly why I made this post.

I can see a lot of potential in her and I want to go all out (and I will!) with my romance and seduction, and I think PS or HS will aid in that, again, leaning much more towards HS…

I would probably switch WB with PS if it came down to it, but the benefits of WB are just too huge, the social interactions and power that comes with it, the pure fun aspect, the control, charisma, attraction etc…

Even though PS will probably suit me well too, the extra functions of WB (physical shifting and the like) are just too good to skip on.

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#5

Not to be a jerk or anything, it’s a legit question. How have you ruled out transference when it comes to her?

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#6

oh definitely, this goes way beyond transference, had a lot of psychologists before, attractive ones too… This connection is different and is something I’m willing to pursue.

I want to balance out the dynamics and hear her side of the story too, and do not want to be the only one talking. Well aware of the risks etc.

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#7

If she does go out with you, she could have negative consequences from the ethics committee of her state licensing board, even legal consequence.

#8

yeah, in theory, that is if we get caught, and even then, when it comes to rules/laws etc. in my country, the men cannot be victims pretty much. I don’t think anyone will actually bat an eye when it comes to female therapist male patient (especially after therapy is over)

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