Tbh its way better than being the one to cry over em lol
Ive been on the short end of the stick for damn near every relationship I’ve had
Could be both right? Also if you break up with them /: but for the 2nd one you said, eh the girl would have to be really immature I think to cry over that lol.
I’ve been or felt I’d been screwed over by girls in the past, but I don’t think I ever cried over them. I think that has more to do with you than the girl, like you’re giving them way too much importance.
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Yeah that was me in my teens lol
Now I have problems having healthy attachment like I went too completely opposite where I became just cold tbh
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I feel like thinking the other person needs to have the short end of the stick and they need to be emotionally dependent on you isn’t a good mentality, but that’s just me. Certainly wouldn’t work in any kind of long-term relationship.
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I agree. To me the hot and cold of WB should be fun, like a rollercoaster. Adding spice to the woman’s experience. Not a manipulative push pull thing that plays on insecurities.
Idk if it’s anyone else but the more I grow the more I find the idea of confident independent women attractive. I definitely had a fucked up savior complex when I was younger and chased after mentally unhealthy women. Fun times
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Same lol
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Reconcile and overcome the belief. Transcend it through conscious action and effort.
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Will this be getting a cover change as well?
Honestly, its probably coming from a scarcity mindset, I suspect, with respect. If he is a guy, whose longed/pined for a woman and the woman rejected him or alternatively, had a woman he really loved who “lost the feels” for him and ultimately left him, he might have been the one “crying” to speak and from his perspective, perhaps it is better to be the one moving on to a new relationship and being happy with a new girl…than being the one left behind while the old-gf goes and has a “hot girl summer” or “posts amazing photos of trips” paid for by some new hot guy she’s moved onto – living "her best life '"while he struggles to find someone one. If that’s his lived experience/frame, I could see why he’d want to live what the hot-girl who left him seems to be living compared to his potential loneliness or feeling of rejection.
However, there’s a lot of grey-area and places inbetween. You could have a mutual breakup and both find someone new in a short time or she breaks up with you and you find a new, better woman quickly while she struggles to find a better man than you… these, if he’s a below average or average man though, might not be in his lived experience or something he imagines as possible. But he can imagine the crying-over-me and not me-crying-over-you scenario as he just has to put himself in the shoes of his ex or imagine the scenario reversed.
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I am really sorry if I am annoying but I have a doubt.
Suppose I have a belief such as “I am undeserving of love” or “Noone likes me” or “I don’t deserve her”, then how do I exactly take action for such beliefs and reconcile them?
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One of the things I find super helpful for this. Is what is the subconcious payoff for believing these things.
It’s always a reason your subconcious mind hold onto a belief like that. Most likely it’s to keep you safe from something. As our subconcious actually never want to really hurt us.
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Yes. That’s what NLP refers to as “secondary gain”.
Beliefs and behaviors always have some sort of perceived position benefit to the user’s subconscious.
The trick is determining what that intended benefit/outcome is (separating it from the belief/behavior itself) and finding better beliefs/behaviors which honor that intended outcome/benefit.
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You’re running nectar then ? 
It’s almost always safety, “physical” or emotional.
That’s a possibility. There’s a whole spectrum of possible reasons.
@SaintSovereign @Fire if one can handle temptation, but has some reasonable self discipline, will this be okay for long term use if one is in a conventional relationship or interested to be in a conventional relationship?
I’m currently thinking how to include OG Wanted back into my stack for the attraction, performance and physical shifting, but would like to give this a go, specially the new update.
I like everything I’ve seen about WB, the physical shifting, the wealth inclusion, the social abilities, the attractive aura and mindset, but would this signal to a potential partner that I’m only interested or be best for short term or the attractive qualities of WB can also attract and maintain attraction for long term and serious partner/s?
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Sounds like you might have had it rough bud
I’ve had girls cry over me before in the past, while i was partying and living my best life too - literally had a girl confessing her love for me to a friend at the same party while i was too busy having fun. Goes both ways in life. I choose to identify as the guy women cry over and want to be with. WB is helping to resurface that in me. That’s all
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Anyone heard about advanced simping? Traditional simping is trying too hard to win over someone the old fashoned way. Advanced simping is doing the complete opposite in order to win over someone.
A normal simp: No boundaries, always available and tries too hard.
An advanced simp: Pre plans every word and interaction, plays games and tries too hard to appear unintrested. Is usually a simp at the heart but understands social dynamics.
While the methods differ, whats in common is that both try too hard and are far too invested.
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Thats also known as NEEDINESS.