Okay, why do women watch hallmark movies and fantasize about being swept off their feet by a poor small town farm boy with a heart of gold and gentle hands when their fiancee is a wealthy stock trader?
And said wealthy stock trader is actually a totally good dude, would provide a much better life for her but he’s just type A and successful?
Why do women fantasize about being swept off their feet by Frankenstein’s monster?
By dracula?
I just used three examples that caused a huge backlash from men when the cultural phenomenon happened.
Edward Cullen doesn’t exist, women were fantasizing about him before Rob played him, same with Jacob Black. Also, in the books neither Jacob or Edward are famous or known, they’re actually both reclusive and mysterious.
Justin is famous, yeah, so is Drake, and in all my years I’ve never heard of a single women saying that they have a crush on Drake lol.
Unfortunately too many of my examples are mythical monsters, but if you know women, they you know that women fantasize about Vampires and Werewolves and they have for like 200 years on record.
Heck why did more women have a crush on Ron Wesley and Draco from Harry Potter than Harry himself?
When Harry is clearly the alpha chad of the story, he’s literally the chosen one.
The through line in all of these is emotional depth and authenticity. Ron is a dork, Draco is a misunderstood and confused little psycho who redeems himself.
I can’t possibly pretend to understand all of women’s fantasies, but I’ve seen enough and done enough to know that the things that men think women want are not what they actually want.
The whole idea that men need to be 6’3 and 6 figures was an invention of men and has never reflected the reality of actual women.
I’ve dated the daughters of 2 millionaires. 2, it happened twice lol.
And in both relationships I was broke and trying to pull my shit together.
I left both relationships because I was unhappy with who I was, I wanted more, I wanted more money more success.
But I will never pretend for a moment that they gave a damn. Because if they cared, they wouldn’t have fallen for me in the first place.