What I’m noticing is that when I think about "getting " a woman, the results drop off significantly, you get a gaze here and there, but sometimes nothing at all. Just now I decided there and then (prompted by Wanted scripting) that the chase was useless and to just focus on myself, look as good as possible, love the shit out of me and take the focus off everyone else and onto me.
Next minute a woman on the train stood so close to me on a semi-packed train I thought she wanted to jump my bones and raw dog each other there and then. Chasing, even mentally seems to repel , but not giving a fuck attracts.