Deep State to literally go deeper into this state you’re describing.

Ego Adsum is like Everpresent with the description that Ego Adsum is mental, Everpresent is spiritual. The difference is probably too nuanced to really worry about.
Regardless, I think better than Everpresent for you is Starfilled Night. Being transfixed by beauty is the definition of being in the present, and women REALLY feel and appreciate when you perceive them as beautiful. Not hot/sexy/etc but truly give her a look like she’s beautiful, she’ll melt. They feel very seen from that. And it solves your present moment question.
I wonder if Emotions Unfettered would be helpful, for you to express/radiate the emotion of love you feel, and be more aware of the emotions you’re feeling due to them being more prominent.
Negative Energy Transmutation is important in sales customs because it helps you stay present and on target even when things don’t go according to plan - in your case - getting AMOG’d, or shit-tested, or whatever they call it nowadays. I think this serves your purpose better than Steadfast. You’re going to get tested - not threatened seriously.
EDIT: I know it’s not EXACTLY aligned with your goals, custom, or question, but I am always an advocate for You Are Not Alone any chance I get to speak about it. Amazing connection-building. Find out where you have 100 things in common with people very very quickly. Saint says it’s one of his favorite modules. It’s one of mine. It’s, as he described it, like Inner Circle, but IC is for profitable connections and YANA is more for deep connections. I don’t think it’s a module that will work on EVERY girl, but idk, maybe it will work on all of them to a certain degree… it’ll push the level of connection to the maximum level possible given the reality of your true chemistry with her… but worst case scenario, it won’t effect some girls, and will effect other girls and help you find those diamonds in the rough more frequently - if they have potential to become a deep connection, they will.