Yup, I do
Wanted cleans something
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Congratulate on your evolution.
I’m always fascinated and happy to hear aspiring life changing stories from others, because I was a codependent child in a nacisstics father family.
Growing up I always thought why me, only I was the worst luck person in the world. I was wrong, there are many children and hurtful trauma adults in the world.
We borned with misery but we defeat it, we evolve and “become legend”
Great things just start, they are waiting foe you ahead @Leandros.
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@Leandros We all have our own challenges you, me, the whole world. What matters is knowing what’s holding you back and having the courage to deal with it.
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Yea that’s necessary
Otherwise the graveyard is destiny.
Also important is to find stuff that really works.
I love life and somehow life loves me back.
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Can confirm.
Totally agree with all the rest too, @Leandros you do amazing work evolving and growing from all that happened. you’re doing great.
Having been on both sides, the dating scene is the difference between being in a desert or being in the middle of an ocean.
in both case, we may well die of thirst if we don’t find drinkable water.
Presenting as a man, I find it hard to connect with women often I have found them protecting themselves, putting on a barrier, because they have been hurt before, and become easily dependent and fragile once that barrier goes down, because they haven’t learned how to become stronger inside, beyond the barrier.
Presenting as a woman, I find it hard to connect with men, because they are so relentless in their attacks as soon as they see an opening. dirty old men wanting to have sex with me when I met them twice, yuck. I am conscious that is because I don’t have said barrier against others and they might interpret me as “sending signs” when I don’t just because I’m nice to them and they aren’t used to it.
Men have to build up that inner strength too or build a barrier, but it’s a different barrier?
barrier against themselves (men) vs barrier against others (women)
I believe it has to do with the difference in the type of attack we each take as well as what we’re told culturally growing up.
Men are more into direct attacks and indirect support, women are more into indirect attacks and direct support.
Though this is all very generalising and so not always true, we’re all human in any case, we are very much the same in how we function, we simply evolve in different environments with a different set of circumstances.
Anyway, that’s why the Wanted line seems awesome to me, and especially the Dream Boy one. though idk clearly how to vocalize it, I have a strong belief that it might help both sides, men and women, into having less attacks and barriers, and more potlucks.
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I wish that someone find a way to you, you like/want/adore/ ect ect. In a way that is right for you or whatever it is that you need.
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Switching from new wanted to wanted dream boy, felt like it changed the dynamic with a girl i was casually connecting with, we were bonding closely really quickly and she mentioned several times i was her dream man and that she wants to take things further and commit.
I wasnt really expecting that from her since the vibe was previously fun and casual, i tried to ignore it but she kept pushing it so i felt i had to be harshly honest with her.
With the change of context of connection come different expectations, al tho previously i was accepting and non judgemental of her, now she felt that i wasnt because i judged her for her past as i wanted to be completely honest with her on why i dont want to really go in this direction with her and that i cant really honestly accept her in this way. Al tho we both want the same things family, kids… It didn’t feel perfectly right having that with her.
She felt heartbroken in the moment and I could feel the sadness of her and dissapointment , there was still emotional connection between us but it killed the vibe off from warmth to colder energy.
Wasnt expecting this harsh of a recon but it is what it is.
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This subliminal took the base of what Primal Nights did for my marriage and elevated it to another level. It did cost me some money though. I am a pretty big F1 fan and decided to buy some F1 clothing as part of my authentic style. My wife who isn’t a fan of racing even said she liked it on me after she rolled her eyes at first when I told her what I bought. The sex… is better than Primal Nights. Also her initiating a bit more makes it even better. Wheras on Primal Nights, I felt I had to initiate more.
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Can you say more about this? Do you mean for your goals, like wealth at that level is not a priority (or you have that coved already your background) or that the mechanism of it doesn’t resonate with you?
I loved HOM, and I like some of the effects of C&C but its not quite clicking for me the way HOM did.
Congrats 
I find it’s the most compatible of any seduction sub for career/work, maybe on par with Khan, but much easier and smoother.
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Cool 
I want to curate my instagram. Will be good, authentic and a quick impression of my ecosystem, editorially with WDB and the online authenticity allure… To attract and filter out.
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Your edgy as hell man LOL. I mean that in a good day
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I personally, would start curating my instagram for future opportunities, if this connection is fleeting. Post live shows you enjoy lol
Two, I would keep it casual. You’re both at a live show. You both enjoy and would go to a live show anyway. You could invite her to hang out at another live show. Keep it casual, and you’ll be doing this thing anyway, invite some friends as well if possible.
Casual, it’s just a hang out, you’ll be there with friends. You’re doing it anyway. Zero pressure. Take it from there.
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Ugh. Looks like my best friend’s abusive ex is back in his life. I know he needs the space to figure this out on his own, but the heartbreak hurts so much worse with Dream Boy helping me embrace my emotions. I know the recon is telling me to pick up Khan, get the power to protect my loved ones, but that isn’t how life works. I can’t keep someone from making bad decisions. All I can do is focus on me and be there when he needs me.
This is growth I’d say.
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Joe Lampton has “the 47 Laws of Instagram” which talks about how to set up IG profiles to get attention.
I personally don’t care for the guy much yet. But the info seems solid.
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Hmm, so I’ve had one younger colleague who usually finds me awkward and annoying have a moment of approval based confusion, then changed her mind about me and actively chose to sit in a seat beside me, occasionally leaning in accidentally on purpose.
Then much later another older colleague chose to accompany me home on the train in the evening for the first time. When talking she also sat close and I could clearly see her drifting in and out into a trance state. (Is this the dream pocket thing?)
DreamBoi is like the part of GLM where masculine protector energy is a safe inviting space for the feminine to unwind and relax - but with added ember fire ❤️🔥
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Making me wanna stack them both now. Dammit haha.
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Possibly. Most likely the side effect of her being so relaxed around you. When strong relaxation hits, a “dream-like” state can emerge. That’s how we achieve WDB’s goal practically. You’re calm, letting off calm and stabilizing energy, and those who choose to relax into it will.
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Quick question @SaintSovereign, my assumption is that the relaxed state or calmness within the user of WDB, wouldn’t necessarily make them passive in other areas of life, right? Making a woman feel relaxed and safe is the best way to become “Wanted”, especially in this day and age when most women feel overworked and underappreciated or supported.
Why I am bringing this up is to ensure if this is paired with C&C, the strategic and imperial sharpness of the mind coming from C&C won’t be blunted by WDB. Currently I am on C&C and QL, looking for a third one with some gravity (WB, W, WDB, ED).
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I just look at it as a blessing that we have it harder because theres higher evolutionary pressure and incentive to better oneself, the heroes journey is meant to be hard otherwise theres no sense of accomplishment
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This makes a lot sense to me, as the times in my life where I have been the most attractive and things been effortless is during periods of being super relaxed in mind and body. Also it’s the most genuine way IMO, as many other forms of attractants in social setting are based so much on status and other metrics positioning you higher than others in the pecking order, but usually with the trade-off that these guys are being being more tense and anxious in some ways.
Nothing wrong with either approach. But to me as the relaxed approach makes you more at ease it also has the effect of bringing others around you into more ease, and it just naturally leads to more depth and openness from potential partners from the get-go.
I guess that’s why this is the best fit for me in the Wanted line, and also programs like Chosen, as my natural style is just more gliding around calmly and relaxed and don’t care for too many silly social games when I’m out. At the end of the day, even if it took so long for me to fully figure this out, it’s about having fun… and every time I remember being legendary was just that… me being relaxed and care-free just doing whatever I felt like doing in the moment.
And likewise every time I have been in those high-status games and felt cool just bc of it, it just never gave me any joy in the end, as it just to me personally, is not what truly floats my boat. I like authenticity way more as it’s more courageous and more real.
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