I use lots of modules that are synergetic so difficult to isolate one action.
BDLM increased my perceived flaccid size, I can’t say it is overall bigger. Synergetic with RONW I guess, I have (day after the run) many women looking at my crotch. Same way you find it difficult to look into the eyes of a girl with big boobs.
Hegemon is about making you a powerful, charismatic, confident womaniser. I have maxed out on confidence, presence and status modules in my custom. I am the center of attention in social settings and I don’t know if it is WB or Hegemon to be honest, but Hegemon must have increased this. On social effects, I have not seen men wanting to be buddy-buddy, this is not what I am looking for, yet I experienced lots of respectful deference. I have not been in situation where I wanted to make male friends right now, everywhere I go it seems only women are hanging out lol.
This image is exactly how I feel. I feel my most attractive powerful self, women walk around me, touch me. I am basking in the feeling. Other men are looking me from afar with overall deference.
In a few occasions in discussions, I had women asking validation from me (like was I enjoying my time with them), and from the discussion they believe I am a womaniser but I am so sweet, attractive, charismatic that they are ok with it. One told me (playfully) you’re a [moderator edit: removed forbidden word], I said you can say that. We went for a quickie anyway.
Being a womaniser may not be well perceived if you are not owning it (congruence) but if you are ok with how you feel, if you provide an experience so good for them, they are ok with it. I think the downside with it is that you are perceived as someone who has lots of options so some women can leave if they think they are not on the level. Hence the need of hot (give attention) and cold (live your life).
And now because of the NSE, It become difficult to evaluate external effects because like I said before, now I developed a knowledge that I am the shit. I don’t need to see people watching me to feel like I am the center of attention, I don’t need to see IOI to know that women desire me. The internal feeling, the assurance that that is the true is stronger. And as per the NSE, events happen in my life that validate the feeling, like this :
I had a girl running into the lift I took, so we were two alone. We chat of nonsense and as I am getting off the lift I hear her say “you can take my number”, I acted like I did not hear her and went off. Lol. I mean this can only makes me believe I am WANTED. If I meet her again, I will be hot on her and I know I can have her (biblically) in minutes.