My thoughts on Seduction Subs

Questions and Comments
#1

I make a comment or observation and you all almost take it personally. I am just of a different mindset than I was 20 or 30 years ago. Even if I was single I would probably still feel the way I do now.
My feelings speak volumes to how amazing the Subliminal Club products are. I say that because prior to Dragon Reborn I was an insecure and immature mess. I projected all of my self worth and happiness onto other people. It’s really not surprising that I am still digging through the mess of anxieties I developed with my prior mindset and beliefs.

I am in no way criticizing anyone or what they want to do. I just ask that people look at and possibly consider the reasons for wanting a relationship or a sexual partner or seven. I really don’t want to see anyone make the same mistakes I possible. That level of regret isn’t fun. I hurt a lot of people with my words and actions.

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#2

Hi Jon we all appreciate you sharing your insights its a forum we are all able to do so thanks to the founders. Your insights have been noted and i will make time to consider what is good for myself.

#3

Every morning I wake up, I tell myself the same thing: Every day you either choose to be a JChad, or a JCel; ultimately, it is your choice.

This mantra powers me through my darkest moments.

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#4

I understand what you’re saying, but I think this will never work. You can tell people countless times about the mistakes that you made, but people need to learn it for themselves. We learn from trial and error.

When I was really skinny and went into fitness, it was such an amazing period in my life. I felt great! I was building my body, getting more attention from women, and just building my ego/pride to the highest level. People were really attracted to this energy. But it still felt empty when I had casual sex with a woman from the gym. I had to go through that period of my life to understand that it doesn’t mean anything.

But it’s also a defense mechanism for people to not go through the resistance of learning how to deal with women and get a kick out of it. Look, when I start flirting with a woman it gives me a boost of confidence, playfulness, and testosterone. It’s a human need to have sex and be liked by the group. Nothing wrong with that. The problem is the validation that people need. If you have sex because you like to make love and experience different people, there is nothing wrong with that. But the moment that you need woman to look at you and give you attention for your own confidence, then you are lost in the world of ego.

So no, I truly hope people make the dumbest mistakes with women so that they learn. Maybe not even in this lifetime, but the next.

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#5

@bombayduck Its great to hear from you after so long !.

We all have dreams and often us men are blinded by romantic love as Ben Kingsley once said and hence we must make a choice.

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#6

Not sure what you mean by this but I think you’re misunderstanding my intentions
It’s about being an emotionally healthy person. Not some angry insecure woman hater

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#7

Just making a joke and a play of words with your username, no ill-intent directed to you whatsoever.

Was trying to go for a more ‘Chuck Norris’-type joke (if you remember from the late 2000s/early '10s), seems like I missed the mark. Forgive me JChad.

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#8

Who’s Jon?

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#9

I thought his name was James . . . Mr J., come here and clarify.

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#10

It is. Blackadder knows that, too

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#11

Ultimately we have to make choice…there is always a risk in whatever decision we make. I mean how does one grow without an experience ?

Do we play the game of life ? or do we ignore the choice is yours.

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#12

I don’t get it

#13

@noaha one must face the challenges in order to grow.

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