So my current stack is Primal, Ascension, and Minds Eye. I have noticed more women staring at me, smiling at me more etc which is nice and what I am going for. Although lately I have noticed more men staring at me more. Any idea what this is about? The only thing that comes to mind is a result of inner status but I’d figure I would ask the forum for more insight.
While I have been on my sub journey for about 7 months now, alpha characteristics are still relatively new to me and it only really started to kick in in the beginning of summer. So I guess I am really asking from a perspective of wanting to understand this kind of behavior.
Yes. When you reach a certain level, you will automatically receive admiration. And it is different based on the genders (and sexual orientation too of course).
But mostly, when you are Alpha, men want to be you and women want to be with you. That’s the look you are getting. Enjoy it.
On a biological level we are hardwired to know our place in a hierarchy and since you rose in status, more people are recognizing that and the reactions are normal. Well, it is normal but since you are new it, you will get used to it soon.
Yea I remember I awhile ago I was walking through a drug store and this, I dunno, college age athlete with the muscles and stuff, younger than me, as I passed him he noticed me and I saw him give me his seal of approval to himself. lol Like the kind of head nod admiration kind of thing.
Even though I wasn’t feeling it internally, it was still coming off my aura because of the alpha title I was on at the time.
Another time maybe week/months before that had an older man say “he’s a real man” about me, and he meant it, and I wasn’t feeling like that at all again. But I was on that same title.
Have you ever been out and about in public, with plenty of people around you and lots of things going on when suddenly, you felt your attention drawn to one particular person in the area?
Maybe there’s nothing really remarkable about the person at first glance but still, you feel drawn in a sense to them? Or that maybe they’re just a person of average height and build and yet, there’s an unmistakable strength that seems to emanate from the individual?
When I am on Primal, which has always been in a custom with another major, inside I feel like Khal Drogo in my dominant nature. I always get stares with Primal, of varying natures. I’m very expressive of my dominance when running Primal for any given amount of time and that hasn’t stopped since I stopped my Emperor/Primal custom months ago.
On Ascension, I have a presence that commands respect. I used it while recovering from a work injury a year ago and even in that what might normally be considered “sorry phase” not working and kicking back on the couch, each and every time I went out, I felt and moved like I owned the establishment.
I recall a time at the DMV I journaled about, where I hadn’t been out of doors in awhile. I believe COVID was still a big deal. So people had on masks. And yet, I was supremely unworried about others around me, them looking at each other with side glances wondering if they were too close to each other and all of the other stuff I’m sure we all remember.
But me?
People were at least 6 inches inside of my social distance bubble or trying to be. Ladies turned around in line periodically to casually glance ‘over me’ and around me down the line, like I’m not 6’4. People were talking to me, I gave short, curt answers that cut off most people’s attempts (I don’t like the DMV) and made the girls behind and in front of me more intrigued, judging by their increased rate of appreciative glances.
You’re going to get stares of all sorts running these two, man. It’s a pretty strong combo there, and then you’ve got Mind’s Eye. If you’ve had any sort of desire for people to reflect what is desirable about you, Mind’s Eye is going to make that happen especially linking with that stack.
Men are going to stare at you on these titles. In fact, I’m kinda surprised I didn’t realize this before but… It’s hard to expect women to look at you appreciatively without men also being curious about you, if you think about it. If only to wonder, “What’s he got going that I don’t?” If they notice women watching you. I see it all of the time, you get used to it.
Men are also going to watch you for the simple fact that most people compare themselves to other people, all of the time, without really thinking about it. So they’re looking at you and I’m sure you can figure yourself what they’re considering, since you know you.
Whether it’s jealousy or desire, they’re both affirmations of your worthiness.
men staring is not the worst thing could happen…old ladies or middle age unattractive women acting out aggressively and abrasively is way worse…believe me it is eye poking experience…at some point you might have to encounter people like that…not every one is in a right mental state…some people are just internally twisted and needed a lot of inner work done before they could act somewhat decent…just be prepared ，as you continue your inner journey…weird things happen…
Yea one time during the store changes where they had lines on the floor and all that. And they put signs on the doors for exit only. One time I was walking out and an older ugly lady was coming in and she was just trying to make me into a problem.
She wanted a fight. I was supposed to move out of her way because she was coming in the door marked exit. But it was at the point where people stopped wearing masks and worrying about distancing and all that stuff.
I just kept walking and told her she was going the wrong way. Owning your own space can trigger people and they’ll start fights because of their own BS and need for validation.
But I find most of the time if they started it they really just need to vent or want to run their mouths and then they get to feel stupid when you don’t react the way they were hoping.
that got me. oh man ever since i started running LBH, my mood is cheerful.